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Today, I believe in God with all my heart and soul. After what Cristina and I went through last year, that belief today is only stronger.
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Hi Ron
Thank you for your intelligent, thoughtful post. You raise an issue that has confounded me for years, and perhaps you can shed some light on it.
In the aftermath of horrible experiences like you and Cristina went through last year, and after virtually every natural disaster (flood, fire,
tornado, hurricane, earthquake, etc.), someone always seems to state, as you did, with all sincerity and gratitude, the fact that he/she was spared
has somehow strengthened their belief in god (“…god was looking out for me…there is a god”, something like that). That is stated in spite of the fact
that god in its mercy allowed the horrible event to happen in the first place, suggesting that god, if it exists, is either impotent or evil, rather
than loving and caring. If god allows a horrible thing to occur in the first place, why would he/she/it give a damn who survived and who didn’t?
Perhaps you could shed some light on this, since you went through it. It seems to me that when a terrible thing happens to a person, and they
survive, logically it should cause one to doubt the existence of some loving and caring god, rather than strengthen the belief.
Please know, Ron, that I am not arguing with you or criticizing you in any way. You are one of my Nomad friends and I have great respect for you and
what you have done for others in need. But I need to know this. |
I have been of necessity had to deal with this issue in my practice as I have worked with many people who have had the sort of experience Ron has so
generously shared with us. I have both read and heard many accounts of near and death experiences. Many are profoundly changed by these experiences.
These experiences are common, though not universal. By using the term common I don't mean in any way to discount their significance.
In another post on "higher power and AA" I cite the literature on Psychedelic transcendent experiences in the treatment of addiction. I think you will
find that literature fascinating when considering this issue.
What Ron is describing is an EXPERIENCE, not an intellectual awareness, though intellectual integration is necessary following an experience like
this. These experiences are often integrated and discussed in "spiritual" contexts, we simply have no other context in which to do so. Our language
and "normal" experience does not for most include experiences like this.
It is interesting to note that Timothy Leary and Richard Alpert, both PhD Psychologists at Harvard, working on the MMPI, the most reliable and most
used Psychological test we have, took LSD and it changed their lives. I think it is interesting to note HOW it changed their lives.
Leary was a good Catholic boy who did it all right, in a very tightly bound Irish Catholic way, took LSD and went counter script "Tune in, Turn on and
Drop out". He then lived the rest of his life in essentially a rebellion against his rather rigid, controlled, contrived upbringing.
Now Alpert on the other hand said to himself after taking LDS...hmmm... these are experiences that we have no context to integrate (he could have
talked to a Native American shaman and got some insight) so I'll go to India where I know they have had thousands of years of experience with these
matters. He went to ashram after ashram before spending a lengthy stay with a guru. He decided after this experience to come back to America and work
with dying people, as they had in his view the most immediate possibility of full aliveness as they faced their death. He was instrumental in the
development of the hospice movement.
Some religious scholars have concluded that Jesus took psychedelic mushrooms with hermit monks during his sojourn into the desert. This bastard son,
the son of Mary, a most lowly and despised status in his time, returned from his enlightenment to proclaim "there is a father in heaven and he loves
you". Again one sees the interplay between personal psychology and religious experience.
The Buddha was a Prince, son of a very rich and powerful ruler. He secrets himself out of his fathers castle, with its fine food, harem etc. and
discovers that there is poverty and suffering in the world. He sets out to right this, no doubt feeling a powerful sense of guilt over the matter. He
meditates and after his enlightenment proclaims the following "noble truths" which I paraphrase "There is suffering in the world" and "One can
overcome suffering thru meditation". Again one sees the interplay between personal psychology and religious experience.
So on the level of personal "religious" experience there is in my view no way of separating them from our own personal psychology. In saying this I am
in no way discounting the experiences nor the conclusions that people derive from these experiences, I am only pointing out that these experiences
exist in a context that is part of how they are integrated. The bone in our own nose is the hardest to see as my Anthropologist brother is want to
say.
Iflyfish |
An aspiring Hindu goes to his guru for spiritual help...after some time the young man attains the stage of enlightenment that he is "also" God. Wow,
he thinks, I'm God! Full of it, he proudly walks down the main street in town...some distance away down the street a man on on elephant is coming
towards him...the young aspirant thinks to himself that now that he is God the man on the elephant can very well just get out of his way...they get
nearer and nearer to each other and finally the elephant rider is yelling at the intern to get out of the way but he doesn't step aside and gets badly
trampled by the elephant. Bruised and battered the intern makes his way back to the guru and tells him the story about the elephant. The aspirant
explains his confusion as to why the elephant didn't get out of his way, now that he was God...the guru replies----the rider on the elephant is God
too!
Always like that parable---but yes since God is as much a part of us as anything else (I'm speaking in metaphor here) its not surprising that our own
psychologies are integral to the experience, at least in part.
Thank-you for your insights Ifly--nice! |
To equate this parable with my experience is demeaning and erroneous. This is exactly why I should have followed my initial gut instinct to avoid
posting at all in this thread. Have a nice day...
I don't discount the real life experiences of people. I in no way meant to discount what you shared of your experience. I have heard too many stories
not to have an open mind about these things. My point is that our experiences are integrated by us using the language, culture and understanding that
we have. Most people discuss these experiences using "spiritual" terms. There is a remarkable similarity between stories recorded by people with death
and near death experiences. I too have experienced going thru a tunnel toward the light, a common experience. I have not met anyone greeting me as
others report. Some people have no memory at all of their death/near death experiences. It is often very hard for people to share these experiences
with people who do not or cannot understand the significance of these experiences to them. Many people come to religion thru profound experiences that
rock their world.
I sincerely apologize to you if I said posted anything that could be read as discounting your very personal and profound experience. All of my words
could not change what you experienced and I would never wish to do so. Indeed I would be very interested in learning more about his experience, though
I doubt that this thread is the place to do so. There are more things under heaven and earth than are dreamed of in our philosophies, I believe that.
I am as open to hearing and genuinely listening to your experience as I am to a well presented presentation on string or parallel universe
presentations. The difference is that you had a genuine experience and for you this is not speculation!
Iflyfish
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