Originally posted by Hook
Well, cowboys certainly can't be hired by phone. Nor, by wishing for it on the internet, over and over.
Some people need to realize that not every family reveres the corporal remains of a person as much as others. Remains are disposed of by fire,
committing to the depths and many other methods. Encasement in a box underground, after undergoing a series of chemical treatments, isn't for
everyone.
Maybe there is a certain equilibrium with the universe if a person who loved the desert is resting, unadorned, in the environment he so
enjoyed.......maybe Gary had left word with his surviving relatives on how his remains would be dealt with? Maybe this isn't so far off; he may have
requested ashes distributed in Baja?
Certainly the remains would probably be disturbed.......but that happens in burials at sea. And fire is certainly a disturbing process to the remains.
I sometimes think the whole process of cremation is for the benefit of the surviving, more than anything else. It helps alleviate thoughts of
decomposition. Well, you can't always get what you want........
The question of foul play will probably never be answered, given the level of forensic science in the area. And bringing your own science with you is
beyond the means of many............and may still yield the same incomplete answers.
And even if evidence of foul play were discovered, the wheels of justice in Mexico are too cumbersome and too expensive. In the absence of money to
motivate justice, the only thing that might get the wheels turning is political pressure. But it only seems like political pressure is used when the
victim is someone more prominent in life than Gary. You know, guys who have connections to senators or families who have donated to political
campaigns in the past.
There are limits to what the uninitiated can do in Mexico. At least securing the vehicle is still within their circle of control. Getting answers on
Gary's whereabouts probably isn't.
Some of you should just accept it. Possibly the family has, too. Discovering the mystery of the disappearance of Gary has a big dollar sign on it, at
every turn. Some families just can't afford that. |