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lesliego - 5-1-2009 at 08:59 AM

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Hi there,
I have been following your site for the last couple of days, you guys seem like a great group! I have a few newbie-type questions, if you would indulge me (I promise not to talk about how scary "the flu" is).
I'm going to be traveling alone (I'm a woman) to Baja. I speak pretty good Spanish and understand the culture and food. What I don't know is the basics about traveling around in Mexico. So here's the big four:
1. What is the best way to carry around money? I don't have access to a debit card, cash and traveler's checks are all I have...
2. Sleeping/showering - I have read a lot about hostels, they sound inexpensive and for the most part like the best deal. I don't need TV, Wifi etc... so, is that my best answer, or is sleeping out in a bag at a campground better, or?
3. Travel by bus? I want to travel all the way down to La Paz to check things out, should I take a bus, hitchike? Any clues? Everything I have read suggests splitting my trip up so I'm off the road before dark. Can I do that by bus
4. So far it looks like tp, unscented wipes, sunscreen and tea-tree oil will be on my must have list, anything else?
Thanks all
Leslie

DENNIS - 5-1-2009 at 09:22 AM

If you don't have a debit card, travelers checks would be the most safe way although they're kind of obsolete and you may not be able to use them everywhere.

If you sleep out in a bag, be sure you're in a safe location such as a campground.

DON"T hitch-hike. Take the bus or ride with new friends you can trust.

Don't leave home without that Tea Tree Oil. [what is that stuff ]

Have a good trip, Leslie and welcome to BajaNomad.

TacoFeliz - 5-1-2009 at 09:25 AM

Hat. Don't forget a hat.






Have a great trip!

lesliego - 5-1-2009 at 09:29 AM

Hey you guys, thanks for the responses! I am so looking forward to coming to baja!

Bob H - 5-1-2009 at 09:29 AM

Tea-tree oil..... http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tea_tree_oil
Learn something new every day...

You must be on a tight budget, eh?

Take the bus. Do not hitchhike.

Bob H

lesliego - 5-1-2009 at 09:33 AM

Except, no turtles, right? And try not to kill any sharks unless I am going to use up all of it? Lol

lesliego - 5-1-2009 at 09:34 AM

Hey guys, WHICH bus? I mean I am assuming there is more than one?

shari - 5-1-2009 at 09:35 AM

A big hearty welcome to nomadlandia Leslie. Good luck on your trip...wear your cash and only keep some in your wallet...buses are great and you can take them overnight if ya want and sleep on them to save hotel rooms too. There are some hostels and you can shower at campgrounds too and there are some very cheap hotels too...cheaper than hostels sometimes...ask for hoteles economicas.

There are some really cool cabanas at Playa Naranja...on the beach for 150 pesos...you can hitch into there...it is best to go to the Pemex stations and talk to the gas jockeys and they will help find you a good ride..for example in Mulege to get to the beaches..all ya need is a blanket and hammock and mosquito repellent.

San Ignacio is gorgeous and has nice campgrounds on the river...Sta.Rosalia is interesting and the Blanco y Negro hotel is super cheap..ask a cop where it is.
Just use common sense and listen to your inner voice...if something feels wrong...dont do it. Have a blast...travelling alone, you will probably meet lots of nice mexican families who might invite you home.
Let us know how it works out for ya...

lesliego - 5-1-2009 at 09:36 AM

The budget thing is more about coming back with the money I have left and staying...

toneart - 5-1-2009 at 09:38 AM

Leslie,

Hitchhiking- Absolutely not! Not on either side of the border. How old are you? Are you just young and inexperienced (naive), or are you a newly "liberated" older woman who remembers when hitchhiking was a more acceptable mode of travel for some, and somewhat safer than these days?

Bus- I think that would be a good way to go. You will be surrounded by lots of people with the same common purpose; travel. I think taking the bus that travels after dark would be OK. Busses and trucks own the road at nigh and their drivers are experienced. Be sure to know the bus schedule so as to not be dumped alone along some remote junction or alone anywhere, for that matter.

What time of year are you traveling? There are drastic changes of climate and you will need to know what you need for clothing.

You are doing the right thing by inquiring here on the BajaNomad site. Wade through the BS that you will also inevitably get and glean the information you can use. There are always Nomads driving down. Some may have room for you. Just ask, if you want reliable and safe company.

You may find traveling companions along the way. Maybe not, because of the current climate of fear. There are not a lot of gringos coming south of the border these days for all the reasons you have read about. Those reasons are very real, but not insurmountable, if you travel wisely. Your hitchhiking question has me worried about you and your judgment.

Research your trip thoroughly. A woman traveling alone is quite vulnerable, but it can be done if you plan well.

Please continue to ask questions here and don't be discouraged by getting answers you might not want to hear. It is do-able. Many of us are very experienced travelers and especially in Baja. Feel free to U2U members if you don't want all your conversations posted to the general board.:)

Bob H - 5-1-2009 at 09:42 AM

Bus.... ABC bus.... Bob H

lesliego - 5-1-2009 at 09:58 AM

I'm newly liberated, 40ish and yes, I still remember the days growing up in the SF bay Area when hitching a ride was easy and safe. I'm coming down now, next week and would love to find a Nomad, (or six) to hook up with. I do feel better having checked this board and am grateful to all of you for your feedback. Would love to know what I should know about the weather.

shari - 5-1-2009 at 10:05 AM

leslie...up in the right corner of this page is a U2U icon for private messages...under the log in...check it for a new message.
Do try to meet nomads...it has been a great experience for me...bajagringo is a great contact in San Quentin, and try bajame in san ignacio...you can U2U these folks...maybe some others will chime in here from La Paz who you can hang with.

BajaBruno - 5-1-2009 at 10:27 AM

As Bob H says, ABC buses are nice. The one-way price from Tijuana to La Paz is about 1,700 pesos for Plus service. Their site: http://mr.mardecortez.net:8124/

lesliego - 5-1-2009 at 10:31 AM

OK, my head is spinning, and now I really feel like I have a clue about what i'm doing. Wait, that could be dangerous:O;

24baja - 5-1-2009 at 10:40 AM

Hey leslie, welcome to the board! To be on the safe side I wear a double material sports bra and have a hole clipped under the arm areas where I can slide our money into, less detectable in that spot.

Have a safe journey and please do not accept rides from people you do not know and be off the roads at dark. Lots of luck and enjoy the beauty and the majic of Baja we have all come to love, Connie

[Edited on 5-1-2009 by 24baja]

Fred - 5-1-2009 at 10:50 AM

You speak spanish and that will be a big help. Think postive and don't do anything you would in the states and you will have a great trip. Baja is very stress free. So just get laidback and have fun.

rhintransit - 5-1-2009 at 10:56 AM

1. if your only alternatives are cash and travelers checks, wear a money belt or such and carry both, cashing checks for small bills as needed.
2. hostels are few and far between but fine when you find them (La Paz area). good places to meet others in your travel budget/mindset. camping out okay IF you stick to areas with other campers. most beaches have no facilities at all, it's bushes and solar showers. if you sleep out in a bag, remember to check for scorpions and other pests, and wear bug repellant. you'll want some sort of pad as the ground can be hard and you aren't going to find grassy sleep areas. most people are unpleasantly surprised by the cost of hotels/motels, do look for them when you've had enough of baby wipes but expect to pay 25-30 bucks and upwards for not much. that said, you can pay a lot more, again for not much value. look at rooms before you pay.
3. never hitchhike. ever. period. buses...ABC or Aquilar. the former tends to be more 'del paso', fewer stops, but both are comparable, though the latter is frequently a bit cheaper. they'll let you out anywhere, so stopping/breaking up the journey is not an issue. no refunds, though, so buy a ticket only as far as you expect to go.
4. you've got the basics. if you are an adaptable budget traveller, there's not much you can't find locally if you forget something. I always bring decent tea bags, contact lens solution for gas permeable lenses, polarized sunglasses haven't a clue what tea tree oil is so I can assure you it isn't essential

I have travelled for many years in Mexico as a single female and feel safer here than in the USA. trust your gut, don't be stupid, and enjoy.

DENNIS - 5-1-2009 at 12:05 PM

Quote:
Originally posted by Fred
So just get laidback and have fun.


I had to read that twice. :lol: :lol: :lol:

BajaGringo - 5-1-2009 at 12:07 PM

You and me both brother. In fact I still am not quite sure...

Bajahowodd - 5-1-2009 at 12:29 PM

You really ought to post in the "companions and convoys" section. You'd be amazed at how many folks have been helped there. You may find someone going to La Paz. And I doubt anyone is driving straight through. Maybe a couple of stops along the way.

lesliego - 5-1-2009 at 02:01 PM

Again, thank you all, what a help! Any advice about cell phones and chargers? Should I even bother to bring one? Can I get access to internet and a computer while I'm there? Somebody posted to me that there is a difference north to south about cold and warm weather, but where I am living now that is cold 45 - warm - 65. Not my ideas of cold or warm.

shari - 5-1-2009 at 02:21 PM

I never go anywhere without tea tree oil or rescue remedy....just in case! and speaking spanish will go a long way cause you can talk to the locals and get info on accomodation that way.
Almost all little towns have internet cafe's now so no problema there. cant wait to hear about your adventure!

Fred - 5-1-2009 at 03:05 PM

Dennis and BajaGringo............shame on you.

fishbuck - 5-1-2009 at 03:16 PM

1st off. Listen to Shari! She has helped lots of "newbies" and she has a sort of support network.
Secondly, don't sweat it too much. Traverlers checks are okay but a bit difficult to cash sometimes. But other than the cash thing most everything you "need" is available along the way somewhere. There might be a few things you "want" that you won't find. But so what.
Just get on your trip and take things as they come. It's funner that way!:cool:

shari - 5-1-2009 at 03:20 PM

oh yeah..sorry, I forgot to mention fishbuck!!!:lol:
no really guys...come on...give a newbie gal a break...invite her for a Pacifico...too bad Pompano is heading north.

fishbuck - 5-1-2009 at 03:23 PM

Quote:
Originally posted by shari
oh yeah..sorry, I forgot to mention fishbuck!!!:lol:
no really guys...come on...give a newbie gal a break...invite her for a Pacifico...too bad Pompano is heading north.


I get no respect around here! But strangely enough I kinda like it that way.;D

lesliego - 5-1-2009 at 03:54 PM

Ok, it's been about 24 hours on this board and here's what I have learned:
1. Shari is the bomb and I'm going to love her - she may end up being the reason I persevere.
2. Money in your bra, in your armpit basically is probably safest. Beats the way my bank treats me.
3. Don't talk about eating turtles (but it sounds like they are really good so I probably will try to taste a mouthful sometime soon, right or wrong - it's the forbidden fruit thing now and someone here started it)
4. Don't kill any fish unless you can use every part, or at least ask someone to admire your sharkskin vest - if they can see through the flies.
5. Government is corrupt (well at least they admit it publicly here, how refreshing!); and the president actually seems to care about his people.
6. This place sounds like a giant Greatful Dead concert from back in the day, with the exception that the motto "leave nothing but footprints" doesn't really apply since there is lots of garbage, actually didn't we leave a lot of garbage behind even with our motto?
7. Everyone should be home with family and friends after dark.
8. I need to get more laid back.... (thanks guys) looking forward to it If you need help with your taxes let me know.
Lots of crappy stuff has happened to me in the last two years and I'm starting to feel like this place is the light at the end of the tunnel. Oh, no, not another train...:spingrin:

BajaGringo - 5-1-2009 at 03:56 PM

Quote:
Originally posted by Fred
Dennis and BajaGringo............shame on you.


What? What did we do???



:rolleyes:

Fred - 5-1-2009 at 03:59 PM

Check that s___ eaten smile you have

Bajahowodd - 5-1-2009 at 04:02 PM

Check out Fred's mood. But then, "chill' would have been less funny.

lesliego - 5-1-2009 at 04:03 PM

Well, hell, I'm laughing...
From the look of his pic, he pretty much carries the grin around all the time
Could be worse

Fred - 5-1-2009 at 04:05 PM

Bajahowodd.........Ithought "chill" was something you did with beer. Damn, now I am not sure. Dennis did train me.

Bajahowodd - 5-1-2009 at 04:16 PM

He did? There's always rehab.:spingrin:

Fred - 5-1-2009 at 04:19 PM

Sharkey's does not have that program................yet

BajaGringo - 5-1-2009 at 04:31 PM

Man, is this thread ever getting hijacked or what???

lesliego - 5-1-2009 at 04:45 PM

OK in all seriousness, as much as I can muster right now, can anybody talk about telephones as in OK, I have a US phone and calling plan, what do I want to think about for MX and please, could you talk about the weather - it's f________ing raining here again and I have no idea how to pack - beginning to think I should bring a pair of shorts, tank top sandals and jeans and a sweatshirt and fuggedabodit.....

BajaGringo - 5-1-2009 at 04:47 PM

You really need to have a good itinerary to know how to pack. Baja is a 1000 miles long with different climates, conditions, etc. I would pack a little of everything. As far as phones, pick up a Telcel plan Amigo.

TheColoradoDude - 5-1-2009 at 04:54 PM

Your going to have a variation of temps. The Gulf side is warmer and the further south you go even warmer. The Pacific side seems to have a nice cool breeze and from what I have experienced is going to range from the 60s to 80s. If your traveling in the middle down through the desert it's going to be hot.

Call your cell carrier. I have Tmobile and using it costs about 1.40 a minute. I rarely used it and had it on in case of emergencies. Calling cards are readily available down there and are a more cost effective solution. Internet access in most every town, some of the more remote fishing villages might not have an internet cafe but you will find that there will be a few locals with wi fi access. Just ask the locals.

TheColoradoDude - 5-1-2009 at 04:58 PM

Also, get a map of Baja and google weather in various towns around Baja. You will get a good idea of what to expect that way.

BajaGringo - 5-1-2009 at 04:58 PM

If you bring a notebook computer along you can use skype at hotspots along the way too!

lesliego - 5-1-2009 at 04:59 PM

thanks guys, for the info. I'm getting the hang of things, it doesn't take long. Lord, I love reading everybody's posts, this is hilarious (mostly)
Anything I have forgotton to ask so far?

TheColoradoDude - 5-1-2009 at 05:00 PM

Yeah, don't mess with the Turtles down there!

TheColoradoDude - 5-1-2009 at 05:03 PM

I would also scan your passport, driver's license, ID or whatever and email it to yourself. If you do lose them or they get lost in a flood you can hop to the nearest internet cafe and print them out.

Bajahowodd - 5-1-2009 at 05:04 PM

The main highway zig zags back and forth as it ascend Baja. You will find that on the Pacific side, the weather will be not too different from the bay area. Perhaps a few degrees warmer. Once you cross to the Sea of Cortez, it will be getting a little toasty. Santa Rosalia is the first town you'll encounter.

BajaGringo - 5-1-2009 at 05:06 PM

And don't go kissing any pigs either!!!

shari - 5-1-2009 at 05:06 PM

hey girlfriend...there are tons of little second hand trucks around...just pack your favorite undies, shorts, jeans, a sweatshirt or fleece jacket...if you need something...you can get it for a buck and give it away on your way home...pack light...you wont need any fancy stuff....phone card work fine..ya dont need a computer...there are internet cafes everywhere....the more I hear from you the more I like you and think you need to come on over...too bad ya couldnt catch a ride with gypsies...now THAT would be a magical mystery tour...they left northern saskatchewan a couple hours ago and will be crossing the border and visiting sirena on sunday...a real party wagon.

lesliego - 5-1-2009 at 05:12 PM

If I bring my laptop with me, I'm carrying another 10 pounds on my back, wow, is that worth it?

TheColoradoDude - 5-1-2009 at 05:13 PM

Do what you can to visit Shari and Juan in Bahia Asuncion!!! I would go straight there if you could and then plan from there the rest of your trip. Say hi to Tuto if your down there.:coolup:

Fred - 5-1-2009 at 05:17 PM

Can you open a beer?

shari - 5-1-2009 at 05:21 PM

finally a nice thread about peace and love and Leslie baby, I promise to make you fish tacos when you get here toots...and Tuto will be your dog for as long as you stay...although he misses the Dude tremendously and asked me today when he was coming back...he's been fighting(for love) and needs some of your super stitches.

bajaguy - 5-1-2009 at 05:23 PM

Welcome aboard!!!!

A small LED flashlight......

Don't forget a small digital camera......we want to see photos of your adventure!!

I would take an emergency stash of cash, put it in a bank account and get an ATM card.......just in case (you might want to buy a place near Shari!!!!

BajaGringo - 5-1-2009 at 05:25 PM

I have a banjo for Juan that you can pack on your back when heading down...

24baja - 5-1-2009 at 05:26 PM

Also with the current exchange rate us versus peso, I would check with your bank and exchange some $ prior to trip, we saved quite abit on our last trip got it 15:1, it is currently 13:1.

Hey Coloradodude great tip on scanning pp & id and emailing it. I will do that this trip. Thanks, Connie

DENNIS - 5-1-2009 at 05:27 PM

Quote:
Originally posted by BajaGringo
I have a banjo for Juan that you can pack on your back when heading down...



And don't forget the Uzi. It's Mexico, ya know.

BajaGringo - 5-1-2009 at 05:28 PM

Maybe I could convert it into a shooting banjo. That way she can pack "light"...

shari - 5-1-2009 at 05:33 PM

oh man bgringo...good on ya amigo....I'm getting tired of the sax these days...juan would be a killer banjo player....
when I travelled sola overland, I just brought a hammock and a light mummy bag...no tent or pad...and I hung it in those cool palapa restaurants at night after they close...I have a really lightweight parachute material hammock I'll lend ya.

BajaNuts - 5-1-2009 at 05:40 PM

welcome aboard lesliego!

Here's a link to a good thread all women traveling in Mexico should read. You may have seen it, but it's great info.

http://forums.bajanomad.com/viewthread.php?tid=36760#pid3889...


The only other thing I would reiterate is to get an ATM card. Sounds like you're leaving hometown soon, but if you can get one, I feel it's a lot safer than trying to carry all your cash with you. I traveled in Baja as a single woman. Especially if you are considering hostels or public campgrounds, the only thing you mentioned that raised a little flag was carrying all your money.

Sounds like you'll be meeting some of the fellow Nomads, have a GREAT time! and take lots of digital pics!

Ann

lesliego - 5-2-2009 at 04:19 AM

It's the middle of the night here. the wind is howling (yes really) and the rain is coming down so hard I can hear it inside and it has woken me up. I have just buried my best friend who died of pancreatic cancer and my heart is broken. I came to this place by the sea to try to heal and the only thing that happened is my heart got more broken than it was before. My son has been telling me for months now to get myself gone to Mexico, Mom, he says, I know you'll be happy there. I can just see you with your hair in braids, wandering on the beach. I have been paralyzed by fear, by the notion that I need to conform to the standards here in the US, work hard, put money away, pay your bills and retire. What a joke, I know it's a joke, I never believed in that, just worked to take care of my clients and not break their backs by charging too much, if anything. All that is lost, I have put my heart into so many things that have fallen away, died or ended up broken. Now, at the end or perhaps the start of the road,I see that I need to be true to myself, put my fear away and trust in the things I have tried to teach my son. Be who you are, don't listen to the line of crap anyone is selling about working hard, getting ahead or saving for retirement. Don't save it, I have taught him, spend it! You never know when you are gonna go, so enjoy what you have now.
He has.
I succumbed to fear for a while there, then watched a beloved friend die, while his wife told me in all seriousness, the pain he is feeling is his body healing. Well, flock me, I just can't go there. I see now, as I did so many years ago that things, stuff is just a huge burden, yes it can make life easier to have this, that or the other handy, but, by god we make it anyway. I'm putting the fear and the sadness and the broken-ness in me away and I'm coming down there, to see you all and to find the me I left behind when I let myself get broken. I may kiss a pig or two, who knows? It may end up to be healing, despite the current climate.
Fred, I can open a beer with a lighter (Mexican bottle opener) lessons courtesy of my ex-hubby and happily shared.
Shari - Tuto is going to forget about the Dude once I get there and I promise you the best home made mole you have ever had in exchange for those tacos. that is, if you have a blender - even if it is the hand-operated sort. Guess this is my bio... Can't figure out how to read anyone elses' bio, so I think I'll just out myself here. Hope it's not too much of a downer to read this. I hate 5 months of rain and no sun. I need to walk and laugh and be with people again. Should I bring my bongos? I love to beat on the drums, but it might conflict with my ability to carry a banjo...

jorgie - 5-2-2009 at 06:52 AM

leslie , OK , you are an Asuncionite . do not miss it . I miss it every day and regret not being there . No more regrets , right ??

Diver - 5-2-2009 at 07:17 AM

Raining here too; probably not far from your location.

Go to Baja. Stop to see Shari and Asuncion; you may not leave.
Experience the gentleness that is Juan.
Melt into the peaceful and scenic beaches of San Roque.
Gain the strength of those who live full and happy lives with little.
Experience the circle of life, Mexican style; it is so much more apparent.
Bon Voyage !

shari - 5-2-2009 at 07:52 AM

buenos dias Leslie...sounds like you had a rough night...It's OK darlin...I have alot of things I wish to talk to you about and we will...on the beach together and if you can get here quick enough...ms bajagypsy can share her stories too...but at this moment all I want you to focus on is
NEW BEGINNINGS.....

Bob H - 5-2-2009 at 08:11 AM

Oh... hide a couple of 20-dollar bills in your shoes for a rainy day! :smug::yawn::smug::tumble::tumble::spingrin:;);D:yes:
Bob H

BajaGringo - 5-2-2009 at 08:13 AM

Leslie:

Know the pain you are feeling right now all to well. It is part of the human condition and the price we pay at times for loving another soul. Especially one that is very close to us. I lost a 14 year old daughter five years ago. For awhile I didn't think I was going to ever survive that one as depression took deep hold of me. Baja and the wonderful people down here played a key part in my healing over time. One of the reasons I so love this place.

You never forget Leslie or stop missing them or stop hurting when you think of the person in terms of what you lost. Instead you learn to focus more on what you shared with them, the good times and memories. Over time you will learn to smile when you think of them. It takes awhile but you will get there.

As far as the other curves life throws at you, it seems to be a story we hear more and more each day. If you are more the bohemian type, creative and hard working, this can be a great place for a self starter. Lots of opportunity out there if you are willing to start from the ground floor and living like the locals doesn't scare you. It isn't for everybody but can be a great experience if you can do it. Attitude plays a big part in your success. That path will almost certainly lead you to making some great friends along the way here.

Hope you get back on track. This is a great place to help you find your road once you get your head in the right place.

Good luck...

[Edited on 5-2-2009 by BajaGringo]

DENNIS - 5-2-2009 at 09:48 AM

When is this new-life voyage supposed to begin? I don't remember seeing a departure date.

[Edited on 5-2-2009 by DENNIS]

Von - 5-2-2009 at 10:08 AM

Hey Leslie welcome aboard im from baja mexican live here in san diego. And love all these guys here on bajanomad im always watching and reading all there post everyday i dont respond much but im there everyday like yesterday one of them said the weather is like 90 degrees in mulege i got excited and i sure wished i could be there. I do recommened going to BAHIA DE LOS ANGELES its my santuary when i go on vacation once a year. Ruben and Amanda have kickback cabanas on the beach with or without a/c if its a little to hot. oh its called Daggetts campground. theres lots of beautiful places both on the sea of cortes and the pacific. Which side where you going or your just going to get lost? and see what happens kind of sorda? just have fun ..........:yes:

Fred - 5-2-2009 at 10:09 AM

Leslie.................sorry to hear about your loss. When my wife passed in 1995 it took me a long time to get over it. She also died of cancer and we had many talks on how I should continue with my life. Time is the best healer. It worked for me even if I do think about her almost everyday. Like I said Baja is mainly stress free and does a lot for ones mind. Enjoy the trip.

DENNIS - 5-2-2009 at 11:46 AM

Quote:
Originally posted by DENNIS
When is this new-life voyage supposed to begin? I don't remember seeing a departure date.



Anybody know? Leslie????

lesliego - 5-2-2009 at 11:54 AM

Hi guys,
Greetings from rainy, windy Brookings, Oregon. Think lower left corner. It is blowing and raining so hard right now I can hardly remember the sun. I gotta tell you guys I am sitting here in a million dollar house overloking the ocean, lighthouse, mountains -- everything everyone would think one could wish they had, and while I am grateful not to be outdoors right now, I wish I was down there with you all and los mexicanos. I am overwhelmed by how loving and caring you all are. I wish I was there right now, I sure could use a hug.;)
Shari - I am coming to see you first. I am waiting impatiently for new beginnings and time on the beach with you and the dear doggies. Can I bring you anything that would be a treat from US? All I have is dark purple nail polish... and a recipie in my head for mole....

Bajagringo, boy if the price you pay for love is this - what I am going though - I must be a billionaire and just not know it. Thank you for your sensitive and caring post. I'm having a hard time typing, because I'm crying, finally. I am taking all of your good advice.

Dennis, voyage begins Tuesday.

Von - going to get lost and found. Thank you for directions.

Fred. You are so lucky to have been able to have talked to you wife. My friend Craig refused to talk about what was happening to him and this is what makes me so sad.

Everyone - you know I'm gonna enjoy the trip! Hard to type an exclamation point when you are crying, but hey. You guys are fabulous. Hope I can be there with you all and contribute something like you have all given to me.

I owe you all a beer, or a dish of mole. You can take me up on that.

TheColoradoDude - 5-2-2009 at 11:58 AM

Quote:
Originally posted by Diver

Gain the strength of those who live full and happy lives with little.
Experience the circle of life, Mexican style; it is so much more apparent.
Bon Voyage !


Amen! Brother! Well said!:coolup:

Fred - 5-2-2009 at 12:47 PM

Brookings...............Wow last time thru there I ask a girl to lunch and stayed a year and a half. I love that city. She owns the Health Shop on Railroad. Spent a lot of time at Harris State Beach Park and at the harbor.

DENNIS - 5-2-2009 at 01:00 PM

Quote:
Originally posted by lesliego
I owe you all a beer, or a dish of mole. You can take me up on that.



Make mine Pacifico please. Gawd.....there's nothing worse than chocolate chicken. Thanks anyway.

[Edited on 5-2-2009 by DENNIS]

Von - 5-2-2009 at 01:35 PM

Lost and found is awesome did that before just need lots of time have fun.

Udo - 5-2-2009 at 01:50 PM

Leslie:
What is your final destination, and are you moving to BAJA?

vandenberg - 5-2-2009 at 05:33 PM

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Originally posted by udowinkler
Leslie:
What is your final destination, and are you moving to BAJA?


Brookings, the La Jolla of Oregon.
Isn't this place one of the "many banana belts" Oregon and Washington are famous for.:?::?:
And now all that rain.:no::no::P
:biggrin:

BajaGringo - 5-2-2009 at 05:45 PM

Leslie:

So glad that you are able to cry. It took me awhile too. My daughter's death was sudden and with no warning. I spent several weeks following in a state of shock. When you are finally able to grieve you can begin to heal.

Many wonderful people down here on this peninsula, some who hardly knew me at the time took me into their families and their lives, nurturing me back to even keel. They are an intimate part of the very reason I love this place so much and may even come across as being overly defensive at times of her. Some here will tell you that I have my head in the sand.

They haven't seen life from my perspective.

Get your things together, include a Plan B on your list where needed and make your move. Once you get started just don't look back. Perhaps our paths will cross at some point.

Good luck...

Fred - 5-2-2009 at 05:50 PM

Yes Vandenberg, it is a banana belt. Most of the time great weather, but last summer I was there one day and it was 74 and sunny and the next day the wind came up the pass an it was 112. I went 20 miles North and it was back to 70's.

805gregg - 5-2-2009 at 07:13 PM

Don't go to Baja to escape, wherever you go there you are.

BajaGringo - 5-2-2009 at 07:16 PM

Yes, Bucakaroo Bonzai...

Mango - 5-3-2009 at 02:48 AM

Lesliego,

I'm glad the people here have welcomed you as they have. I am sure you will have many bright days ahead of you soon.

I recommend you try to get a hold of a copy of the, "People's Guide to Mexico" It's often available at the library, and in most bookstores. It is a fun read and it was instrumental in giving me confidence and helping me comfortably travel in Mexico the first few times I went there.

If you want to travel by bus, travel cheaply, know the culture, and read some funny Mexico travel stories this is a good book to have. It's won't tell you where to go.. but just what you might expect on the way and how to deal with it.

If you want, check out the website. There is lots of good info there and its free. The author and his wife are kind souls and have traveled all over Mexico for years. I don't take it with me, as I have it etched in my memory.

http://www.peoplesguide.com/

Now on to some more advice.

Get an ATM card if you can, its just easier. Travelers checks are a PIA IMO..

On the bus-
- Pack your valuables in a daypack, with some TP, a good book, and most importantly a good sweatshirt for the frigid A/C. (Carry this on with you, I put my bag by my feet - strap wrapped around my leg while I sleep vs. overhead)
-Your main bag goes down below. Some buses will match a claim tag to your bag.. don't lose it.. Either way.. put your name/address on inside of bag.
-Don't sit in the rear.. the bathroom and area just outside it gets to smell a little after a few hundred miles..
-I prefer the right side, midway back.. you can watch bags being loaded/unloaded at stops from here. (I've traveled tens of thousands of miles via bus in Mexico and never had anything stolen.. but its still calming to see which bags are being offloaded)
-Expect to be stopped and searched at military checkpoints. No big deal. The soldiers are nice, as long as you don't carry anything illegal.
-Carry some snacks. The bus will stop at some towns and people will come on selling burritos, sodas, etc.. If you leave to get food in the bus station.. take your daypack that has your valuables with you. Many bust drivers will anouce a 15 minute stay etc.. but it is good to ask them.. so they check for you before you leave.
-Limit your bus trips to 6 hour legs if you can.. It's 22 hours from the border to Mazatlan.. oh.. so brutal.. :lol: Just think.. you could be in Mexico city from TJ just a mere 48 hours of solid bus riding.. It's no fun.. break it up
-Except for Christmas and Easter.. you can pretty much just show up at a bus station and be on you way within minutes or hours.. no advance purchase needed; but, buy your bus ticket a day before you leave whatever town you are in to keep waiting to a minimum.

Other advice..

Take some photos from home. Photos of your home, places you like, friends, family, pets, local landmarks, etc.. Locals love to look at photos from somewhere else and they truly are worth a 1,000 words.


Remember it's Mexico. Start with plan A, move to plan B, find out that plan C is on holiday, laugh your way to plan Z. Things get done, just not the same way or on the same schedule.

You will have a good time and find what you need. Enjoy and let the light shine in.

:coolup:

shari - 5-3-2009 at 07:02 AM

Mangos advice is excellent....all of it. Your enjoyment of bus ride depends on where you sit for sure particularly at night...I try to ask the bus driver for those seats but sometimes he puts you beside an obnoxious passenger (just for fun)...so I often change seats more than once but also prefer the middle right side...NOT over any tires as it is bumpier...the back is noisy and smelly...the front is noisy with people talking to the bus driver and his music. I wear earplugs and at night wear a bandana over my eyes to keep the light out too. I admit to have snuck on a New Mix roadie(tequila and squirt c-cktail in a can) and pumkin seeds to go with the movies they show! I often travel alone by bus and never had a problem.

Mango - 5-3-2009 at 01:23 PM

Shari is right. You can often just change seats if you don't like the one your in. It's hard to do on crowded buses, and somebody may ask you to get out of their seat later on.. But don't stay in a seat if it's broken, dirty, or a wheel well takes up all your legroom.

Since you speak Spanish; you might find your fellow passenger next to you or across the aisle to be extra friendly, curious, and talkative. It's pretty normal; but, usually they quiet down. Older people can be interesting to sit by, and will tend to watch out for you and your stuff more than others.

lesliego - 5-3-2009 at 01:35 PM

Thanks Shari and Mango, taking everyone's good advice. shari, looking forward to that talk on the beach...

DENNIS - 5-3-2009 at 01:57 PM

If you go on ABC, the seats are assigned which makes it important to buy your ticket before the last minute. When I take the Ensenada/TJ early AM express, I buy the ticket on the day before departure.

Have a good trip.