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In my own mixed Mexican-American family the "greener on the other side" appeal of the USA is slowly wearing off. Part is social, part is economic. I
have four sisters-in law who live legally/illegally with their families in the USA. 2 have become US citizens and the other two don't even speak
english (after 17 years there). All of the kids are US born citizens of course. Some of their kids are honors students and some are a total
embarassmments- all due to parenting skill level, not lack of opportunity- IMHO. Some of my neices/nephews came back to Mexico because they didn't
like being made to feel poor or ignorant in the USA, back in Mexico they are solid middle-class and proud- good for them.
I also have one 19 year old nephew who gives me hope for Mexico. He is going to University, works hard and respects his family. His friends are all
the same. They aren't interested in what the USA offers although they love the video games, TV and technology. They are learning Mandarin because
they see Asia as an opportunity for Mexico. I just hope there's a few hundred thousand more like him out there. Mexico could use some educated
capitalists.
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jorgie
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Liss is good reading, much is covered. Except the end user. Where/when do we stop the end user and end the market ? Strange when people are users yet
looked upon as celebs.........slapped on the wrist and covered by the pink press. If there is no market and where is that market, what happens to the
trade?
Yup, there is corruption but corruption always has a market.
I wonder where the stones should be cast..................
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DENNIS
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Quote: | Originally posted by Woooosh
They are learning Mandarin because they see Asia as an opportunity for Mexico. |
Although inappropriate today, a saying in the 60s was, "An optomist learns Russian. A pessimist learns Chinese."
It was a different time.
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Quote: | Originally posted by Woooosh
In my own mixed Mexican-American family the "greener on the other side" appeal of the USA is slowly wearing off. Part is social, part is economic. I
have four sisters-in law who live legally/illegally with their families in the USA. 2 have become US citizens and the other two don't even speak
english (after 17 years there). All of the kids are US born citizens of course. Some of their kids are honors students and some are a total
embarassmments- all due to parenting skill level, not lack of opportunity- IMHO. Some of my neices/nephews came back to Mexico because they didn't
like being made to feel poor or ignorant in the USA, back in Mexico they are solid middle-class and proud- good for them.
I also have one 19 year old nephew who gives me hope for Mexico. He is going to University, works hard and respects his family. His friends are all
the same. They aren't interested in what the USA offers although they love the video games, TV and technology. They are learning Mandarin because
they see Asia as an opportunity for Mexico. I just hope there's a few hundred thousand more like him out there. Mexico could use some educated
capitalists. |
geeze woosh what's your point.. Maybe something is failing in the North?
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DENNIS
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That is some pretty sick ****, Grover. gosh darnn...What a ****** up world.
[Edited on 6-4-2008 by Hose A]
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jorgie
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calm down Dennis I'll yarn it with you over a Tecate at the Osterio[sic] beach resort in october....................
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Woooosh
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Quote: | Originally posted by rts551
Quote: | Originally posted by Woooosh
In my own mixed Mexican-American family the "greener on the other side" appeal of the USA is slowly wearing off. Part is social, part is economic. I
have four sisters-in law who live legally/illegally with their families in the USA. 2 have become US citizens and the other two don't even speak
english (after 17 years there). All of the kids are US born citizens of course. Some of their kids are honors students and some are a total
embarassmments- all due to parenting skill level, not lack of opportunity- IMHO. Some of my neices/nephews came back to Mexico because they didn't
like being made to feel poor or ignorant in the USA, back in Mexico they are solid middle-class and proud- good for them.
I also have one 19 year old nephew who gives me hope for Mexico. He is going to University, works hard and respects his family. His friends are all
the same. They aren't interested in what the USA offers although they love the video games, TV and technology. They are learning Mandarin because
they see Asia as an opportunity for Mexico. I just hope there's a few hundred thousand more like him out there. Mexico could use some educated
capitalists. |
geeze woosh what's your point.. Maybe something is failing in the North? |
My point is- Millions of the last two generations of Mexicans went to the USA and worked simple jobs illegally at first. They raised families of US
citizens who may or may not find themselves better off- for many reasons (economic, political, social). Instead of fighting for what's right for
Mexico- they wait for an amnesty that's not coming and press for rights and priveleges they aren't entitled to. These are the same people who need to
be present back in Mexico for positive social change to happen.
The next generation of Mexican young are more hopeful for their country and is staying put in Mexico using capitalist models for success fueled by
better education and technology. They know Mexico is stuck on stupid. They also see business opportunities in that.
It won't get them out of the current narco-mess though.
[Edited on 5-27-2008 by Woooosh]
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jorgie
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stupid is as stupid does.
Dennis, OK, it's on ......
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Quote: | Originally posted by jorgie
stupid is as stupid does.
Dennis, OK, it's on ...... |
No Way. Adiós. I don't like the "stupid" reference.
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Quote: | Originally posted by jorgie
Liss is good reading, much is covered. Except the end user. Where/when do we stop the end user and end the market ? Strange when people are users yet
looked upon as celebs.........slapped on the wrist and covered by the pink press. If there is no market and where is that market, what happens to the
trade?
Yup, there is corruption but corruption always has a market.
I wonder where the stones should be cast.................. |
The end user can never be stopped ...
All through history this is true, and your judgement will not change a thing, only create more pain and suffering.
People who live in glass houses (and we all live in glass houses because we are human) , should be carefull about the judgement making and the
stone throwing . Leave that for God.
CaboRon
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Quote: | Originally posted by CaboRon
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People who live in glass houses (and we all live in glass houses because we are human) , should be carefull about the judgement making and the
stone throwing . Leave that for God.
CaboRon |
CaboRon-----I beg to differ-------we don't ALL live in "glass houses". Many of us have nothing to hide, and simply don't understand the lack of
disapline in some others. Yes, we have temptations and feelings that are perhaps not accepted by general society, but many of us don't act on them
because we understand the mutual responsibility we have to each other to maintain a civilized society. Most of us know what is "right" and what is
"wrong", and we do "right", at least most of the time (some all the time).
There are consequences for those that do "wrong", and THAT is the way it is, and always has been. They bring the "pain and suffering" on themselves.
barry
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The glass house metaphor has always bothered me. The judgement of societal members, human or animal, at the individual level or the group level seems
to be essential to a level of societal order; necessary to avoid chaos. While I agree with the need to be careful in our judgement, I think letting
our own foibles be the guide leads to abdication and that doesn't make sense......at least to me.
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Quote: | Originally posted by Barry A.
Quote: | Originally posted by CaboRon
Quote: | Originally posted by jorgie
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People who live in glass houses (and we all live in glass houses because we are human) , should be carefull about the judgement making and the
stone throwing . Leave that for God.
CaboRon |
CaboRon-----I beg to differ-------we don't ALL live in "glass houses". Many of us have nothing to hide, and simply don't understand the lack of
disapline in some others. Yes, we have temptations and feelings that are perhaps not accepted by general society, but many of us don't act on them
because we understand the mutual responsibility we have to each other to maintain a civilized society. Most of us know what is "right" and what is
"wrong", and we do "right", at least most of the time (some all the time).
There are consequences for those that do "wrong", and THAT is the way it is, and always has been. They bring the "pain and suffering" on themselves.
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Barry A,
I bow to you who walk in purity in this life ... Just remember, Judgement is not for mortals to make, and many of the things you judge
to be "wrong" are merely the result of dogma and self righteousness.
I bow to you , oh holy one 
I am pleased not to carry your load 
CaboRon
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Barry A.
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Quote: | Originally posted by CaboRon
Quote: | Originally posted by Barry A.
Quote: | Originally posted by CaboRon
Quote: | Originally posted by jorgie
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People who live in glass houses (and we all live in glass houses because we are human) , should be carefull about the judgement making and the
stone throwing . Leave that for God.
CaboRon |
CaboRon-----I beg to differ-------we don't ALL live in "glass houses". Many of us have nothing to hide, and simply don't understand the lack of
disapline in some others. Yes, we have temptations and feelings that are perhaps not accepted by general society, but many of us don't act on them
because we understand the mutual responsibility we have to each other to maintain a civilized society. Most of us know what is "right" and what is
"wrong", and we do "right", at least most of the time (some all the time).
There are consequences for those that do "wrong", and THAT is the way it is, and always has been. They bring the "pain and suffering" on themselves.
barry |
Barry A,
I bow to you who walk in purity in this life ... Just remember, Judgement is not for mortals to make, and many of the things you judge
to be "wrong" are merely the result of dogma and self righteousness.
I bow to you , oh holy one 
I am pleased not to carry your load 
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--------"judgement is not for us to make"???? Society makes "judgements" all the time, via the courts and legislature. That is what civilized
societies DO--------what you appear to be championing is anarchy, it seems to me.
As far as I know, I carry no "load"--------to be any other way WOULD be a huge load for me to bear. (and yes, I too make mistakes, and accept the consequences)
Barry
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People Who Live In Glass Houses Should Not Throw Stones ( don't criticize other people when you yourself have faults and weaknesses ... )
"people who live in glass houses should not throw stones"
"People who live in glass houses should not throw stones" reminds us that we should be careful how we treat other people (with our words and actions)
because we can all be easily hurt. People "throw stones" at other people to try to hurt them, and one way that people try to hurt other people is by
saying bad things about them. If you lived in a "glass house" it would be very easy for other people to hurt you by throwing stones at you. "People
who live in glass houses should not throw stones" means that we should not say insulting things to other people because they could easily do the same
thing to us. Example: "Look at that shirt you are wearing! Did you buy that back in the '80s?!" Answer: "Hey, you're not so young yourself; people who
live in glass houses should not throw stones!" Something made of glass can easily break; it is vulnerable; and we are all vulnerable in different
ways. Sometimes we forget our own vulnerability and "throw stones" at other people in the form of criticism. A person might remind us that we too have
our own faults and weakenesses by saying "people who live in glass houses should not throw stones". Example: "Look at what time it is... you are late
again!" Answer: "Hey, how often are you not on time? People who live in glass houses should not throw stones."
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"we are all vulnerable in different ways"
(my observation-- Toneart
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Barry A.
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All true, Tony.
Sometimes I just think we have become too complacent and tolerant of the "things" that others do that are hurtful to their fellow man, and especially
those around them-------much of what others do is hurtful, even tho they may not realize it, and I just don't think we should accept that-------to do
so is to, in a sense, encourage the bad behavior----------abusing drugs, alcohol, etc. is hurtful to a lot of people, and the structure of society in
general---------too stand by and NOT be judgemental is too easy, and is not responsible, the way I see it. Obviously one has to be careful, and not
lash out, tho, and in that sense I agree with what I perceive you and CaboRon are conveying.
Also, I have never believed that one should hold back their opinion simply because what they are saying may appear hypocritical to some (or to
most???)----there are some things that are almost universally not acceptable, and occasionally we are ALL (most??) guilty of violating these taboos,
but I still think that bad behavior should be held accountable by all. This type of hypocrasy bothers me not at all------what is right, is right!!!
despite our own weaknesses and foibles.
On the other hand, we are all to unforgiving of our "leaders", and politicians-----they are simply humans, like us, presumably trying to do what is
right in their political business. They should be criticized, and punished when they do wrong, but NOT just cast aside, it seems to me, unless they
are truly guilty of criminal behavior.
Now I am mentally wandering-------------I suppose.
Barry
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