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poot says good bye

mulege marv - 7-11-2007 at 05:49 PM

we all know the importance our pets play in the big picture. they are family, they are part of us, they are a part of our lives, they become family members and friends. well we lost a good friend last nite as "poot" past away in her sleep. she provided us with many smiles thru bad times and good. not to only us but to our friends. she put smiles on peoples faces when they had nothing else left. wish you could have stuck around longer, you will be missed by more than just us.
"crawl, crawl, crawl" she was always involved and usually in the way. miss you "poot the wonder dog"

[Edited on 7-12-2007 by mulege marv]

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bancoduo - 7-11-2007 at 05:52 PM

SO SORRY!

one more of the captain

mulege marv - 7-11-2007 at 06:08 PM

[Edited on 7-12-2007 by mulege marv]

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DENNIS - 7-11-2007 at 06:14 PM

Sorry for your loss, Marv.

rts551 - 7-11-2007 at 06:27 PM

Its amazing how important they become in our lives.. So sorry this chapter has ended.

So sorry for your loss

Keri - 7-11-2007 at 06:51 PM

The Rainbow Bridge Story

Just this side of Heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge. When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge.

There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food and water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable. All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor; those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and time gone by.

The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing: they miss someone very special to them; who had to be left behind.

They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. The bright eyes are intent; the eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to break from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster. YOU have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.

THEN YOU CROSS RAINBOW BRIDGE TOGETHER....

Anonymous

Bob and Susan - 7-11-2007 at 06:57 PM

god i hate this kind of stuff...sorry marv

805gregg - 7-11-2007 at 07:22 PM

I love those wonderful little dogs, sorry for your loss, I've got a dog. I know how much they become an integral part of your family.

Bedman - 7-11-2007 at 07:29 PM

Marv,
I can empathise with you. 45 minutes ago I had to euthanize our cat, Freeway. Gosh, I'm not sure which is more difficult. Finding a loved one after they expire or having to take responsibility and euthanizing a friend.

Freeway was 21 years old, blind, deaf and losing her ability to walk and find her food dish or littler box. She came to us in a freakish way. Born in a field and hiding out in one of the delivery truck engine compartments. She couldn't have been 4 weeks old.

The mechanic drove the truck 15 miles from the storage lot back to my store. He apologized about the squeaking fan belt, but just couldn't get it to quiet down. Several of us were standing and looking at the motor as it hummed along and heard the loud squeal. I was closest, staring in that hot engine compartment I noticed two little eyes staring up at me from the depths of kitten hell. I reached down inside and pulled out the little black squealing kitten. She was named on ther spot and my daughter bottle fed her for several weeks. A damn good cat and I'll miss her as much as I know you'll miss Poot.

Bedman

Cypress - 7-11-2007 at 07:31 PM

Sorry about your lil buddy Marv. Rainbow Bridge! Neat! Got several of 'em waiting on me.

toneart - 7-11-2007 at 07:53 PM

Oh marv! I am so sorry. My dog Paco and I grieve for Poot. Please give my condolences to Cathy.
Tony

Bedman. Sorry about your kitty also

Keri - 7-11-2007 at 07:56 PM

They sure do become part of our lives don't they. We have 4 cats now and they are our babies. Hope they have plenty of time to spend with us. Sorry for your loss,k

Bajalero - 7-11-2007 at 08:03 PM

There are few words to describe a loss like that , Marv

So sorry Poot's gone . I always wished I could just have one conversation with a beloved dog before they go.

Lero

bacquito - 7-11-2007 at 08:19 PM

April 28th, 2006 we had to put our Baco (bacquito) to sleep, he was blind, deaf and I believe suffering from a kind of dementia. He was a mixed breed, and just shy of 18 years at his passing- a very small dog with a big heart and lots of devotion. He was absolutely devoted to us and us to him. He never spent a night without our being there with him. When we spent nights in a hotel we would put him in a bag to conceal his presence.
As he got older I was hoping he would pass on in his sleep-it really tore me when I realized that was not to be.
Sorry about your loss and I am sure you will continue to miss him.

mulege marv - 7-11-2007 at 08:29 PM

[Edited on 7-12-2007 by mulege marv]

CaboMagic - 7-11-2007 at 08:34 PM

Here too are our words of sympathy... We hope they provide some hugging comfort to you .. Poot & Freeway & Baco have joined others that awaited their arrival with open paws to welcome them .. only time seems to ease the pain our hearts feel from the hole created ... Tommy & Lori

bajadogs - 7-11-2007 at 08:40 PM

Dog years are too dang short!

Marv and Cathy,
My heart feels like it's in my throat. I am so sorry for the emptiness you are going through.
Mark

oxxo - 7-11-2007 at 09:05 PM

Marv, I lost my best friend, Sage, in 1990. No dog could ever live up to the realtionship I had with him. I have been dog-less ever since. I will never replace him. But today, I have a "granddog", my daughter's dog (same breed-she was affected too). I will be baby sitting him next week. Life ain't too bad.

Be strong. Better days are ahead.

Debra - 7-11-2007 at 09:14 PM

Marv, I am so sorry for your loss.

And Bedman you and Emna know exactly how I feel......a few days ago I had to do the same thing to Keicko. 10yrs. he was my "velcro fur ball" He was so funny, when Brendan and I would get ready to travel, as soon as the suit cases came out he would start acting up, the last couple of years he would sit on the suit cases and not move except to eat! My husband would tell me that he just cried while we were away, my sister-in-law told me that my husband would call her and ask for her advice on what to do to calm him down. As you know he finally got his way and spent a couple of month in Bahia with us this spring, he fit right in, in fact the day we were leaving I guess he decided he liked Baja so much he wasn't ready to leave, It took us an hour to find him so we could get on the road.

It hurts so much when we lose a member of our family, it hurts soooooooooooooo much! I just have to remind myself that he had 10 good years with His boy and myself, he was healthy and happy until that day, Brendan and I held him and comforted him as he went off to sleep. We brought him home and buried him in our back yard next to an aging Cedar tree that is so old I'm sure it and he will be proctected for many, many years to come, long after I'm gone anyway.

Keri, thank you for the Rainbow Bridge story........it helps to think of our beloved family members there playing together.

And to those who might be reading this and trying to help. I know it's well meaning, but, offering another pet so close to the lose is just too painful. I've had a couple of people do that, and all I could do was excuse myself and hang up and cry.

My heart goes out to all of you. Debra

roundtuit - 7-11-2007 at 09:45 PM

Marv she has a lot of friends waiting for her on Dog Island. May she rest in peace:no::no::no::no:

bajajudy - 7-11-2007 at 10:48 PM

Licks and drool from Mochi and Eta.
:(

oladulce - 7-11-2007 at 11:29 PM

Maybe someday you can tell us about her name and a little more about her Marv. She exudes "attitude" in the photos (even the baby picture !), and looks like quite a character. You're right, 3 years isn't long enough although I'm sure they are years you will cherish.

But 21 years isn't long enough either Bedman. What a lucky girl Miss Freeway was to have found your family.

Sharksbaja - 7-12-2007 at 01:56 AM

Yer a good man Marv. That was one lucky dog. Such a marker in life. The time spent with our beloved little friends remains to be one of the biggest joys of life for many of us. They never put conditions on the love they give us. Pure and simple love. Sorry for your loss.

capt. mike - 7-12-2007 at 06:30 AM

Crap Marv..............not what i wanted to wake up to today. Poot was a cool dog for sure. Cathy must not be doing well with this either.
Janeen is equally sad.

Halboo - 7-12-2007 at 07:59 AM

:(
All dogs go to heaven.

BajaGeoff - 7-12-2007 at 11:00 AM

I am really sorry for your loss Marv. Poot looked like a very sweet dog. We had to put Kole (our family dog of 16 wonderful years) down back in 2001. It was really tough at the time, but what we have now are all of the great photos and memories to remind us of how amazing she was and how big a part she played in our lives. Our thoughts are with you.

They just leave a hole in the heart

DianaT - 7-12-2007 at 12:11 PM

Nothing can replace the unconditional love of one of our fur babies---dog or cat, they just don't live long enough.

It always brings tears to my eyes---let's hope they have a special place at the Rainbow Bridge for Nomad pets where they can share their stories about Baja.

Just so sorry

Diane

On Edit --- for those of you who had to make that terrible decision, I once again found another poem that helped me just

The Last Battle
Author Unknown

If it should be that I grow frail and weak
And pain should keep me from my sleep,
Then will you do what must be done,
For this -- the last battle -- can't be won.
You will be sad I understand,
But don't let grief then stay your hand,
For on this day, more than the rest,
Your love and friendship must stand the test.
We have had so many happy years,
You wouldn't want me to suffer so.
When the time comes, please, let me go.
Take me to where to my needs they'll tend,
Only, stay with me till the end
And hold me firm and speak to me
Until my eyes no longer see.
I know in time you will agree
It is a kindness you do to me.
Although my tail its last has waved,
From pain and suffering I have been saved.
Don't grieve that it must be you
Who has to decide this thing to do;
We've been so close -- we two -- these years,
Don't let your heart hold any tears.


Second edit---sorry, did not mean to copy all of the poems, just the one above

[Edited on 7-12-2007 by jdtrotter]

Sharksbaja - 7-12-2007 at 01:07 PM

Thank you Diane.

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DENNIS - 7-12-2007 at 01:36 PM

Quote:
Originally posted by jdtrotter
Nothing can replace the unconditional love of one of our fur babies---dog or cat, they just don't live long enough.

It always brings tears to my eyes---let's hope they have a special place at the Rainbow Bridge for Nomad pets where they can share their stories about Baja.

Just so sorry

Diane

On Edit --- for those of you who had to make that terrible decision, I once again found another poem that helped me just

The Last Battle
Author Unknown

If it should be that I grow frail and weak
And pain should keep me from my sleep,
Then will you do what must be done,
For this -- the last battle -- can't be won.
You will be sad I understand,
But don't let grief then stay your hand,
For on this day, more than the rest,
Your love and friendship must stand the test.
We have had so many happy years,
You wouldn't want me to suffer so.
When the time comes, please, let me go.
Take me to where to my needs they'll tend,
Only, stay with me till the end
And hold me firm and speak to me
Until my eyes no longer see.
I know in time you will agree
It is a kindness you do to me.
Although my tail its last has waved,
From pain and suffering I have been saved.
Don't grieve that it must be you
Who has to decide this thing to do;
We've been so close -- we two -- these years,
Don't let your heart hold any tears.



This poem is so painfully beautiful, more pain than beauty. It forcasts an event which I dread, a merciful end for my best friend. The time isn't near nor is there an assurance that it will play out that way but, I know someday I will have to bury her. It pains me equally, knowing how close we are, that she may have to bury me and be alone till her time.
The innocents don't seem to warrent an end as do the tainted but, everybody and everything has its time.
I've come to terms with my own mortality many times but I can't accept it for my dog. It just doesn't seem fair.

sylens - 7-12-2007 at 05:20 PM

i avoided opening this thread, dreading the content. still, i want to share my heartfelt condolences.

and thanks for the rainbow poem and the exhortation to "do the right thing." we are on the brink of facing the big decision...soon. the pain is really hard to contain.

sorry with and for all who have lost a special critter. (and aren't they all special!)

elizabeth - 7-12-2007 at 07:08 PM

I know there are no words that I can say that can offer comfort to Marv and everyone else here who has lost a pet...I'd guess we all have...so, I'll just say that I understand how heartbreaking it is, and offer my sincere condolences.

Growing old

bajaguy - 7-13-2007 at 06:51 AM

I am old, and just thought I would pass this along.......

Grow Old With Dogs

When I am old... I shall wear soft gray sweatshirts. and I will spend my social security checks on wine and my dogs. I will sit in my house on my well-worn chair and listen to
my dogs' breathing. I will sneak out in the middle of a warm summer night and take my dogs for a run, if my old bones will allow...

When people come to call, I will smile and nod as I show them my dogs... and talk of them and about them... ...the ones so beloved of the past and the ones so beloved of today....

I will still work hard cleaning after them, mopping and feeding them and whispering their names in a soft
loving way. I will wear the gleaming sweat on my throat, like a jewel and I will be an embarrassment to all... especially my family...

who have not yet found the peace in being free to have dogs as your best friends.... These friends who always wait, at any hour, for your footfall... and eagerly jump to their feet out of a sound sleep, to greet you as if you are a God. With warm eyes full of adoring love and hope that you will always stay, I'll hug their big strong necks... I'll kiss their dear sweet heads... and whisper in their very special company....

I look in the Mirror... and see I am getting old.... this is
the kind of person I am... and have always been. Loving dogs is easy, they are part of me. Please accept me for who I am. My dogs appreciate my presence in their lives... they love my presence in their lives......

When I am old this will be important to me... you will understand when you are old.... if you have dogs to love too.

~Author Unknown

[Edited on 7-13-2007 by bajaguy]

thank you

mulege marv - 7-13-2007 at 11:23 AM

my wife and i would like to thank all of you for the kind words. "poot" was very special as they all are in their own way. you can never replace them and always remember them in memories and pictures as we have with all our pets, but is always very tramatic when you lose them. on the bright side we have a new member of the family, and she has started the healing process with the rest of the family. i havent got to meet her yet but soon. and oh by the way someone asked about poots name. i got the name "poot" off a ron white cd. dont know what this one is going to end up with as a name. again thank you all.

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Marv

bajaguy - 7-13-2007 at 11:37 AM

as a name I vote for "KILLER"

toneart - 7-13-2007 at 02:29 PM

Marv,

Is that new little guy related to Scotty's mom's little pocket pal?

killer

sylens - 7-13-2007 at 03:11 PM

purrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrfect:lol: