Originally posted by shari
That's a big 10/4...yup, uh huh, simone, we all must choose our own just paths...funny, I always give the window washers a peso or two and being the
true canadian that I am.... find myself wondering how much these guys make in a day....Juan, on the other hand will give them double, triple and
sometimes even 10 times as much as I would give them....cause for thought???? uh huh...so ummm is Juan, a mexican...contributing to inflation of
window washer prices???? Does he care??? Will he be less generous because it this??? NOTTTTTT...he doesn't do this because he is a rich man throwing
money around...he does this out of the goodness of his heart...I have learned an ocean of things from my husband and amigos here about generosity,
respect and unconditional help as well as something I am having a hard time putting into words here...something I LOVE about baja and this culture is
that everything is not set in stone, prices, menus etc...it is not all laid out for all to have the same rules...as life, each situation is a little
different and required different treatment...we should listen to each person and react to each and every situation differently...like the stop signs,
some you just sort of slow down and look both ways, some you almost stop, some you have to stop at depending on where they are and the time of day
etc....you can still reason with a cop here depending on the circumstance...or solve a problem uniquely...bend and stretch the rules to suit every
person and circumstance...get around walls...or over or under...here there is opportunity to be creative...to be personal...each encounter with
say...a cashier..is a personal exchange...the kid packing the groceries is your neighbours kid or nephew...we all help each other with what we can...I
may only have a peso one day or if I have a pocketful of change I may give him/her 10 pesos...but they will not then EXPECT 10 pesos every time....but
are thankful for whatever they get...this culture is very difficult for those of you who want CLEARCUT prices, answers, laws etc...cause life is just
simply not like that here...every day is different and we are just happy to wake up to greet the lovely dawn...if baja lovers can somehow observe,
learn, shed the USA values when they are here, adjust, understand and accept the cultural differences,
their life here would be much more pleasant...fuller...happier...
many of my posts are meant to help visitors to understand a bit more clearly what life for a mexican is about...even though I'm not one yet...I have a
mexican daughter, husband, family and friends who I have learned from...many of these cannot express themselves on this board so I try get some of
their ideas and values across to you...is this making ANT sense at all???? It's like alot of spanish dichos/sayings...there is no clear way to
translate it into english...you have to actually live it to understand and accept and appreciate it for what it is....not according to northern
values...we aren't in Kansas anymore... |