Gypsy Jan - 5-10-2012 at 11:51 AM
"Hundreds of children whose parents have died or abandoned them live in group homes in Baja California. most of these homes depend on the charity of
Americans to operate. Recently we visited one of these homes for a story on the relationship between these charities and the homes when we found
another story. Fronteras Desk Social Media Editor Jose Luis Jiménez brings us a classic immigrant tale with a twist: a young lady who survived an
abusive childhood and is on her way to the U.S. in search of a better life.
VALLE DE GUADALUPE, MX - Flor Jacqueline looks like your typical teenager: She's full of energy, self-conscious about her looks, and likes to hang out
with friends.
But her life story is unique. She's an American citizen abused by relatives who has lived about half of her life in a Casa de Hogar, which is
basically what is known as an orphanage in the United States.
Now 18, she is reclaiming her U.S. citizenship. Her ultimate goal is to go to college in the U.S. and start a new life.
"Because I see that there are many more opportunities over there to get ahead," Flor said in Spanish. "Because here, it seems, that life is much more
difficult."
Hundreds of children - whose parents have died or abandoned them - live in loosely regulated group homes in Baja California. Most of these homes
depend on the charity of Americans to operate.
Maria Dolores Paris Pombo has studied immigration and orphans at Tijuana's Colegio de la Frontera Norte (College of the Northern Border). She says
kids who have U.S. citizenship tend to return to the U.S. to stay with a relative or guardian.
"What is rare to see are kids who are U.S. citizens living in an orphanage, or in Mexico by themselves," Paris said in Spanish. "Because someone from
the U.S. will claim them."
Paris said she has seen kids in Tijuana who are U.S. citizens living in group homes. But they arrive there because they follow their parents, who were
deported from the U.S. Then, the parents return to the U.S. and leave their kids behind, either because the trek is too dangerous or they don't have
enough money to pay the smuggler, Paris said.
Flor's story is different. She was born in Long Beach, Calif. and came to Mexico at age 4, when her mother decided returned to Ensenada.
At age 8, neighbors called the authorities when they heard a disturbance at Flor's house. They found her bleeding from a head wound, and she was taken
to a hospital for treatment. She was removed from her family and taken to the first Casa de Hogar.
Attempts at reunification with her family failed, so she was placed in a second home and later a third, which she escaped from. Flor seemed destined
for a tough life on the streets; one of her friends got pregnant at 15.
But at an age when most teenagers who are heading down the wrong path don't turn around, Flor changed.
"More than anything, I saw my family and how they were and I said: 'Oh no! I don't want to be like them,' " she said. "And it was that, more than
anything that inspired me to change."
At age 16 and still a ward of the state, Flor was placed in Rancho El Faro, where she still lives.
The orphanage is in the Valle de Guadalupe, surrounded by vineyards and olive trees.
Rancho translates to ranch in English and that is how this group home is run: They raise animals and crops to eat; they wash their clothes the
old-fashioned way; the new kitchen under construction will burn wood because it's cheaper than buying propane.
About 35 orphans live here - most of whom are adolescent girls. Most orphanages in Mexico will not accept children older than 12, believing them to be
too much trouble.
Cristina Rodriguez Medrano, the director of Rancho El Faro, says Flor uses her rough childhood as motivation.
"She focuses on what she wants," Rodriguez said. "And that should help her break the cycle of abuse and dependency that she grew up in, because it
hurt her growing up in an orphanage."
To help Flor reach her goal, an Orange County-based charity called the Corazón de Vida Foundation has taken a special interest in her. Employees
helped her obtain her birth certificate and have driven her to the U.S. consulate in Tijuana to obtain her passport.
But why take such an intense interest in one orphan from the hundreds the foundation helps? Maricarmen Macfarland Hernandez says Flor is a special
case.
"Flor Jacqueline has a strong talent," said Macfarland, the foundation's liaison in Mexico. "She has a big, big heart and she knows exactly what she
wants out of life."
The foundation wants to do more than help Flor claim her citizenship. The plan is to have her spend the summer in in the United States at the home of
Hilda Pacheco-Taylor, the foundation's president. There, she will learn English, and probably sneak in a day or two of fun.
After graduating from high school in Mexico, where she gets good grades, the goal is to have Flor attend college in the U.S. in 2013.
She wants to major in veterinary medicine or a field that will allow her to work at a zoo. Flor said her love for animals comes from her abusive past:
she viewed them as a refuge. She could talk to dogs and cats and they would not yell back.
Flor's also wants to help her family, despite the challenges that poses. Flor wants to reunite with her mother, and support her siblings - three
brothers and a little sister - who all live in Mexico. Despite growing up in an extremely dysfunctional family, she feels an obligation to be there
for them."
Hilda Pacheco is an angel
thebajarunner - 5-10-2012 at 02:23 PM
I have posted before about Hilda and her Corazon foundation.
Her brother, Juan, grew up with our family in Stanislaus County after we repatriated him from the Door of Faith Orph.
Hilda made it across and has made a great success of her life. She was featured in "Money" magazine as a successful single mom a few years back,
and the work of the Corazon de la Vida, which she founded and which Juan assists, is marvelous.
Great young people, of whom I am very proud....
BajaBlanca - 5-10-2012 at 06:28 PM
what a sad story that may have a beautiful ending ....sure hope she reaches her goals ... thanks for sharing.