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Burbs - 6-19-2012 at 10:57 AM

Quote:
Originally posted by EnsenadaDr
Update on DENNIS

Dennis headed for Kaiser from at around 7:30 in the ambulance. He was ******* and moaning as usual and wanted his catheter taken out, saying "I have a nail in my $#&@..".I touched base with the charge nurse at Kaiser and she said that he was welcome either at Kaiser or the VA...Dennis wanted to go to Kaiser, and I personally like Kaiser better, the facility, but they will be getting authorization from the VA, so the VA will be directing his care. He stlll cannot move his left hand at all and his left leg is weak. I need to try and make his door and entrance wheelchair accessible, the guy that works for him was giving me a hard time, he wanted to focus on painting the guesthouse, I told him he had his priorities screwed up. I guess he wants to continue his job for Dennis and continue to get paid, but that is not the main focus here.

You are amazing Doc!

comitan - 6-19-2012 at 11:02 AM

Doc. You are the best!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:bounce::bounce:

Lindalou - 6-19-2012 at 11:25 AM

Vincente, went to the hospital in Mx with Dennis and spent the night with him. Bless his heart.

Dennis is now in Kaiser and if anyone talks to him, please till him Lulu misses him but she is fine. Vincente, myself and Mac will take good care of her. I saw her this morning and she sends her love to Dennis Vincente says Dennis is very worried about her.

[Edited on 6-19-2012 by RichnLinda]

Lindalou - 6-19-2012 at 11:40 AM

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Originally posted by Burbs
Quote:
Originally posted by EnsenadaDr
Update on DENNIS

Dennis headed for Kaiser from at around 7:30 in the ambulance. He was ******* and moaning as usual and wanted his catheter taken out, saying "I have a nail in my $#&@..".I touched base with the charge nurse at Kaiser and she said that he was welcome either at Kaiser or the VA...Dennis wanted to go to Kaiser, and I personally like Kaiser better, the facility, but they will be getting authorization from the VA, so the VA will be directing his care. He stlll cannot move his left hand at all and his left leg is weak. I need to try and make his door and entrance wheelchair accessible, the guy that works for him was giving me a hard time, he wanted to focus on painting the guesthouse, I told him he had his priorities screwed up. I guess he wants to continue his job for Dennis and continue to get paid, but that is not the main focus here.

You are amazing Doc!
Oh, I don't believe for a minute that vincente is like that. He was crying this morning for Dennis.

Linda..

EnsenadaDr - 6-19-2012 at 11:54 AM

Vicente didn't want to discuss arranging the entrance for wheelchair access. As you know Linda, Dennis has alot of stuff when you enter the door and I mentioned that we need to have it moved to get a wheelchair in there. Maybe Vincente didn't want to talk about it in front of Dennis cause he didn't want to upset him. He wanted to wait till Dennis got home to start making it wheelchair safe. But this has to be done in the immediate future, not later. So maybe I misinterpreted why he didn't want to talk about it. In these types of situations, you have to do what's best for the patient. Dennis said he would scoot around in his computer chair. I don't think that would work since he is partially paralyzed.
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Originally posted by RichnLinda
Quote:
Originally posted by Burbs
Quote:
Originally posted by EnsenadaDr
Update on DENNIS

Dennis headed for Kaiser from at around 7:30 in the ambulance. He was ******* and moaning as usual and wanted his catheter taken out, saying "I have a nail in my $#&@..".I touched base with the charge nurse at Kaiser and she said that he was welcome either at Kaiser or the VA...Dennis wanted to go to Kaiser, and I personally like Kaiser better, the facility, but they will be getting authorization from the VA, so the VA will be directing his care. He stlll cannot move his left hand at all and his left leg is weak. I need to try and make his door and entrance wheelchair accessible, the guy that works for him was giving me a hard time, he wanted to focus on painting the guesthouse, I told him he had his priorities screwed up. I guess he wants to continue his job for Dennis and continue to get paid, but that is not the main focus here.

You are amazing Doc!
Oh, I don't believe for a minute that vincente is like that. He was crying this morning for Dennis.

Lindalou - 6-19-2012 at 12:16 PM

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Originally posted by EnsenadaDr
Vicente didn't want to discuss arranging the entrance for wheelchair access. As you know Linda, Dennis has alot of stuff when you enter the door and I mentioned that we need to have it moved to get a wheelchair in there. Maybe Vincente didn't want to talk about it in front of Dennis cause he didn't want to upset him. He wanted to wait till Dennis got home to start making it wheelchair safe. But this has to be done in the immediate future, not later. So maybe I misinterpreted why he didn't want to talk about it. In these types of situations, you have to do what's best for the patient. Dennis said he would scoot around in his computer chair. I don't think that would work since he is partially paralyzed.
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Originally posted by RichnLinda
Quote:
Originally posted by Burbs
Quote:
Originally posted by EnsenadaDr
Update on DENNIS

Dennis headed for Kaiser from at around 7:30 in the ambulance. He was ******* and moaning as usual and wanted his catheter taken out, saying "I have a nail in my $#&@..".I touched base with the charge nurse at Kaiser and she said that he was welcome either at Kaiser or the VA...Dennis wanted to go to Kaiser, and I personally like Kaiser better, the facility, but they will be getting authorization from the VA, so the VA will be directing his care. He stlll cannot move his left hand at all and his left leg is weak. I need to try and make his door and entrance wheelchair accessible, the guy that works for him was giving me a hard time, he wanted to focus on painting the guesthouse, I told him he had his priorities screwed up. I guess he wants to continue his job for Dennis and continue to get paid, but that is not the main focus here.

You are amazing Doc!
Oh, I don't believe for a minute that vincente is like that. He was crying this morning for Dennis.
I will help you in any way I can by talking with Vincente with you. I don't know if it will help. If Dennis can talk on the phone with him, would make a difference but sounds like he doesn't think he needs any of these things. Hardhead!

DianaT - 6-19-2012 at 12:16 PM

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Originally posted by RichnLinda
Vincente, went to the hospital in Mx with Dennis and spent the night with him. Bless his heart.

Dennis is now in Kaiser and if anyone talks to him, please till him Lulu misses him but she is fine. Vincente, myself and Mac will take good care of her. I saw her this morning and she sends her love to Dennis Vincente says Dennis is very worried about her.

[Edited on 6-19-2012 by RichnLinda]


It is good to hear that Lulu is receiving good care and attention.

Maybe at some point one of you can take a picture of Lulu with her caretakers and send it to Dennis. I can really understand being very worried about his dog.

Very happy he was safely transferred --- And Doc---good on you for getting it all done!

Smile Dennis, by the time you read all of this, there will probably be a good argument happening on this this thread over something. :biggrin:

DavidE - 6-19-2012 at 12:41 PM

Having suffered an 80% loss of power in one leg, and 100% loss of use of my left hand and arm, I can say I prayed, swore, whined, and roared for a walker with BIG wheels, and a full crossbar to lean on. They do not exist in México or in the USA. Someone will have to find a wheeled walker with at least four inch diameter wheels and then fit a grip crossbar with vinyl handle. Put a front crossbar on it and attach a couple of those huge plastic spring loaded clamps to grasp things. Next is a basket to hold stuff.

He may need a wheel chair now, but he will ask for a walker just as soon as he is able to stand.

Get a pair of CANADIAN CRUTCHES in the states. Both are the same but they are a million times better than a crutch or a regular cane.

Make damned sure he has adequate grab bars for use around the toilet, and getting in and out of the shower. Get a big, a really big plastic chair (they are dark green) for him to sit on while in the shower. Make sure the tile is non slip. Those rolls of anti-slip shelf lining work great.

It is HARD to reach up to a grab bar, pull oneself up. Put the toilet grab bar at a level even with where he navel would be. The add a second one, parallel eight inches higher. If his shower has a big step up or down into it, add a wide step. Do not add a ramp! If his step is huge you may have to make two steps up. Whatever it takes. Just make sure he has something excellent to grab onto with his right hand.

He needs an electric can opener, and a wedge device to jam cans and bottles into mounted on his kitchen counter so he can open stuff with one hand. Go into your kitchen and try to do ANYTHING with one hand. You'll get the drift right away.

A l-o-n-g soft back scrubbing brush for the shower. He will want to wash his left side using his right arm and hand.

You cannot find any of this stuff in Mexico. Not in Tijuana or Ensenada.

The bath stuff can be found in Bed Bath & Beyond. Roll of anti slip in Home Depot. Safety bars can be made but don't try making them from skinny steel. If they have to be rebar, make it one inch stuff. He will need to grip to save his life.

Better hardware stores and Harbor Freight carry a really nice one handed pickup tool with suction cup-like fingers on the end. Don't settle for a cheap one! The good ones are made in USA and will actually work.

Make sure all his medicines come in NON-child proof Rx bottles. One handed removal of a child proof cap will leave the best of us in tears.

Figure out a good blood lab someone near Punta Banda. If they put him on blood thinners he must get his blood checked regularly, and it isn't an option.

Tie one hand behind your back, hop around on one foot and you'll gt an idea of what he is going to face until he manages recovery.

-From the school of the hardest freakin' knocks on earth

Insight from Experience

John M - 6-19-2012 at 02:38 PM

Great info DavidE

Certainly food for thought. Some strokes, as the two my wife has had are not nearly as severe as the one DavidE is referring to. Even the mild (mini-strokes) are challenging but with good care, helpful devices, love and determination recovery can be measured over time.

Enthusiasm tempered with patience and knowledge and a good re-hab program mean so much.

John M

woody with a view - 6-19-2012 at 03:21 PM

good advice DavidE. I think it's about time to start the collection process for our pal DENNIS. he would do the same for most of us, i'm sure!

i'll volunteer my time/tools/labor to install any grab bars, steps, or whatever he needs. i can possibly get some stainless grab bars free of charge from a sub contractor but i need to know dimension and quantities.

anyone else?

goldhuntress - 6-19-2012 at 03:57 PM

Yes, I can contribute $50. I will be down that way in August for the Blues Festival and can help at his place that week if there is a need for a helper at that time.

Money

EnsenadaDr - 6-19-2012 at 04:13 PM

Guys don't start with the money thing...Kaiser and the VA will cover it all. Just go visit him and that will make him really happy.
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Originally posted by goldhuntress
Yes, I can contribute $50. I will be down that way in August for the Blues Festival and can help at his place that week if there is a need for a helper at that time.

EnsenadaDr - 6-19-2012 at 04:17 PM

UPDATE

Just spoke to Dennis, he's in the "holding tank" as he put it waiting on the Doctors to give him his results of the CAT scan. He said our Moderator Doug Means stopped in to see him...that was nice Doug.

woody with a view - 6-19-2012 at 04:18 PM

hey Doc, can you take point on this until D gets ready to come home? there are U2U's flying offering all kinds of help, not just money. DENNIS is gonna need some additions to his house before he comes home. there are a handful of Nomads offering to make that happen.

they say it's the thought that counts. let's just make sure our ole buddy gets the care he needs first. things will fall into place as needed......

oh, and Thank You for caring about our friend!

[Edited on 6-19-2012 by woody with a view]

Help

EnsenadaDr - 6-19-2012 at 04:26 PM

Dennis built his house with a wheelchair ramp and the dimensions of the doorways were built with the dimensions of the wheelchair in mind. He is going to be fine. There just needs to be some furniture rearrangement to allow for passage of the wheelchair because he can't walk because his left leg is so weak. He can't use his left arm, but I am sure in time will be back at the computer pecking with his right hand. This is a terrible thing to happen to anyone, and for people to not pull together would be even more terrible.
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Originally posted by woody with a view
hey Doc, can you take point on this until D gets ready to come home? there are U2U's flying offering all kinds of help, not just money. DENNIS is gonna need some additions to his house before he comes home. there are a handful of Nomads offering to make that happen.

they say it's the thought that counts. let's just make sure our ole buddy gets the care he needs first. things will fall into place as needed......

oh, and Thank You for caring about our friend!

[Edited on 6-19-2012 by woody with a view]

bacquito - 6-19-2012 at 04:28 PM

Get well, I miss your commentaries:lol:

Russ - 6-19-2012 at 04:33 PM

Well Dennis, For those that accused you of being a half a$$ed I guess they're getting close now:no:
Sorry couldn't resist after your remark about being in the holding tank.
Speed recovery !
I have to go North and I'd like to visit you on the way back so I'll follow this post and wing it on the way back.

BajaGringo - 6-19-2012 at 04:54 PM

I am really glad to hear that Dennis is at Kaiser and getting the care he needs and thanks Janene for all your help. I was hoping to be able to stop in and see Dennis while we were heading south today but it looks like we crossed the border going in opposite directions. Please tell Dennis that I will be back up next week and would really like to see him, be it north or south of the border.

Take care old friend and know that we'll keep you in our prayers...

EnsenadaDr - 6-19-2012 at 04:59 PM

Ok Ron, I will be up to Kaiser this weekend so I will let him know.

I'm in

bajaguy - 6-19-2012 at 05:32 PM

For any help that is needed. Will be down for 6 weeks starting July 10th.

Info request.......does Dennis have a laptop?????....and will his recovery room at Kaiser or PT facility have internet acess???

Udo - 6-19-2012 at 05:32 PM

I just dropped off several of these at Bahia Asunción.

Also, I know about the blood thinners. I am going through the weekly tests at this time. Pain in the veins. The vampire nurses think I'm a "user".

There are lots of wheel chairs, and walkers with wheels available at the yard sales in the O.C. They are fairly cheap, and I'll pick one up if needed, and bring it down for the Los Niños event.
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Originally posted by DavidE


He may need a wheel chair now, but he will ask for a walker just as soon as he is able to stand.

Get a pair of CANADIAN CRUTCHES in the states. Both are the same but they are a million times better than a crutch or a regular cane.

Figure out a good blood lab someone near Punta Banda. If they put him on blood thinners he must get his blood checked regularly, and it isn't an option.


-From the school of the hardest freakin' knocks on earth

Lobsterman - 6-19-2012 at 05:43 PM

Janene,

How long is Dennis going to be at Kaiser in San Diego? What Kaiser and room is he at? I live in San Diego but I am currently working in Tucson for the next month. U2 me what i can do to help the old fart out while he is at kaiser. If he needs immediate help while I'm in Tucson I got others that can help him. A friend of mine is a carpenter and between the two of us could maker his place easier to get around.

Dennis

EnsenadaDr - 6-19-2012 at 06:06 PM

I am getting alot of inquiries about where Dennis is right now. Dennis is still in the "holding tank" Module A in the Emergency Room at Kaiser. The phone number there is (619)-528-5000. That person that answers, the Kaiser operator, will update you where DENNIS is. Actually she is a very nice lady named Terry, at least the one I reached. He has been in the "holding tank" for 8 hours, they are probably trying to find a bed for him. I don't know how long he will be there, I will let you know as soon as I find out. He does not have the coordination right now to use a computer, plus he does not have his glasses, which I will pick up for him before I go up there. He never used a laptop, only a Kindle, which is too small for him to operate at this time. So you can all call and ask where he is and what room he is in. He will probably go to a rehab center for a few weeks minimum after a short hospital stay is my guess.

Ateo - 6-19-2012 at 06:15 PM

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Originally posted by woody with a view
good advice DavidE. I think it's about time to start the collection process for our pal DENNIS. he would do the same for most of us, i'm sure!

i'll volunteer my time/tools/labor to install any grab bars, steps, or whatever he needs. i can possibly get some stainless grab bars free of charge from a sub contractor but i need to know dimension and quantities.

anyone else?


I'll go help you install. Edit: just saw his house is already setup for this.....I'll help in any other way once that vision gets materialized.

[Edited on 6-20-2012 by ateo]

wessongroup - 6-19-2012 at 06:33 PM

Can't say I really know Dennis, but I certainly wish him the best... and thanks to all that are giving a hand ... Very nice ... :):)

Lindalou - 6-19-2012 at 07:04 PM

Hi Guys, just talked to Vincente and he said he would be happy to build the ramp. He is a very good carpenter. He could probably do all the rest with a little guidence....Linda

WOW !!

captkw - 6-19-2012 at 07:11 PM

HOLA,first, how is DENNIS doing..I just got back from fixing boats and was hopeing to sea a E/mail from him?? just did a quik back read and dont get whats a going on:?::?::?::?::?::?: and I know there is some good folks here !!can I ,,PLEASE, get a quik rundown on dennis and WHAT the hell is going on around here !!feeling like a mushroom!!!! K & T :cool:

woody with a view - 6-19-2012 at 07:14 PM

we all want DENNIS to know he means ALOT to us who have spent countless hours here sparring with him! i have never met him, i have missed meeting him twice because of bumps in the road. my loss!

i consider him one of two (or four) handful's of Amigo's i would give two chiits about on this board.








[Edited on 6-21-2012 by woody with a view]

EnsenadaDr - 6-19-2012 at 07:17 PM

UNBELIEVABLE....

After 9+ frigging hours in the Emergency room I was about to blow my stack calling the hospital...I mean the man had a major stroke and he is kept on a gurney??? Finally, he has got a room on the 3rd floor, 3212B. Wow, was beginning to sound like IMSS...and those who want a quick rundown, you need to read the thread.

ensanada

captkw - 6-19-2012 at 07:33 PM

HOLA,MUCHO GUSTO...DESQUSBLE ME..NO POSTA'S..YO QU

woody with a view - 6-19-2012 at 09:15 PM

can someone u2u a room #? i never expected it would be public!

BAJACAT - 6-19-2012 at 09:50 PM

Blanca I think Woody was triying to be sarcastic...
I hope you get well Dennis,our best wishes from my family,they meet you in the India Bonita (Punta banda), toy drive for dia de Reyes.

BajaNomad - 6-19-2012 at 09:58 PM

When I stopped by there this afternoon, Dennis was "on hold" waiting for the doctor (internist) to come see him - before they were going to admit him to the hospital from the ER.

Said that having sirens on the vehicle is the absolutely the BEST way to get through Tijuana. I think he said they were playing banda music for the ride up to the border. He was appreciative of his view of the nearby nurses' station in the ER.

He indicated to me that he (originally) thought he'd had a heart attack, and that it took place on Sunday morning. I told him he'd last been active on the forums here just before 7am on Sunday, and he said that it must've been just after that. The records here show him last active at 6:34am Sunday. Said that Vicente had found him when he came to work on Monday morning.

While somewhat anxious at the hospital today due to the circumstances, he seemed to be in good spirits and thinking positively towards what his outcome would be eventually - knowing he still had some physical therapy to go through. The staff at Kaiser seemed to be fairly attentive to making him as comfortable as possible. He'd requested a catheter removed because of discomfort, and requested a pillow to prop up his right side because his tuchus was numb or sore - and they took care of these for him.

I'd brought some stuff with me for him to use if he wanted - a laptop, a cell phone, and reading glasses - but he refused all. Said his Kindle would get him online satisfactorily, that he'd just use his room phone with a credit card if he needed to place any calls, and that his neighbor Pam (who was there when I arrived) left him some reading glasses already.

I left at 3:30pm, and it seemed like they were going to have him in the ER for a few more hours.... which appears to have been the case judging from the items posted in the thread above.

I did let him know that Lulu was apparently being well taken care of, and he seemed confident that indeed that would be the case.

He spoke very positively and gratefully towards everyone who had been helping and supporting him through this - and especially noted his appreciation for the help from Janene.

-
Doug




[Edited on 6-20-2012 by BajaNomad]

sd - 6-19-2012 at 11:17 PM

Doc, Doug, Fernando and so many others,

Thanks for your outpouring of kindness.

Dennis, may your recovery go well. I am a couple hours away, and can help if you need me to.

Scot

Skipjack Joe - 6-20-2012 at 04:06 AM

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Originally posted by bajaguy
For any help that is needed. Will be down for 6 weeks starting July 10th.

Info request.......does Dennis have a laptop?????....and will his recovery room at Kaiser or PT facility have internet acess???


He wouldn't be able to even log in with one hand (hit keys <cntl><alt><del> simultaneously).

They'll provide him with a TV but that quickly gets old. A fresh and continuing supply of newspapers and current magazines was really welcome for me. Books - less so.

But the most welcome thing in a hospital are visitors. Just to talk to friends means so much. Even people you didn't like before are welcome.

SFandH - 6-20-2012 at 06:26 AM

This thread reminded me of a visit I had with a friend last week. He had a major stroke that affected one side of his body a few years ago, arm and leg. He eventually went back to work as an elementary school gym teacher (his nickname is Coach) and is retiring this year. He's looking forward to moving to his place near Puerto Vallarta, solo, he's a bachelor. He still has a limp but besides that, all is well.

Coach was hit hard, if he made it, I bet DENNIS will too.

Best wishes.

SFandH - 6-20-2012 at 06:34 AM

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Originally posted by Skipjack Joe
Quote:
Originally posted by bajaguy
For any help that is needed. Will be down for 6 weeks starting July 10th.

Info request.......does Dennis have a laptop?????....and will his recovery room at Kaiser or PT facility have internet acess???


He wouldn't be able to even log in with one hand (hit keys <cntl><alt><del> simultaneously).



One Handed Keyboards


[Edited on 6-20-2012 by SFandH]

noserider - 6-20-2012 at 07:06 AM

I wish You well dennis, You were the first to respond to My initial posts with assistance,and I appreciated that,I hope to see you back on the forum soon.

Update

EnsenadaDr - 6-20-2012 at 07:07 AM

Focus today is getting Dennis a hospital bed by the time he gets home with controls to lift his back up to sit up, since he has paralysis on the left side. Also he will need a shower chair and some bars installed in the shower. Getting the house handicapped accessible is my number one concern at this point. No money needed. His worker is going to be watching him during the day but until Dennis gets home Vicente is working for Dennis and I will have him install the bars etc. that we need. As for posting, I don't think Dennis has the coordination at this time to post and he refused to use his reading glasses which leads me to believe their might be a problem in reading comprehension but this will all be evaluated as time goes on.
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Originally posted by SFandH
Quote:
Originally posted by Skipjack Joe
Quote:
Originally posted by bajaguy
For any help that is needed. Will be down for 6 weeks starting July 10th.

Info request.......does Dennis have a laptop?????....and will his recovery room at Kaiser or PT facility have internet acess???


He wouldn't be able to even log in with one hand (hit keys <cntl><alt><del> simultaneously).



One Handed Keyboards


[Edited on 6-20-2012 by SFandH]


[Edited on 6-20-2012 by EnsenadaDr]

[Edited on 6-20-2012 by EnsenadaDr]

BajaBlanca - 6-20-2012 at 07:22 AM

Baja Cat - thanks for the answer and I removed my post - I AM SO DENSE SOMETIMES

or maybe I was just tired hahahaha

:lol:

BajaBlanca - 6-20-2012 at 07:24 AM

Ensenada Dr - for someone who was just doing her part by telling us about the proble, you sure have gone above and beyond what anyone could have asked for.

THANKS.

shows you sure deserve your license ....

Reporting in a timely manner

EnsenadaDr - 6-20-2012 at 07:31 AM

I watched how everyone suffered through the Ron Hoff incident by wanting to know how to help and what was going on, so I want everyone to know what is going on here and that NO money is needed.
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Originally posted by BajaBlanca
Ensenada Dr - for someone who was just doing her part by telling us about the proble, you sure have gone above and beyond what anyone could have asked for.

THANKS.

shows you sure deserve your license ....

mcfez - 6-20-2012 at 08:48 AM

Txs Doug for the great update.


Quote:
Originally posted by BajaNomad
When I stopped by there this afternoon, Dennis was "on hold" waiting for the doctor (internist) to come see him - before they were going to admit him to the hospital from the ER.

Said that having sirens on the vehicle is the absolutely the BEST way to get through Tijuana. I think he said they were playing banda music for the ride up to the border. He was appreciative of his view of the nearby nurses' station in the ER.

He indicated to me that he (originally) thought he'd had a heart attack, and that it took place on Sunday morning. I told him he'd last been active on the forums here just before 7am on Sunday, and he said that it must've been just after that. The records here show him last active at 6:34am Sunday. Said that Vicente had found him when he came to work on Monday morning.

While somewhat anxious at the hospital today due to the circumstances, he seemed to be in good spirits and thinking positively towards what his outcome would be eventually - knowing he still had some physical therapy to go through. The staff at Kaiser seemed to be fairly attentive to making him as comfortable as possible. He'd requested a catheter removed because of discomfort, and requested a pillow to prop up his right side because his tuchus was numb or sore - and they took care of these for him.

I'd brought some stuff with me for him to use if he wanted - a laptop, a cell phone, and reading glasses - but he refused all. Said his Kindle would get him online satisfactorily, that he'd just use his room phone with a credit card if he needed to place any calls, and that his neighbor Pam (who was there when I arrived) left him some reading glasses already.

I left at 3:30pm, and it seemed like they were going to have him in the ER for a few more hours.... which appears to have been the case judging from the items posted in the thread above.

I did let him know that Lulu was apparently being well taken care of, and he seemed confident that indeed that would be the case.

He spoke very positively and gratefully towards everyone who had been helping and supporting him through this - and especially noted his appreciation for the help from Janene.

-
Doug




[Edited on 6-20-2012 by BajaNomad]

Stroking ON

MrBillM - 6-20-2012 at 09:41 AM

Given the higher level of treatment available today, the odds for future At-Bats in the Nomad Nonsensical Nattering League seems promising. We would expect in no time at all to hear the same acerbic invective so well-framed.

Strokes, of course, can go either way. I've known (as I said) recently, one person who recovered completely from a severe stroke and is building a house in a remote area of Arizona. No residual effects other than some speech and difficulty reading LONG documents. Of course, he also has this feeling (so he says) of a Bomb poised to go off in his head at anytime. That fear will likely fade with time.

Others I've known, their FIRST stroke was just the prelim bout to the Championship fight which either took them to the land beyond or left them helpless invalids in a rest home reeking of Urine and other odd smells. One of those amazingly hung on in that condition for years, unable to move on her own and mostly unable to comunicate. The WORST of ALL Worlds. Although still "Alive" (?), we no longer visit because she has NO IDEA who we are.

So Dennis:

"Luck be a Lady Tonight".

Tomorrow, the next night and so on .................

DavidE - 6-20-2012 at 10:02 AM

First of all a huge hip Hip Hooray! For all the Nomads! I knew if I took the time to detail my experiences with not having use of one arm and most of one leg, that it would help Dennis.

But wait. Please read and understand the following.

A "stroke" does not "go away" like the flu. You can't set it like a broken leg. It is going to be a long-term recovery and whether or not he makes a successful return and recovery at Punta Banda, is going to have to lay on the shoulders of his friends.

A wheelchair ramp is fine. But he is going to have use of only one arm and hand for a long time. One really strong hand will make a wheelchair go in circles just fine. Please think about what you suggest. Pretty please.

He is going to need to have someone there very close by to help him. When I was all screwed up, I had to have a housekeeper in three times a week. A gardener. Just getting out of bed and making it to the toilet was a freakin' challenge. The closer he can be to "half-standing" when he gets out of bed or up from a chair, the better. I mean to not overdo it with sliding down onto one's feet, but don't make him arise from almost a squat position.

Independent SOB's do not want to be nurse-maided. They will want to do things on their own. To lose the ability to be independent could suck the will out of anybody.

Try cutting meet. Try opening a can, slice lettuce or a tomato, open a bag of macaroni elbows with just one hand. Try grappling with a paperback book, washing and drying yourself when bathing. Try picking up a bag of potato chips that fell to the floor. Try reaching a light switch or receptacle from a wheel chair. Reach for towels up on a shelf. Even a overly big bowl in a refrigerator is going to be a challenge to get it off the shelf, and on to a counter. If it has a tight lid, it is going to be a real son of a you know what. Ever open a milk carton or open a garrafon sealed cap with one hand.

With all due respect I am going to repeat myself. They do not give a shot in the hospital and all the signs of a stroke "go away". He may not be able to read easily. His long term or short term memory may be impaired. His speech may be slurred. He is going to have a hell of a time with a cellular telephone. Forget about Blackberries, he is going to need a full size keyboard.

This much I can be sure about. If his left leg and hand do not work, and his speech is slurred, he did not have a "minor stroke". He had a life-changing event and it is going to be with him, day and night for a long time.

All the bath accessories, and kitchen stuff I wrote about simply are not available in Mexico. I had a hell of a time finding a decent back scrubbing brush in the middle of California. Don't assume any of this will just work itself out. People have to talk to other Nomads and think about this stuff. Jesus, he won't even be able to reach the soap dish in the shower. I sure as hell wouldn't want a "helper" hand me a bar of soap through the shower curtain.

A dedicated Nomad or two or four are going to have to go to Dennis' abode, and imagine themselves going about a normal life as possible, while sitting in a chair, with one arm tied behind their back. Try getting out of that chair using one arm and one leg and getting to the toilet. Next, go into the kitchen and still sitting in the same chair pantomime making a meal, using a toaster, the stove, the refrigerator, getting a glass of water out of a jug of purified water.

A lot depends on what Dennis' condition is when he gets out of the hospital. But then, at that point, it is not, and may I politely repeat, not, the time to start going about planning for his return to Punta Banda. He himself does not yet know what lies ahead as far as "resuming as normal life as possible" with a stroke.

He is going to need all the clever, intelligent, and diligent work that he can get from his fellow Nomads.

I don't know what I would do if I were resigned to have to stay north of the border. I don't even want to think about it.

Gracias Amigos!

Udo - 6-20-2012 at 10:09 AM

Wisely stated, DavidE!

His living location in Punta Banda is not what I would call handicap friendly.

DavidE - 6-20-2012 at 10:50 AM

Disabled, por favor. Handicap is when you aren't worth much in golf.

Wish I weren't disabled with a starvation budget. I am in the wrong place with the wrong resources and it frustrates the hell out of me. The least I can do is spend some time at the computer.

The degree of mobility unknowns makes it almost impossible to know exactly how much added "assistance" he is going to need. I could permutate every action needed during the day and burn up a hundred pages on this forum. The best I can do is with generalities.

Someone needs to keep abreast of his recovery before his discharge and see how rapidly and to what degree he regains use of his limbs. He also needs to clearly and succinctly understand the degree of modification done to his living quarters before he comes to an incorrect personal conclusion that he is "screwed" as far as the possibility of returning to normal life at Punta Banda.

Stairs, are the biggest challenge. The biggest danger. An uneven or scrabble walk way is another. Door sills and steps. Getting stuff from the store. Getting medications. Getting to the doctor and lab work.

I used a lap top with SKYPE to make telephone calls. The keyboard was a godsend for dialing. I have headphones and a damned good microphone built-in. The clarity in which someone on the other end can understand impaired speech will be vital.

He will face a hundred times the degree of hazard at night in a power failure. Make sure he has access to a one-handed battery powered lamp, and lots of extra batteries and a few emergency small lamps.

I now what I am writing here serves to be a "downer" to some people. But "some people" are not what I am trying to help. please understand that.

Lindalou - 6-20-2012 at 10:59 AM

Quote:
Originally posted by Udo
Wisely stated, DavidE!

His living location in Punta Banda is not what I would call handicap friendly.
His living conditions are a lot more handicap friendly then most. When he built his house he put in a wheelchair ramp then. So getting him up to his house and down off his deck will be the easy part.

EnsenadaDr - 6-20-2012 at 11:09 AM

Wow, all I can say is that Linda, Dennis' neighbor is a really nice lady. So glad to have neighbors of Dennis around like her, as well as Mac. She is willing to help, and I guess you better cut that tree down before he comes back, ha ha JK!!!

edm1 - 6-20-2012 at 11:32 AM

As it has not been ascertained the extent of Dennis' physical disability as a result of the stroke, let's not focus on the negative extremes. I am a first hand witness of someone who suffered the same, yes left side paralized (with brain hemmorage) and he recovered visual, speech and movement coordination and strength in just 3 weeks. No wheelchairs, no grab bars, no specialized can openers, just lots of tlc from family and friends.

Dennis, I wish you the best.

[Edited on 6-20-2012 by edm1]

Mula - 6-20-2012 at 11:48 AM

My Mother suffered a stroke when she was 64. Left her with no right side hand, arm or leg and no speech.

We had constant physical therapy, speech therapy, all the newest and cutting edge medical input - traveled to where ever it was. She never gave up hope of recovery.

Hit probably every hospital on the West Coast and many others.

We ended up in Istanbul Turkey one 4th of July in 1979.

Had her with me for 25 years before passing on.

She had her Seagram 7 every night and helped raise her grandson.

Strokes are eye openers and a real challenge.

Wish Dennis the very best recovery possible.

DavidE - 6-20-2012 at 11:49 AM

Please pardon me, I must have gotten the wrong impression...

(From Ensenada Dr.)

[" because he can't walk because his left leg is so weak. He can't use his left arm, but I am sure in time will be back at the computer pecking with his right hand. This is a terrible thing to happen to anyone, and for people to not pull together would be even more terrible."]

Lindalou - 6-20-2012 at 01:19 PM

Quote:
Originally posted by EnsenadaDr
Wow, all I can say is that Linda, Dennis' neighbor is a really nice lady. So glad to have neighbors of Dennis around like her, as well as Mac. She is willing to help, and I guess you better cut that tree down before he comes back, ha ha JK!!!
Thanks Janene, tell him I will cut them both down. well maybe not he will have another stroke!;D...Linda

bajadock - 6-20-2012 at 02:42 PM

Saw him just before noon today. He was in good spirits, happy to have visitors(Nomads and neighbors) and happy to be receiving good care. He had just returned from an EKG at 10 and was wanting to sleep.

I missed meeting Ferna(FDT) for about the thousandth time, but, Dennis said Ferna had been pestering him regularly.

Hope San Diegans stop in and keep him motivated.

DavidT - 6-20-2012 at 02:55 PM

I spent ten days in rehab at Sharp Memorial this April. As Dennis progresses with his rehab they will be very specific about what is needed. Until there is more information it might be best to be ready and waiting to help.
With that being said, Dennis I hope you recover well and quickly.

David

Oso - 6-20-2012 at 03:08 PM

Guess I'm lucky. Recently had a TIA (Transient Insigence Attack) otherwise known as a "mini-stroke". Not fun, but only a week in hospital and I'm more or less OK. Getting old really bites. Best of luck to Dennis, really miss his acerbic commentary.

desertcpl - 6-20-2012 at 03:14 PM

My gosh Dennis

I leave for a few days and come back to hear this

glad you made it, and I hope for a full recovery, please keep us posted when you are able

Ken

Cypress - 6-20-2012 at 03:44 PM

Dennis, Wishing you a speedy recovery. Strokes are hard to deal with, but if anybody can deal with one, you can.

captain4tuna - 6-20-2012 at 04:08 PM

Wishing you well Dennis......

that was nice Doc...

EnsenadaDr - 6-20-2012 at 05:23 PM

Very nice Doc you are a laugh a minute and I am sure he enjoyed the spirited bantering.
Quote:
Originally posted by bajadock
Saw him just before noon today. He was in good spirits, happy to have visitors(Nomads and neighbors) and happy to be receiving good care. He had just returned from an EKG at 10 and was wanting to sleep.

I missed meeting Ferna(FDT) for about the thousandth time, but, Dennis said Ferna had been pestering him regularly.

Hope San Diegans stop in and keep him motivated.

David K - 6-20-2012 at 05:34 PM

Since visitors to see Dennis are welcome at Kaiser, what would be the best time of day or evening to try and visit Dennis there? Can we sneak a Pacifico in (I am just kidding)?

For EnsenadaDr

Gypsy Jan - 6-20-2012 at 06:19 PM

I do not want to hijack this thread about Dennis and his recovery in any way, but may I ask you about the details concerning choosing between the VA hospital in La Jolla and alternate hospitals the the VA administration reimburse?

Does a vet with no other outside insurance get to choose a hospital in San Diego and will the VA will reimburse?

kaiser vs VA

EnsenadaDr - 6-20-2012 at 06:42 PM

Dennis had supplementary Kaiser insurance, and I called Kaiser admitting and they said as an emergency patient he could go to either ER. I know that sometimes Kaiser will keep VA patients more often than not for a lack of beds. Dennis chose Kaiser and as I may have mentioned the surroundings are alot nicer to start off with initially, plus Kaiser is an excellent facility as well.
Quote:
Originally posted by Gypsy Jan
I do not want to hijack this thread about Dennis and his recovery in any way, but may I ask you about the details concerning choosing between the VA hospital in La Jolla and alternate hospitals the the VA administration reimburse?

Does a vet with no other outside insurance get to choose a hospital in San Diego and will the VA will reimburse?

bajaguy - 6-20-2012 at 06:46 PM

Quote:
Originally posted by Gypsy Jan
I do not want to hijack this thread about Dennis and his recovery in any way, but may I ask you about the details concerning choosing between the VA hospital in La Jolla and alternate hospitals the the VA administration reimburse?

Does a vet with no other outside insurance get to choose a hospital in San Diego and will the VA will reimburse?





I believe that Sharp Medical Center also has an agreement with the VA that allows Sharp to provide beds/treatment for VA eligible patients.

thebajarunner - 6-20-2012 at 09:00 PM

Correct me if I am wrong, but Dennis is well past 65, and likely on Medicare, and has a Kaiser supplemental.
There would be no need for VA, he should be virtually 100% covered under the Kaiser and Medicare.
And, we found a survey last month that lists Kaiser Medicare supplemental as the premier coverage in California.
Not sure what all the VA dialog is about,

(And yeah, I am a veteran, but would never use that service, given my other coverages)

Ken Bondy - 6-20-2012 at 09:58 PM

DENNIS get well quickly!! We need you back here amigo!

Bob H - 6-20-2012 at 11:45 PM

Quote:
Originally posted by thebajarunner
Correct me if I am wrong, but Dennis is well past 65....


I wondered about his age myself... I never met DENNIS face to face.

Bob H - 6-20-2012 at 11:48 PM

Almost 10,000 views on this thread in less than three days.... That says something about how Nomads feel about DENNIS!

BajaGringo - 6-21-2012 at 07:38 AM

Thanks Fernando for all your help. I know what you did for me and it was very much appreciated! Please give Dennis my regards when you see him...

Leo - 6-21-2012 at 08:03 AM

Dennis, please get better. You are the one who has made me laugh the most on this forum.

nbacc - 6-21-2012 at 08:11 AM

Get well soon............you keep Nomads interesting and fun!!! Nancy

KASHEYDOG - 6-21-2012 at 08:19 AM

Hey , Dennis.
Can I put my name on your bar stool at Sharkey's till you come back ???...:lol:...:lol:...:lol:
I promise, just till you get back....... I'll even put it on with velcroe. OK ???...;)



[Edited on 6-21-12 by KASHEYDOG]

Stool Use

MrBillM - 6-21-2012 at 08:39 AM

It sounds like he wouldn't be needing it for an extended period.

At least.

shari - 6-21-2012 at 08:46 AM

Dennis honey...I am keeping a bongo vigil going in my head for ya buddy...can you hear it?

KASHEYDOG - 6-21-2012 at 08:49 AM

Quote:
Originally posted by MrBillM
Stool Use
It sounds like he wouldn't be needing it for an extended period.

At least.
...:rolleyes:...:no:

You obviously don't know that tough old Goat...:yes:...:smug:...He "shall return"...

[Edited on 6-21-12 by KASHEYDOG]

Mulegena - 6-21-2012 at 12:36 PM

Quote:
Originally posted by Leo
Dennis, please get better. You are the one who has made me laugh the most on this forum.
Yeah, me too. Sometimes I've been really outta the box mad at you,
but usually I'm tickled to the point of snorting coffee all over the keyboard... darn ya' anyhoo!!!

and Shari is keeping a bong vigil? -- oh, she said bongo vigil, oooohhh, well then,

I'll lay out some hot riffs on my Dumbak and send 'em your way, too. :dudette::smug:

woody with a view - 6-21-2012 at 12:39 PM

Quote:
Originally posted by woody with a view
here's to you Dennis:


Nuff said!

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BajaBlanca - 6-21-2012 at 12:55 PM

I bet the left leg movement is a really good sign ! How fantastic ...

Mulegena - 6-21-2012 at 01:28 PM

Quote:
Originally posted by BajaBlanca
I bet the left leg movement is a really good sign ! How fantastic ...
Given the above photo I'll bet he's dancing... or something ;~)

luv2fish - 6-21-2012 at 01:33 PM

Quote:
Originally posted by BajaBlanca
I bet the left leg movement is a really good sign ! How fantastic ...

Given the above photo, maybe it wasn't his left leg that was moving...:lol::lol::lol::lol:

woody with a view - 6-21-2012 at 01:56 PM

and that WOULD be a good sign!:light:

Hook - 6-21-2012 at 02:10 PM

I've done some research on that movement in his legs while he's asleep.

Turns out it's a fairly common condition that is localized to the northern Baja area near Ensenada.

It's referred to as S.S.S.S., which stand for Sudden Separation from Sharkey's Syndrome.

The physical manifestation of the syndrome is known by it's abbreviation: S.S. for the Sharkey Shakes.

There is no need for alarm, really. But the condition will likely remain.........until he occupies his seat at Sharkey's again.

Some temporary relief has been reported, using elixirs similar to those served at Sharkey's.

Dennis, I'll raise a glass of elixir in your honor this evening around 5pm; a very traditional time for this in the part of Mexico where I live.

Hmmmmm............seems the elixir is supposed to be supplied to the person displaying the symptom. Oh well, can't be helped.

Godspeed your recovery, sir..................

[Edited on 6-21-2012 by Hook]

KASHEYDOG - 6-21-2012 at 02:31 PM

HOOK !!! You velly funny man. You make a me raff......:lol:..:lol:...:lol:.



[Edited on 6-21-12 by KASHEYDOG]

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EnsenadaDr - 6-21-2012 at 02:58 PM

DENNIS is being stalked...

Dennis said he had a woman stalker that said she was his wife sleeping in his room by the last name of Ortiz. He had to call security and get her escorted out. He said he woke up and she was sleeping in a chair in his room, and had been there before he got there. A Cyberstalker who fell in love with Dennis over his wit and charm on the Internet. Leave the man in peace, people!!

woody with a view - 6-21-2012 at 03:04 PM

Quote:
Originally posted by EnsenadaDr
DENNIS is being stalked...

and (she) had been there before he got there.


how would he know that? :?:

EnsenadaDr - 6-21-2012 at 03:10 PM

Well, Woody when he got there, she was there...so figure it out!!!

Pompano - 6-21-2012 at 03:27 PM

Quote:
Originally posted by EnsenadaDr
DENNIS is being stalked...

Dennis said he had a woman stalker that said she was his wife sleeping in his room by the last name of Ortiz. He had to call security and get her escorted out. He said he woke up and she was sleeping in a chair in his room, and had been there before he got there. A Cyberstalker who fell in love with Dennis over his wit and charm on the Internet. Leave the man in peace, people!!



This happens frequently to people like Dennis. Diversity comes along and whammo...

Dennis, when Diversity pushes you up against the wall, the best thing to do is... 'endeavor to persevere!'

Okay, got that straight? Good, then you're ready...proceed.



Meet Diversity...newest stool owner at Sharkeys.




[Edited on 6-21-2012 by Pompano]

EnsenadaDr - 6-21-2012 at 03:37 PM

Turns out it was a positive ID for Tila Ortiz, Woooosh's nemesis on OT..she was cuddling up to him (in his words lying all over him) and inviting him to go to her house for "Rehab" at Canyon Lake...until Dennis reported her to the Doctor.

shari - 6-21-2012 at 03:41 PM

oh the intruige!!! Geezo Dennis...I'm jealous! Good thing I dont live in San Diego....

tripledigitken - 6-21-2012 at 03:42 PM

This internet is some crazy chit, wow.

DavidE - 6-21-2012 at 03:49 PM

Jeez, I had a La Paz transita "adopt" me. She waited on me hand and foot, made elaborate plans for my recovery, brought me gifts, candy, soda, and she was pretty young and not bad looking. All the nurses were snickering. Even the goddámn doctor turned around, studied her rear as she was leaving the room, and then gave me a wink. My room mate, a guy from La Paz in for pancreatic problems laughed so hard he had tears rolling down his cheeks. I sneaked out of the hospital and hauled A$$ when I was discharged. You may think all of this stuff is funny, but I sure as hell don't. Poor Dennis!

A transita is a female traffic cop. She was in uniform.

[Edited on 6-21-2012 by DavidE]

woody with a view - 6-21-2012 at 03:51 PM

when life gives you lemons.....:rolleyes:

sancho - 6-21-2012 at 04:01 PM

Quote:
Originally posted by DavidE
A transita is a female traffic cop


I'm glad you gave a definiton of the word transita,
my mind was wandering off in another
direction
Get Better D

wessongroup - 6-21-2012 at 04:14 PM

Dennis .... the chick magnet ... :biggrin::biggrin:

DavidE - 6-21-2012 at 04:39 PM

Sancho the slang term you thought you saw is "J" pronounced Hota. If it was a guy I would have gone out the freakin' third floor window.

Udo - 6-21-2012 at 04:45 PM

HEY, DENNIS!


I just picked up two walkers. Each has two different wheels on them (a 2" and a 4") because it is hard to tell which DENNIS will like. Plus each has a different fold-up mechanism.

I don't think you will be out before the July 15 Baja CC Fiesta, so I'll bring them to the Fiesta. If you are out of the hospital before then, I'll make a trip down your way and drop them at your house.

Very nice, Udo..

EnsenadaDr - 6-21-2012 at 05:00 PM

I am sure Kaiser will be giving him walkers..but the thought is well appreciated...
Quote:
Originally posted by Udo
HEY, DENNIS!


I just picked up two walkers. Each has two different wheels on them (a 2" and a 4") because it is hard to tell which DENNIS will like. Plus each has a different fold-up mechanism.

I don't think you will be out before the July 15 Baja CC Fiesta, so I'll bring them to the Fiesta. If you are out of the hospital before then, I'll make a trip down your way and drop them at your house.

Debra - 6-21-2012 at 09:48 PM

Holy Cow!

This morning I came online and heard of Dennis's ordeal and started reading, this is when it first came to my attention about Ron Hoff and his Mrs. ordeal.

I just finished reading 68 (yes, all 68) pages of that thread! Thank God they are well..........

I came across something Dennis said in that thread: I quote: "Man O Man, If I ever fall apart, I wanna do it right here"

Well Dennis, you did..........and I know that Nomad's will step up to help you in any way possible..

Anything I can do from way, way up here in the frozen tundra, someone please let me know.

Those of you who are closer please give him a big, hug for me!

WOW!!!!!!

bajaguy - 6-21-2012 at 10:01 PM

Good on ya, Udo!!!!!....hey, do either one a them walkers have a holder for a Pacifico????
Quote:
Originally posted by Udo
HEY, DENNIS!


I just picked up two walkers. Each has two different wheels on them (a 2" and a 4") because it is hard to tell which DENNIS will like. Plus each has a different fold-up mechanism.

I don't think you will be out before the July 15 Baja CC Fiesta, so I'll bring them to the Fiesta. If you are out of the hospital before then, I'll make a trip down your way and drop them at your house.

Sallysouth - 6-21-2012 at 10:19 PM

Oh DENNIS! Now you!!Geez, please get better.I reallly don't know how we will get along here without you.Sending healing energy your way..Hugs, Sal
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