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[*] posted on 3-12-2008 at 11:16 AM


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Isn't mayo the base for the white sauce at all the fish taco stands?


Probably..................come to think about it, I'll go to Rubio's for fish tacos today for lunch.

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[*] posted on 3-12-2008 at 11:42 AM


Where Spoilage can be an issue the smaller containers would be best. If it was not used in such large amounts I would suggest the little packages that come in the size of a Mac Donalds ketchup for areas with no refrigeration.The kids get a kick out of roasting marshmallows too. A few bags go a long way for an after dinner treat.
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[*] posted on 3-12-2008 at 07:01 PM


Well, from one climbing trip I made years ago to the mainland I found that a good quality nylon rope (about 8mm) was highly prized by one ranchero. With a huge grin he told be he was going to use it to tie up his horse.

Old rock climber carabeiners, good (but cheap) LED flashlights that have a good battery life, fishing line(as noted...but you might want to avoid unless you have a fishing permit), buttons and sewing supplies for women, a set of nylon guitar strings for musicians, deflated soccer balls and inflation needles, etc.. etc..

Some good tips already here. Some things like soccer balls might be best donated to a local school or church leader instead of just giving it to one kid or family as not to make others jealous, etc.. use your discretion. Have a great trip and right on for thinking and caring about the locals ahead of time.
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[*] posted on 3-12-2008 at 07:12 PM


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More and more "Ugly Americans"...don't ya just love it!


Capt. George, I think the Ugly American only rears it's head if the delivery of said gifts is done in an ugly way. I have seen it pretty ugly. Hopefully the majority of Nomads would be sensitive to that fact and not fall into that catagory.

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[*] posted on 3-12-2008 at 07:25 PM


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More and more "Ugly Americans"...don't ya just love it!


Capt. George, I think the Ugly American only rears it's head if the delivery of said gifts is done in an ugly way. I have seen it pretty ugly. Hopefully the majority of Nomads would be sensitive to that fact and not fall into that catagory.

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Maybe George was giving the true meaning to these generous folks. True, in the sense that the Ugly American in the story was a good guy. I hope that's what he meant anyway.
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[*] posted on 3-12-2008 at 07:28 PM


Dennis,

Thanks for making me look at it from that perspective.

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[*] posted on 3-12-2008 at 08:03 PM


This is an interesting discussion.

Is jsut plain old money an utlimate option? Or is the lack of access to consumer goods the barrier?

I usually bring down chocolate, trinkets and warm things like toques as gifts for my windsurfing friends. I brought amuletas one year and noticed a Mexican friend wearing his the next year. Then I almost fell off my bar stool when I offered to bring windsurfing photo prints next time and learned could simply download them onto onto his new laptop...quite funny watching me mousing my way through the spanish-language drop-down boxes (especially since I intepret the language using my powers of intuition).

This gringa needs some more general guidelines, please...what is too personal or guache or meaningless or accepted just to be polite. Are there real no-nos? Do I just follow my heart and give everything to the dog rescue folks?!!




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[*] posted on 3-13-2008 at 06:25 AM


Larry,

"Where There Is No Doctor, a village health care handbook" by David Werner.
I consider it a must have, with simple, helpful illustrations for those with reading difficulties. I picked ours up at West Marine.

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[*] posted on 3-13-2008 at 09:34 AM


If you were out on a ranch 25 miles from the nearest tienda, and you just ran out of toothpast or needed an aspirin for a toothache, or your last blue tarp was in tatters and a storm was blowing in, you know you have to drive at least 50 miles to get what you need, even if you had the cash. Yes, of course, some families are better off than others -- who we're talking about here, are the have-nots. Sometimes I bring many many packets of vegetable seeds. I don't give them to just anyone - I see someone who has a garden - a means to maximize the potential of the gift . Same Same. You give those balls and bats to kids who are playing with a piece of rusted barbed wire.
I have a new gift idea - one I will take with me this weekend - about a dozen golf balls, and 3 putters. They can make a miniature golf course and have some fun. On my next trip, I'll see what they've done with them and bring more balls (I live near a golf course and can get a dozen in a weekend)!!
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[*] posted on 3-13-2008 at 11:36 AM


I've enjoyed this thread, as I have frequently wondered about etiquette of bringing items to donate to organizations. I haven't really brought things, because I don't want to offend people by just assuming that they "need" something because their country is not as affluent (or wasteful...) as America. I guess you could say I am concerned about that "Ugly American" (in the bad sense) image. We've figured that when we go to Mexico, one of the best things we can do is to support their businesses (by eating out, shopping and treating ourselves to the wonderful helado in town). But the truth is, I would like to bring things down, like school supplies or something where it's needed and appreciated. So, I have two questions:

How do you find out where there is a need/appreciation for things?

Paulina, how have you seen things be given in a "ugly american" way?

I love the creative ideas everyone has mentioned, too!




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[*] posted on 3-13-2008 at 12:09 PM


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Paulina, how have you seen things be given in a "ugly american" way?


When it's given to make self look cool or asssauge ones' ego.
Sorry Paulina but I almost burst into laughter one time when a Gringo had to have his picture taken while handing off some trinkets to some pangueros one time.. It was embarrassing for all but the "giver".




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[*] posted on 3-13-2008 at 12:13 PM


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Paulina, how have you seen things be given in a "ugly american" way?


When it's given to make self look cool or asssauge ones' ego.
Sorry Paulina but I almost burst into laughter one time when a Gringo had to have his picture taken while handing off some trinkets to some pangueros one time.. It was embarrassing for all but the "giver".


Thanks, Sharksbaja.

I can imagine how embarassing it would be to witness that! :rolleyes:




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[*] posted on 3-13-2008 at 01:57 PM


Sharksbaja hit it on the head. It's has to do with the attitude of the giver. Ugly people need the accolades, the attention and sometimes expect something for free in return.

Here's a story I wrote about an ugly American. He's a good example of that. He made a big presentation of giving away an old broken down fan to a man without electricity at his house, and then demanded a beer in exhange. He was the same guy who gave his panguero a fish instead of a tip.

I hope this link works.

http://forums.bajanomad.com/viewthread.php?tid=29397

I've seen guys get off of fishing boats and give useless equipment as a tip to the panguero who just worked his butt off, making a big deal of it in front of their buddies as they tip back their beers.

Or the guy who gave books to the local library then went around town announcing his deed and expected people to say thank you.

I usually have things (gifts) in the truck just in case the timing is right to pass them on. Sometimes I'll come all the way back home with the stuff if the feeling wasn't right. I had a bunch of Spanish coloring books and crayons last summer, but only gave away three in Asuncion because the timing was right.

Sometimes you can leave things with the local church, or the Principal of a school.

I have friends in different towns that I will leave things with who know who is the most needy in the community vs. those who will resell the items for the $. Some people might say, "Oh, but they really needed the money." True, but it's what those people did with the money that I would not want to contribute to.

There are also charities where you can donate items that will be sold, with the proceeds donated to good causes. The thrift shop in Campo La Jolla in Punta Banda is one of those. The proceeds go to the local rural school and it's children.

I think it's the anonymous giver that usually has the right attitude.

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[*] posted on 3-13-2008 at 05:42 PM


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Sometimes I bring many many packets of vegetable seeds. I don't give them to just anyone - I see someone who has a garden - a means to maximize the potential of the gift . Same Same. You give those balls and bats to kids who are playing with a piece of rusted barbed wire.


Thats a great idea; but, make sure you bring them heirloom or non-hybrid seeds if you bring corn seeds (or other crops for that matter) as the modern hybrid corn plants can cross pollinate the local corn varieties and can render them infertile or reduce the yield of future crops. Most rural indigenous farmers save seed to grow for the next year and once it becomes cross pollinated it can drastically reduce crop yield for the future. This is already a problem in some parts of Mexico and most importation or planting of genetically modified corn seeds is prohibited by the Mexican government.

Hybrid seeds grow great on modern farms with tractors, fertilizers, pesticides, etc.. But; the seeds are not intended to be reused the next year(grown as a seed crop). Thus, modern hybrid seeds must be purchased anew each year from the seed manufacturers/breeders each year. Most rural farmers are unaware of this and even more importantly are without means to purchase or procure new hybrid seeds the next year.

Interesting article:

http://www.newfarm.org/international/pan-am_don/aug04/tepotzetlan.shtml

Good source for heirloom non-hybrid seeds:

http://www.seedsofchange.com/
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[*] posted on 3-13-2008 at 07:50 PM


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[*] posted on 3-13-2008 at 08:00 PM


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"Where There Is No Doctor, a village health care handbook" by David Werner.
I consider it a must have, with simple, helpful illustrations for those with reading difficulties.
P.


If this is the book I've seen in the past, it's real country. It has pencil illustrations of corn cobs and the proper way for a for woman to wipe herself with them.
Reading this book showed me how much we in the US are unaware of much at all. These people live right next door to us.
Amazing...

[Edited on 3-14-2008 by DENNIS]

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[*] posted on 3-13-2008 at 08:28 PM


That's the one. I never looked at a corn cob the same way again.

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[*] posted on 3-18-2008 at 11:07 AM


Si, I know about the hybrid seeds and numerous endemic varieties of corn which grow all over Mexico. And have been involved in the Mother Seed project of Oventic, Chiapas which is creating a bank of these various strains. I don't bring pounds of corn seed to supplant a staple that they already use and what works best in their ecosystem.
What I bring is packets of lettuce, beets, carrots, onions, squash, radish, turnips, tomatos - the same stuff anyone would grow in their gardens that is produced by Burpee and the well known seed sellers for individual gardens, not crops for mass distribution. I don't think Baja families can buy seed of this type just anywhere. Gardeners who know how to collect seed can use them in successive years; some seed produces volunteer crops the next year, like tomatoes and lettuce. And I expect that some of the seed will not do well in a desert climate, but if they have a garden and enjoy watching things grow, they can use them and see what happens. The people I gave the seed to seemed to be happy with what I brought.
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