"the best I can as long I can alone in my home"
That's not the issue. It's when you can't manage alone in your home any longer. When you can't stand long enough to cook, drive a car, buy
groceries, clean, get in and out of shower, get to a doctor appt., walk up steps. And when you need the help, will you have the money to pay for it?
Or are you intending that one of your children will sacrifice their current lifestyle to be your maid, cook, caregiver 24/7? I also speak from
first-hand experience. My mom has live entertainment every Friday, several activities per day - games, exercises, crafts. Scheduled outings. Before
COVID, a monthly brunch for residents and their guests (guests pay). Special occasions are celebrated with fun events; clean room, cable TV, A/C.
There are options - living in misery alone is not one that I would choose. |