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[*] posted on 3-24-2017 at 08:21 AM
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Many years ago I was in Mexico City on some business and my Mexican liaison told me that the way to tell the street peddlers no was to wag your pointer finger side to side, while pointing up, and they will leave you alone. On a recent trip to Mexico, my SO saw me do this and thought I was being rude. Am I rude or is this OK?
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[*] posted on 3-24-2017 at 08:24 AM


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[*] posted on 3-24-2017 at 08:54 AM


I first read about this in The People's Guide to Mexico by Carl Franz years ago. Works like a charm. BTW, If you have not already read this book, you should.



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[*] posted on 3-24-2017 at 09:05 AM


Quote: Originally posted by weebray  
I first read about this in The People's Guide to Mexico by Carl Franz years ago. Works like a charm. BTW, If you have not already read this book, you should.


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[*] posted on 3-24-2017 at 09:16 AM


A friend, who back in the 80s, had a VW diesel car and drove to Tijuana to fill it (diesel was like 25 cents a gallon then). He would deal with the window washers by simply dragging his finger across his throat if they ever came close to putting their dirty rags on his baby. Worked every time...

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Quote: Originally posted by David K  
A friend, who back in the 80s, had a VW diesel car and drove to Tijuana to fill it (diesel was like 25 cents a gallon then). He would deal with the window washers by simply dragging his finger across his throat if they ever came close to putting their dirty rags on his baby. Worked every time...

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This gesture does not seem very nice.
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[*] posted on 3-24-2017 at 09:49 AM


It worked instantly after being nice failed to keep the window washers from putting their rags on the glass. That was 37 years ago and I was a passenger in his car.



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[*] posted on 3-24-2017 at 10:30 AM


I don't think I'll be making that gesture to anyone, anywhere.
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[*] posted on 3-24-2017 at 10:42 AM


Quote: Originally posted by BigBearRider  
I don't think I'll be making that gesture to anyone, anywhere.


yeah no kidding! :no:
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Just say no, only once, and break eye contact.




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[*] posted on 3-24-2017 at 12:16 PM


Quote: Originally posted by DENNIS  

Just say no, only once, and break eye contact.


Personally, that is my method.




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[*] posted on 3-24-2017 at 12:58 PM



Yeah. It works most of the time. If not....get out the bear spray. That stuff has a way of communicating once and for all.




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[*] posted on 3-24-2017 at 01:17 PM


I am going to try the finger pointing up and being wagged back and forth on my students.

Really hard to get them to stop doing something I don't want sometimes.

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Like I mentioned....bear spray.




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[*] posted on 3-24-2017 at 02:13 PM


I learned the 'finger-wag' in Mazatlán in 1983, was told by a tour/travel agent about it... was for the persistent beach vendors. Start off with a ''no, gracias'', and if that doesn't work, then a stern NO, gracias mit de finga. It's like an exclamation point on your statement, and you mean business.... or lack thereof.



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[*] posted on 3-24-2017 at 03:14 PM


Thanx everyone. I finally found something I can be right about. :bounce:


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[*] posted on 3-24-2017 at 05:55 PM


I've encountered extremely aggressive touts and beggars in various Countries do to looking vary Gringo.
Tried many different tactics. A few times had to finally resort to standing in an aggressive manner and saying NO MELESTE !!!! Vary loud.
Some beggars tactics are to harrass until the victim gives them some money just to get away.

I agree that the finger wag works well in most circumstances.
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[*] posted on 3-24-2017 at 07:39 PM


Quote: Originally posted by dravnx  
Many years ago I was in Mexico City on some business and my Mexican liaison told me that the way to tell the street peddlers no was to wag your pointer finger side to side, while pointing up, and they will leave you alone. On a recent trip to Mexico, my SO saw me do this and thought I was being rude. Am I rude or is this OK?


The total gesture is the wagging finger plus the words "gracias, no!" With emphasis on the no.

This gesture is a conclusion to having said no once or twice before.




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[*] posted on 3-25-2017 at 04:50 PM


Quote: Originally posted by Paco Facullo  
I've encountered extremely aggressive touts and beggars in various Countries do to looking vary Gringo.
Tried many different tactics. A few times had to finally resort to standing in an aggressive manner and saying NO MELESTE !!!! Vary loud.
Some beggars tactics are to harrass until the victim gives them some money just to get away.

I agree that the finger wag works well in most circumstances.
You might want to try "no moleste" instead. Lol.



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[*] posted on 3-26-2017 at 07:55 AM


Years ago my Spanish professor told me that you simply say "No." If you say "No Thank you" they think you want to buy - there is no translation for Thank you but no thank you - if you say thank you they think you want to buy.
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