Originally posted by Pompano
“Farming as we do it is hunting, and in the sea we act like barbarians. “
Jacques Yves Cousteau
THE HUNTING THREAD – CHAPTER 2 - ‘FRIENDSHIP’..and some other personal stuff.
First, many thanks from Up North Baja to all who have contributed to this thread about Hunting and Hunters….AND TO THOSE WHO EMAILED ME TO REPOST THIS
after I removed it yesterday. I apologize for listening to those damn 'voices'.
Plus I think that this ‘friendship’ post might be apropos to the outpouring of good will and fellowship extended to our amigos, Ron & Cristina.
Damn fine people who need some TLC at this point. ‘Nuff said…on with the post about hunting and friends.
HUNTING.
One of the many things that I like about The Hunt is that it indeed strengthens friendships. Hunting together creates bonds that last a lifetime.
Therefore this part of my thread is going to be a celebration of some fine Hunting friends….Life
friends.
Note:
I like hunting and how it forms solid, lasting relationships. Also, I DO like writing & sharing thoughts and feelings about
experiences, travels, and good friends. And I sincerely hope you like reading about them….
…...otherwise I can get 'real boring' telling you about this ND weather we’re having.
FRIENDSHIP?
Many people's understanding of friendship in northern societies is rather thin. When approaching the notion of friendship, our first problem is a
lack of firmly agreed and socially acknowledged criteria for what makes a person a friend?
In one setting we may describe someone as a friend, in another the label may seem less appropriate. What defines a friend?
For example, Aristotle suggests that the traditional idea of friendship has three components:
-'Friends must enjoy each other's company
- they must be useful to one another,
-and they must share a common commitment to the good'
Hunting provides all three…and very well.
Commentators like Ray Pahl have argued that friendship is becoming an increasingly important 'social glue'. Today, many societies are held together by
very different social bonds than from three centuries before. The act of Hunting reflects our society's belief that loving or honoring a person or an
endeavor gives us the confidence to believe in ourselves and fulfill all our hopes and dreams, ergo... make us happy.
As so this thread about Hunting continues…. with the theme of ‘friendship’ in mind.…I hope!
Yes, yes.. there WILL be some discussion later: There are further hunting concepts to explore...like Why we Hunt and KILL.....but that chapter is yet
to come.
Like I said, this part of the thread is about Friendship. Kind of like Peace, Love, and Fish Tacos, si?
'BUILDING RELATIONSHIPS' - ‘CAMRADERIE’
Hunting Creates Friends For Life
”MI COMPADRE, RANDY”
……………………1949 North Dakota Buds………………………………………………………………….62 years later Still Buds in North Dakota
What can I say about best friend and hunting buddy, Randy? He is part of me.
We were born 2 months apart in the same Mayberry-like rural area of ND. Our folks were country people on working ranches. We were babies in the same
bassinette when our moms rolled us around our ranch. Already hunting life’s experiences, no doubt....which were most likely butterflies landing on
our noses?
We’ve been inseparable ever since, even during the very busy times of our different careers.
Hunting is in our blood by way of our parents and forefathers. Everyone hunted some…and some better than others. Indeed,
hunting is a common bond of our surrounding rural community, where group pheasant and deer drives were attended by 50-60 neighbors/friends from far
& wide. These were 3-4 day events, with turkey shoots, a polka, and a huge barbeque as the finale. Back in the day, neighbors in those ND
boondocks were not exactly just down the block....or even just over the hill.
Our fathers and uncles hunted together and shared a common love of wilderness and appreciation of natural things. They passed this knowledge on to
us…and also the responsibility that accompanies it. We made good choices of parents…Randy and I.
Randy and I ...best of friends throughout our lives of hunting & fishing together…enjoying Nature. From birth to
present day, we are a team in the field! And it's a damn good thing that at least ONE of us can hit what he's aiming at!! Right,
Chief Thunderpants?
Whatever would I do without you?.......or your license for that extra limit?
By the way, you are a very good fisherman!
Both Randy and I are members of Pheasants Forever and contribute funds annually to the preservation of natural habitat and
the promotion of conservative hunting limits. That fact certainly increases our upland bird hunting enjoyment….which includes pheasants, Hungarian
partridge, sharptail grouse, ruffed grouse, sage hens, prairie chicken, pinnated grouse, Franklins grouse, spruce grouse, fools hen, quail, doves,
chickadees, canaries, robins, parakeets, and the odd Pterosaur.
At his comfortable residence in Lake Elmo, MN…Randall makes some great Thanksgiving Egg Nog con Brandy for Co-pilot and me.
He lives in his own nature preserve ..(no, he does not hunt there)…with wild turkey, raccoon, and deer coming to his patio door. Geese fly overhead
and poop on him.
Using an IQ that is off the charts, Randy was a very successful research scientist and company director for 3-M, besides doing some super-secret
STUFF for the US Navy Weapons Dept that he is close-mouthed about even to this day…dammit. . Now finally retired with a few well-earned patents
and a golden parachute from 3-M.
Randy’s golden in more ways than that parachute….indeed, a golden heart....and the most upbeat, generous, and caring person I know. He is blessed
with a lovely and loving wife, Ginny.
Randy also has a great resolve and presence of mind. He’s been fighting Parkinson’s since 2004, but never alludes to his never-ending battle. His
love of the hunt keeps him focused on supporting wildlife in a big way. . I'm Damn proud of you, amigo.
As a comparison to Randy’s impressive intellect, here I display my own IQ , which does not register any number at all. We are returning the kitchen
favor to Randy with some fresh-hunted cabrilla and cold brews at my place in Coyote Bay, Baja.
Ah, Randy…My life would not be the same without you as my best friend & hunting companion. I love you as a brother.
We’ve taken some kind of hunting and adventure travel around the globe together each year since we turned 14. (that first year we made a U-turn around
the continental USA) .
We’ve canoed the remote rivers of Far North Canada…’true’ wilderness. We’ve floated for peac-ck bass on the Amazon, hunted mallards on the Nile and
silver teal in Uruquay and Argentina. We’ve waded the shallows of Christmas Island and laughed our burros off at the rocketing bonefish.
We look forward to each new adventure-hunt, while sorting through our gear and eagerly plotting a new hunt to whoever is choosing the place
that year. Now, after more than 50 years of hunting & fishing together, we’ve seen a lot of the world, but we still some treks to make, right
amigo?
”Hasta Pronto, amigos! See you guys in Baja and Panama this winter. We’ll have lots of red on hand…and even a dirty martini or two for
those stimulating conversations.”
ANOTHER life-long friendship that started with a Hunting Trip:
THE TWO ROGERS
...........................................Me .............................. My late dear friend, Roger Page
nomad 'aquaholic'
HUNTING brought us together that first time..and love of nature was the glue that sealed our friendship over many years. Above we are back
from a fun 1965 smelt hunt on Lake Superior’s feeder streams. Bagged and sold to Red Owl grocery stores for 10 cents a pound….paid for our gas and
beer.
Like with Randy, Roger and I did pretty much anything connected to nature, wilderness, and wildlife. And…we managed to play a little poker and
shoot some pool along the way. Way back in the day, Roger followed my lead to discover Baja…and he fell in love, too…in more ways than one.
(explanation: A few of us pirates shanghaied his future wife for him off of a sailboat anchored in Sta. Rosalia…but that’s a whole different story.)
Myself, Roger, and my Dad with others aboard the trimaran “Meshach” 1988 Baja’s SOC
Note: We are now going to take a Short Story detour:
Two of Roger’s many close friends were a veteran SOC sailor named John and his first mate and wife, Christy. Their shore home at that time was Chula
Vista, Ca. Roger and his wife, Karen also lived in San Diego when not in Baja and often baby-sat for John and Christy’s son, Lucas.
A bunch of years ago in Baja, I met John thru Roger and enjoyed many good times sailing the Cortez with John and his wife, Christy….. before his
tragic and fatal ultra-light plane accident near their home in Wyoming, 2004. John was a very kind and plain person, plus a highly decorated war-hero
in Vietnam. His love of hunting and wilderness areas paralleled mine and Roger’s. We hunted quail, doves, ducks, and mule deer together several
times in Baja and mainland Mexico.
I knew this mild-mannered and quiet John W. for about 6 years before finding out by sheer accident that he was also a member of a very unique and
wealthy family.
One winter, long ago, I had been invited by John to his home in Chula Vista, Ca . It was his father’s birthday celebration. I remember packing on
ice a nice big yellowtail to roast over the grill. I arrived and was introduced to John’s father, Sam, a very nice man with a pleasing southern
drawl…like John’s. Said Happy Birthday, Mr. Walton and shook his hand....and then went inside the old restored home for a cold brew.
My buddy, Roger, came over to me and said…”You really don’t have a clue as to who you just met…DO you?” I said, “Yes I do, that’s John’s dad, dummy.
Nice guy, too, just like John.” Roger said, “Okay..pay good attention now. Sam? Walton? Sam Walton? Walmart?
Duh?? Ring any bells, dufus?” Needless to say…I was discombobbilated.
But in reality, you’d never remotely imagine John as the son of multi-billionaire Sam Walton.. or imagine John himself as one of the world’s richest
people at the time. John was in the books at around 6 billion dollars in 1988, I believe. Whew! That’s a pile of pesos.
Not unexpectedly, my bosom buddy, Roger, attracted good people…and vice versa. Good hunting experiences and good attitudes about the natural world
promoted our mutual friendships.
(Anecdote to this short story: John also became a good friend to my father when my visiting family was invited for a day’s cruise aboard ‘Meshack’
out of Coyote Bay. Dad and John hit it off pretty good...sharing some similar hunting and military experiences, I suspect. A year later, 1989,
when my father was close to his final days in a cancer ward in Fargo, John flew there to visit him…because John was a caring man. I know that visit
pleased my father very much. The world loses too many good men like my father and John and Roger…some of the too few good guys. I sincerely believe
their mutual love of hunting and it’s traditions helped to give them their strength of character….and that is MY opinion, of course)
Roger and I took many Far North trips to wilderness areas….some we drove thru logging trails to reach, some we flew to, and some we canoed and
portaged to…but wherever we went our most precious equipment was our love of The Hunt. While backpacking or canoeing, we would only shoot to eat, but
we were young hungry men and ate often. Rabbits and fools hen at
portages, ducks paddling the sloughs; deer was far too much meat, so those were not hunted...nor were moose and elk. I can’t say I would like a
steady diet of porcupine…a mite greasy. Walleyes were everywhere in the lakes and rivers. Without a doubt the best eating fish in the world…BAR
NONE! We pone-assed them.
Lots of times in the summers, Roger and I also took my old 16’ Lund on many hunts to Far North Canada…and some rather dangerous boat-camping
excursions into the ‘bush’.
Then, in the winters, we would gather with friends like Prof. John at mi casa on The Hill near Posada in the Bay of Conception. We had sooo many
great times….Life is good…and full of camaraderie amongst fellow hunters.
MORE ON ROGER
We met in 1963 on a whitefronted goose hunt near Minot, ND and became instant best friends. Hunting, fishing, and the natural world were the
catalysts of our close friendship, which lasted throughout the USA, Canada, all over South America, parts of Europe, and finally to Baja, where Roger
purchased my old house on the hill above Posada community. We had SOME kind of times. A nicer guy you never meet. A true gentleman in every
respect. People would talk of Roger as one of the most polite and brightest people they had ever met. All who met him liked him instantly….as I did.
Roger passed after a long fight with cancer. I spent that last summer with him in Seattle. We rehashed every greenhead, pronghorn, and muley buck we
had ever hunted over many whiskey sodas.
Good flights, amigo, and keep ‘em flying up there. Your boots, cap, call, and coat on my porch.. Your favorite Winchester 101 OU is hanging over the
fireplace. You are with me and All is well, compadre.
Note:
Scene from my Coyote casa veranda:
Hunting friends gather in Baja ---Randy (The Purple Sage), Roger (aquaholic), and new amigo,
George (Don Jorge) all visit a few days at mi Coyote Casa about 3 years ago.
A very poignant visit. It was to be Roger’s/aquaholic’s last time in Baja before passing away the following year at his home in Seattle. He knew his
time was coming fast, and would never let on to us….but we knew anyway.
Every morning for a few years previous, Randy, Roger, and I would have a 3-way coffee get-together via our computers over the Internet. Randy in
Lake Elmo, MN…Roger in Seattle…and me in Coyote Bay. We called it the Baja Triangle as we all loved this place so much.
Those were some very rewarding and valuable times…greetings, topics of the day, plus talking about all our hunts together
over the years. Damn…how I miss the 3-way morning talks….and setting out those decoys with Rog.
Hunting friends from varied professions and political beliefs. Hunters cover all walks of life…literally. Our common bonds are
preserving wildlife and the environment.
Top left pic: 2004. Organic farmer & Nomad Don Jorge on a ND pheasant shoot, second from right.
Bottom left pic: 2009. Military. Gavin and Dad, Munga. Check the son's height compared to Dad's.
Top right pic: 1999. Lifelong hunter-compadres dentist Mike (liberal) and research scientist Randy (conservative) gather willows for goose blind
material.
Bottom right pic: 1987. Sandhill crane hunters and friends for life. Munga is very young..2nd from left. I am kneeling in the middle.
“The Crane Wreck” ……………..Folks from very different backgrounds, occupations, and philosophical positions… but they all are
Hunters.
Here we are after a sandhill crane hunt in ND near my Duk Shak.
From Left to Right - hunting friends: occupations and their political positions:
fighter pilot .....................conservative
military commander...........conservative except with ammo
NYC detective w/wife.........liberals
Baja bum........................believes in tooth fairy
artist, sculptor..................charmingly ultra liberal
auto-insurance exec..........disgustingly liberal
banker/skeet-trap expert....sexily liberal
Sept 6, 2011..present day. You can see that son Gavin is fast catching up to Dad, Munga. The before photo above is just 2 hunting seasons ago.
Here’s a photo of our crew from 6 years ago in our Duk Shak cantina. As you can see, Gavin’s a tadpole here, but has the beginning love of Hunting,
like his dad. Kids grow so dang fast, so it’s great that the memories of their younger-day hunts will be with them forever. Tradition is not gone,
just clouded a bit in non-hunting families…or so it seems to me.
I should explain a bit right now about why I felt compelled to write about a subject that I knew would generate a lot of honest & heartfelt
flak from folks I like and respect……true nature lovers like me ...
....and of course, my bloodthirsty previous Co-pilot.
..................................................................................."Tesoro! Hunt one of these pretty buffalo animals, I
use my knife on you, amore..zip-zip!"
“POOR ANIMALS!! PIG!! AND WHAT have you done with their BREASTS?? MALEDETTO PERVERTITO!! ” Co-Pilot casually mentioned
when inspecting a dinner at the cleaning table some time ago.
But, Hey!,,, she’s Italian-emotional …and sort of good-looking..
Anyway..…so why make myself such an easy target in this photo shoot from the Far North about HUNTING? AND on a forum that is so predominately
anti-hunter??
My answer is quite simple…If I win just one of you readers over to love or become better informed about REAL hunting and REAL hunters,
then it is worthwhile. Hey, America is on enough of a slippery slope already.
(Plus I have a high tolerance to pain, having been married twice to beautiful women with excellent shooting skills.)
One step program: "My name is Roger and I am a Hunter." .....Lock n’ load, nomads. I did.
Hunters don’t hide their enthusiasm for The Hunt. We’re pretty open about our passion and will bore you to death with our experiences and feelings.
In my case, most everyone I meet soon learns I'm a lifelong hunter/fisherman, outside guy and always have some gamefood on the grill. The fish,
antelope, muledeer, and mother-in-law mounts on the wall in my game room are a giveaway, I suspect.
So I'm continuously being asked at patio parties and fancy soirees THIS QUESTION:
Why I hunt with a gun and kill?…. when we could just as easily stalk our prey with a camera or binoculars, just for the
thrill of being up close with a deer, turkey, or other game animal?
BECAUSE USING A PLUNGER JUST WOULDN’T BE THE SAME!!
To be continued naturally, cuz I’m eager to talk… and hopefully promote… HUNTING.
SALUD, RON & CRISTINA! BEST WISHES, GOOD LUCK, AND HEAL FAST. WE NEED YOU BACK HERE, MUY PRONTO!.
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