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The Wave

Martyman - 7-29-2009 at 08:54 AM

Sometimes when I'm driving around in NorCal I get an uncontrollable feeling to wave at a car(s) that are passing by. No, I don't know them and maybe I'm just a little whack. You bajaphiles know that this is from travelling south of the border on desolate roads and people wave at you and you think "this is a cool place with great people".

In mexico you wave at an old beater coming the other way and 6-9 hands shoot up (plus one from the trunk) to give a greeting. In NorCal...nuthin'! There probably thinking, "do I know that dude?". I get a response maybe 10% of the time here as opposed to baja where it's more like 90% response. I keep giving the wave cause it makes me feel good and reminds me of where I would like to be...baja.

Is the wave a baja thing or is it all of Mexico? I know the deserted roads have to be one of the reasons. Anyway I dig it and will continue to give the wave.

I sometimes follow it up with half the peace sign if there is no response but, I'm kind of a jerk sometimes.

Curt63 - 7-29-2009 at 08:57 AM

The wave is a small town thing here in the US too. When I visit family in a small town in Pennsylvania everyone waves.

Here in San Diego I get a few backward one finger peace signs:lol:

woody with a view - 7-29-2009 at 08:59 AM

i always initiate a wave.

you gotta keep in mind that these are the folks who are going to help you out in a sticky situation. and it just feels good.

Skeet/Loreto - 7-29-2009 at 10:02 AM

It has been Traditional in Texas forever.

One of the first things new folks notice after arriving in Texas is the hospitility of the Hand Rasied in greeting and all the strange Folks that say "howdy' when they meet and pass you.

DENNIS - 7-29-2009 at 10:08 AM

I wave to almost everybody who looks like they belong in the area. I've been doing it for so long that now they wave before I have a chance to give mine. It doesn't hurt and shows them that your hand is empty. I'm further convinced that the empty hand is the reason for all the handshaking as well.


OK....Bad joke time:

Q. Do you know how to make a one-armed Mexican fall out of a tree?

A. Wave to him.

laughlaughlaughlaughlaughlaughlaughlaughlaughlaugh...gasp...laughlaughlaughlaugh

BajaNuts - 7-29-2009 at 10:21 AM

Definitely a small town thing. In our town in eastern WA, everyone waves, or at least smiles, says HI or nods. Especially if passing a vehicle on one of the less traveled roads.

That kind of friendliness almost got me in trouble in La Paz. I was walking on the beach, alone, and some guy drives by. I smile, and say "Hola", he turns around, comes back, gets out of the jeep and starts hitting on me. I found out later, from Shari's posts, that smiling and saying "Hola" is considered an invitation to Mexican men. Girls gotta keep a grumpy face. It's a bummer because I like to smile and be friendly to strangers.

here's that thread, good for the ladies to read-
http://forums.bajanomad.com/viewthread.php?tid=36760


edit for sp

[Edited on 7-29-2009 by BajaNuts]

Martyman - 7-29-2009 at 11:18 AM

Quote:
Originally posted by Skeet/Loreto
It has been Traditional in Texas forever.

One of the first things new folks notice after arriving in Texas is the hospitility of the Hand Rasied in greeting and all the strange Folks that say "howdy' when they meet and pass you.


Why are texans such jerks when you meet them in other places? They allways think texas is the best in whatever subject you bring up.

4baja - 7-29-2009 at 11:33 AM

sometimes my wave is missing 4 fingers:coolup:

toneart - 7-29-2009 at 11:37 AM

Everybody waves in Mulege. It really gives me a good feeling. You sure don't see any sign of resentment.

In Northern California, not so much. Waving is a small town thing, but where I live (small town), all the jerks from the cities moved up here and brought their 'tudes with them.

It is also a sign of the times in the U.S. People are more guarded now. I think fear is the word. You are more apt to get the one finger salute here, or be inviting some kind of confrontation if you wave.:O

LisaR. - 7-29-2009 at 11:47 AM

Mark and I smiled and waved at everyone while we were in Baja, and always, always got a friendly smile and wave in return. Here you pretty much only wave at neighbors and friends, but down there it's as if they are saying "We are all friends and neighbors in the world." I love it!

BajaNuts, thank you for the redirect to the other thread. It didn't seem to be a problem when I was travelling with my husband, but definitely worth keeping in mind for travelling alone!

I have a question about "The Wave," though. Mark noticed that alot of times, men would smile and give him the peace sign in response to his wave (the regular two-fingered "Peace, Love, and Fish Tacos" peace sign, not the one-fingered backwards peace sign we are so familiar with up here!). He started giving it back, and was met with even bigger, friendlier smiles. My question is, does it mean the same thing, i.e. "peace", as it does up here? Or does it have some kind of sports or political connotation that we are not aware of? It is obviously a friendly, positive gesture...

Bajahowodd - 7-29-2009 at 11:51 AM

Maybe for another thread, but y'all know that when the vehicle in front of you turns their left blinker on, it means they're telling you it's ok to pass. Ever try passing someone in the States that has their left blinker on?

woody with a view - 7-29-2009 at 11:55 AM

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Originally posted by Bajahowodd
Maybe for another thread, but y'all know that when the vehicle in front of you turns their left blinker on, it means they're telling you it's ok to pass. Ever try passing someone in the States that has their left blinker on?


i always try to pull into the oncoming lane when intending to turn left AS I TURN MY SIGNAL ON. no confusion there.

Bajahowodd - 7-29-2009 at 12:13 PM

No doubt, Woody, the right thing to do!

The perfect country wave

Dave - 7-29-2009 at 12:28 PM

The way it's done. Learned it from my dad.

Grasp the steering wheel at 12 o'clock. With your thumb hooked under the wheel lift four fingers.

Anything else and they'll know you're city folk. ;D

DENNIS - 7-29-2009 at 12:36 PM

You've got to be careful how you flop your hand around, and where, these days. If the wrong person sees you do that, he may want to have words with you for dissing his mama.

toneart - 7-29-2009 at 12:38 PM

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Originally posted by Bajahowodd
Maybe for another thread, but y'all know that when the vehicle in front of you turns their left blinker on, it means they're telling you it's ok to pass. Ever try passing someone in the States that has their left blinker on?


It can be confusing though. When they turn on the left blinker it means either: I am turning left, or You may pass me. Usually, If you are on the open highway, you can be pretty well assured that the vehicle in front of you is saying "you may pass". However, still be very cautions. That big truck in front of you can see what is ahead. They are always honorable, in that they have your life in their hands. But, your life depends on their judgment. Be prepared to duck back in behind them, if there is a curve looming ahead, or if an oncoming vehicle seems too near for your vehicle's capacity to make it. If you are already committed, beside the truck, you have to go for it! Flash your headlights and hang on.

On my long trips down or back up to the States, I am always pulling a trailer or a boat. That accounts for my exercising extra caution. One wheel off the edge and......

In Mulege, when I am turning left into The Orchard from the highway, I turn on my left blinker. I also am aware that someone coming up behind me may think I want them to pass. So, if there are no vehicles coming in the opposite direction, I pull into the oncoming lane, and then vehicles zoom past me on the right.

If someone is coming from the opposite direction, I of course stay in my lane with the left signal on, pump my breaks so as to make my brake lights go on and off, and hope for the best.

Usually the system works well. The more experience you have driving in Mexico, the more adept you are in making your own judgments. Nevertheless, the "what if" scenario is still lurking in my mind.:O:

turn left by going right to cross the highway (really)

Mulegena - 7-29-2009 at 01:58 PM

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Originally posted by toneart
Quote:
Originally posted by Bajahowodd
Maybe for another thread, but y'all know that when the vehicle in front of you turns their left blinker on, it means they're telling you it's ok to pass?


It can be confusing though.

Usually the system works well. The more experience you have driving in Mexico, the more adept you are in making your own judgments. :O:


Another practice and road system are the right-hand lanes which route the vehicle off the roadway to the right where they wait until it is safe to turn left across the roadway: Notice this practice on Mex 1-South turning in to San Bruno. Notice the right-side exits off the highway when traveling south and crossing the highway into Loreto.

Mick was rear-ended by an armored truck as he turned left into the Oasis in Mulege. Had his turn signal on, brake lights working, on-coming car in opposite lane and no right-side median-- KAPLOW!-- his car totaled, him unhurt and, DARN! none of that cash onboard the Brinks truck got loose!

In the police report the Brinks driver admitted his negligence, responsibility and company liability in the accident-- of course, no insurance payout has been forthcoming-- but THAT is the subject for another Thread, yes?

PASS IT FORWARD

Mulegena - 7-29-2009 at 02:11 PM

Quote:
Originally posted by Martyman
You bajaphiles know that this is from travelling south of the border on desolate roads and people wave at you and you think "this is a cool place with great people".

I keep giving the wave cause it makes me feel good and reminds me of where I would like to be...baja.

Is the wave a baja thing or is it all of Mexico? I know the deserted roads have to be one of the reasons. Anyway I dig it and will continue to give the wave.

Cypress - 7-29-2009 at 02:41 PM

About the "wave". It's one of those neat things that happens when you only meet another vehicle every now and then.:biggrin: And you're glad to see 'em.:D Means that the road is clear.:biggrin:

wiltonh - 7-29-2009 at 02:50 PM

The wave in Baja is part of the country but I think there is a different kind of wave in the states which is just as nice. I call it the Nomad wave.

We were sitting at a gas station in California where we filling up, when two women started waving at me. I had never seen them before but they came up and pointed to my vehicle with sailboards on the back and a motorcycle on the front and said: "You are going to Baja right?" My answer was "Yes".

Their next statement surprised me even more. They said: "I bet we can even pick the location in Baja where you are headed." They said you are headed for La Ventana just South of Lapaz. They were correct.

Nomads:

It takes one to know one.

Wilton

Crusoe - 7-29-2009 at 06:37 PM

Here in Washington State among the San Juan Islands, there is an Island by the name of Lopez. Serviced by a ferry. It is about 20miles long and 5miles wide. It is mostly old farms. It is a major destination resort and playground as well. EVERYONE WAVES continually at every one else, whether or not they are a local or just a visiting tourist. In time if one spends any length of time there, pretty soon you will be inconvienced by this gesture, because when there is a ferry line of traffic that has just unloaded ,you could possibly have waved 150 times on your 10 minuet trip to the store. Takes all kinds. Whew!! ++C++

Sallysouth - 7-29-2009 at 09:23 PM

I learned from my son- in law a most "local" type of wave.It really isn't a wave per say, but a sign of fingers/hand.Index and second finger pointed out and slightly down, thumb out, last two fingers tucked in.All the locals know that one.Anyone else know about this "secret"(not) hand sign?;)

Martyman - 7-30-2009 at 07:56 AM

Sally;
Are you in the Crips or the Bloods?

Sallysouth - 7-30-2009 at 09:16 AM

Martyman, neither!Just a Bajalovin Gramma!!I guess I didn't know the crips and bloods do that.Haven't been around any gang areas lately(never, that I know of!):biggrin::biggrin: How come all the Mexicanos that Mijo knows do this sign??He is a hunter and fisherman!!:?::?:

shari - 7-30-2009 at 09:44 AM

your hangin with the right amigos now sally...this "cool dude" wave is widely used here and often accompanied by "Quiole" pronounced keyoolay stretching out the ooooo sound...super cool...sort of means...hows it hangin bro...or whassssuuuup.

[Edited on 7-30-2009 by shari]

postholedigger - 7-30-2009 at 03:49 PM

I do the 2 finger and a thumb "wave" with the other 2 fingers still curled in a relaxed position. Just takes too much effort to fully open the other 2 I guess.

While out for a run:

When in Baja:
A wave and a upwards nod to pedestrians (usually reciprocated)
A thumbs up and an "orale" to other runners (a nod back at me)
A crisp salute to troop transports (usually reciprocated)

When at home in San Diego:
A wave and a upwards nod to pedestrians and joggers (response: mostly reciprocated but I sometimes get the "What are you? Diseased?" look)

bent-rim - 7-30-2009 at 05:39 PM

I ride an old Paris/Dakar BMW and I share a wave with other motorcycles, usually I flash a low peace sign, except when I'm in a tight turn and need to focus. Most bikers wave back except for Harley riders for some reason. Very few wave back. It's cool though, I've passed more Harleys than any other brand of bike.

vandy - 7-30-2009 at 07:29 PM

Hi Sally...I do that wave also. Just the hand on top of the steering wheel with the two fingers and thumb extended. I always get the "peace" or "victory" sign back, and it's perfect for the cops too.
I don't want to get TOO familiar!

Sallysouth - 7-30-2009 at 09:31 PM

OK! So I got it right! Thanks Shari, digger, and vandy!It's just another Baja sign, but it seems to invoke a comadrie (sp) feeling.U so got it vandy!! But Shari, if you are traveling say, 40 mphs, they can't hear you saying Eeehoooolay!!;):cool: edit to include response to Postholedigger:Thats all good stuff, ya got it goin on.!! Orale is always good. (wheres Martyman??)This is a cool thread you started!

[Edited on 7-31-2009 by Sallysouth]

[Edited on 7-31-2009 by Sallysouth]

DianaT - 7-31-2009 at 08:01 AM

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Originally posted by Sallysouth
OK! So I got it right! Thanks Shari, digger, and vandy!It's just another Baja sign, but it seems to invoke a comadrie (sp) feeling.U so got it vandy!! But Shari, if you are traveling say, 40 mphs, they can't hear you saying Eeehoooolay!!;):cool: edit to include response to Postholedigger:Thats all good stuff, ya got it goin on.!! Orale is always good. (wheres Martyman??)This is a cool thread you started!

[Edited on 7-31-2009 by Sallysouth]

[Edited on 7-31-2009 by Sallysouth]


After having worked with gangs in California, we had to learn to appreciate that wave in a whole new way---but just like saying Hola to everyone we see anywhere in town, we learned. :lol:

Now, I wonder what would happen in downtown San Diego if one were to greet everyone who came into a restaurant and then when leaving the restaurant, tell everyone one saw eating to enjoy their meal. :lol::lol:

Diane

Martyman - 7-31-2009 at 09:43 AM

Does Quiole mean "whassup homefries?" I think I got it now.

Sallysouth - 7-31-2009 at 01:11 PM

Martyman..:lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::yes::yes:

Santiago - 7-31-2009 at 02:03 PM

Quote:
Originally posted by jdtrotter
but just like saying Hola to everyone we see anywhere in town, we learned. :lol:
Diane


Uh-oh. Learned what? What am I doing wrong?

DianaT - 7-31-2009 at 02:13 PM

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Originally posted by Santiago
Quote:
Originally posted by jdtrotter
but just like saying Hola to everyone we see anywhere in town, we learned. :lol:
Diane


Uh-oh. Learned what? What am I doing wrong?


We just were not used to greeting everyone we ever see in town, and in Asuncion, everyone says hello.

Dave - 7-31-2009 at 02:52 PM

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Originally posted by bent-rim
I've passed more Harleys than any other brand of bike.


Motorcycle riders are a rare breed. Harley riders are a dime a dozen.

I've had several bikes of all stripes... Mainly British and German. The only pig I ever owned was a Harley. ;D

toneart - 7-31-2009 at 03:33 PM

Quote:
Originally posted by Martyman
Does Quiole mean "whassup homefries?" I think I got it now.


Some of you may be shocked to know what "Quiole" really means:

First of all, the Q at the beginning of the word does not belong there. Oh, it is probably a phonetic interpretation of the sound some make while uttering it. When put in print, you will find many different spellings of a word.

What they are really saying is "Hijo-Le!" (Son of her). Within the culture, blasphemous insults may be hurled among friends. If you are friendly and smiling and/or showing a hand sign that is a universal greeting, you are among "friends".

I have always heard Hijo-Le!, or Hijole! used more as an exclamation, meaning....Wow! That is incredulous!...used with :rolleyes: and the head tossed back like a backward nod. They often stretch the Eeeeee out. They are almost always smiling when the say it. It is a reaction to something.

Why is it blasphemous? Well it is short for hijo de la . Think about what that means in Biblical terms. Son of the one who was******...inferring that Mary wasn't a virgin. It is an idiom. (Hijole!)

I wouldn't worry about using the term. It is in wide usage and is meant in friendly terms...unless it is not. If intended as an insult towards someone you are angry with, you'd better be prepared to back it up...or run.:o

[Edited on 7-31-2009 by toneart]

shari - 7-31-2009 at 03:59 PM

with all due respect mr.tone...hiloje is a different animal I do believe....but in case I am wrong...quiole has morphed into a harmless way of saying whatzzzup homey....sort of like "a la bestia" which sort of means no way manand is acceptable for kids to say...but is a nice way of saying a la verga....oooops sorry...perdona la groseria pero fue un ejemplo no mas.

[Edited on 7-31-2009 by shari]

toneart - 7-31-2009 at 04:16 PM

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Originally posted by shari
with all due respect mr.tone...hiloje is a different animal I do believe....but in case I am wrong...quiole has morphed into a harmless way of saying whatzzzup homey....sort of like "a la bestia" which sort of means no way manand is acceptable for kids to say...but is a nice way of saying a la verga....oooops sorry...perdona la groseria pero fue un ejemplo no mas.

[Edited on 7-31-2009 by shari]


Shari, I think we are both right. I think it is an idiom that has indeed morphed. On the other hand,Quiole may indeed be a word of a different animal. It does not translate when I ran it through Google Translate. If it is another word altogether, I would be surprised. What does Juan say about this?

I offer what I know to be true, but I certainly don't know everything. It may be that Quiole is a different word altogether. I am certainly open to be refuted. I will be just slightly embarrassed, but more importantly, I will be better informed.:)

BajaNuts - 7-31-2009 at 04:25 PM

I am seeing 3 different words from Shari and Toneart
Quiole
hiloje
Hijole


contributing to the confusion maybe or just a typo?

shari - 7-31-2009 at 04:32 PM

yup...mine is a typo...should be hijole...some guests(nomad lurkers) just left and i had to have some cubas with them, being the sympathetic hostess I am...lo siento...juan says "no se"

toneart...i am rarely embarrased when I have erred...to err is human and we learn by errors...thus we evolve and become better people.

toneart - 7-31-2009 at 04:33 PM

Quote:
Originally posted by BajaNuts
I am seeing 3 different words from Shari and Toneart
Quiole
hiloje
Hijole


contributing to the confusion maybe or just a typo?


I think Quiole and Hijole are different spellings of the same word. (derived from the phonetic).

I think hiloje was a typo by Shari, reversing the place of the l and the j.

It is confusing, huh? :spingrin:

DENNIS - 7-31-2009 at 04:33 PM

Quote:
Originally posted by BajaNuts
I am seeing 3 different words from Shari and Toneart
Quiole
hiloje
Hijole


contributing to the confusion maybe or just a typo?



I think these words and probably many more stem from, "Hijo de La ."
I once had a whole book of "Chingoles." Can't find it when I need it.

JESSE - 7-31-2009 at 04:34 PM

Heit!!

toneart - 7-31-2009 at 04:39 PM

Quote:
Originally posted by DENNIS
Quote:
Originally posted by BajaNuts
I am seeing 3 different words from Shari and Toneart
Quiole
hiloje
Hijole


contributing to the confusion maybe or just a typo?



I think these words and probably many more stem from, "Hijo de La ."
I once had a whole book of "Chingoles." Can't find it when I need it.


It was probably first uttered by the Moors in the Eighth Century when one of them stubbed their toe during the invasion of The Iberian Peninsula. The word Caca hadn't been invented yet. :lol:

DENNIS - 7-31-2009 at 04:48 PM

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Originally posted by toneart
It was probably first uttered by the Moors in the Eighth Century when one of them stubbed their toe during the invasion of The Iberian Peninsula. The word Caca hadn't been invented yet. :lol:



You're probably right, Tony. Here's another explaination of the origen of "La ."
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Myth of La Malinche in Mexican History
This is an excerpt from the paper...

La Malinche (circa 1502-153?) is one of the two central female figures in Mexico's historical iconography - the other woman is Our Lady of Guadalupe, a somewhat more-than-human competitor for the honor (Gonzales 229). La Malinche holds her own against the Blessed Virgin as a mythic figure in Mexican history, however. She was, factually, the translator/cultural interpreter who crucially aided Hernßn CortTs in his conquest of the Aztec Empire. As his mistress during that time, bearing him a son, La Malinche was also one of the most visible progenitors of the Mestizo - the race of mixed-blood Spanish-Indians who represent the core of Mexican society. Since the wars for independence from Spain and, later, France, La Malinche has been vilified by the epithet "malinchist," a derogatory term used to signify one contaminated by foreign influences - for she is considered the betrayer of the indigenous civilization destroyed by the Conquest (Alba 13, 248-249). She is honored by Chicana feminists as "La Llorona," the symbolic victim of machismo, the Mexican male's code of bullying honor (Anaya 81-89; Cypress 141). The Spanish conquistadors also honored her - as "Doħa Marina," an Indian princess of noble blood fitting to stand by their side in conquest (Cypress 26-40; Dfaz 66-67). Modern Mexican nationalists call her La , the violated one, and cry "Viva Mexico, hijos de La " - Long live Mexico, sons of La (Paz 65-88). So many different characterizations s
. . .
later history of Mexico would develop a strong, censuring attitude toward the Malinche-CortTs relationship - imposing a Roman Catholic morality on a pre-Christian context and depicting La Malinche as a defiled "hoar" in contrast to purity of the Blessed Virgin - at the time both participants very easily entered into the relationship (Gonzales 229-249). La Malinche was baptized and christened "Doħa Marina." She remained CortTs' mistress, and in 1522, after the Conquest, bore him a son, Martin. The son was never treated as a bastard; when La Malinche married the conquistador Juan Jamarillo a few years later, CortTs brought Martin to Spain to be reared as a nobleman. This racial and moral equanimity is one of the key historical points to be made in an examination the Malinche-CortTs story - especially vis-a-vis the Mexican tradition that casts her as "La ," the violated one. In the paradox of his career, CortTs was very sincere in his respect for the civilization he was destroying. His letters spoke of Tenochtitlan's grand monuments and the Aztec's accomplishments; he encouraged his conquistadors to marry Indian noblewomen. Racism was apparently not one of CortTs' vices, perhaps a result of the Christian-Moor-Jew mi
. . .

Quiole!

toneart - 7-31-2009 at 04:57 PM



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