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Ken Cooke
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Location: Riverside, CA
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Mood: Pole Line Road postponed due to injury
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My advice gleaned from experience...
| Quote: | Originally posted by fishbuck
Okay the trip fell through today. She had a minor accident and is under a doctors care and must rest. It's as good of story as any. Might even be
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Fishbuck -- I've been told too many stories from the chicas in South America that I stopped believing them. I have become "Lie-Proof" as a result.
This sounds like your chica is stalling you. Do you have the option of going live w/webcam w/her? Has she begun to request $$ from you? Is there
anyone else in her family that is sick that needs $$ from you? These are some things to keep in mind as these chicas are known to work us
good-natured, employed Americanos. Just keep this in mind - its not meant as an insult. Keep enjoying yourself and be patient. If she is for real,
and you adjusted her flight schedule, she will arrive at the airport. If there are any more "accidents" or situations, then run and don't look back.
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LOSARIPES
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Ken... right on.
Fishbuck...... send no money.... the ticket should be refundable only to you -if refundable at all- and shouldn't be transferable...
Good luck
Aripes
God bless America
and Baja tambien
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Ken Cooke
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Registered: 2-9-2004
Location: Riverside, CA
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When I was visiting in February, I met a French-speaking Canadian from Quebec named Benoit (pronounced: Ben-waaa). He was divorced, 53-ish, stiff as
a board, and had a nice-looking Barranquilllera named Monica on his arm. He was sending her about $500/month, and she had no intentions of leaving
her hometown, nor marrying Benoit. He was heartsick, having flown to Barranquilla 4x w/in 1 year to try and scoop her up and drag her into the frigid
north (where he described most women as "Frigid" go figure), and he admitted to me (when she went upstairs to grab some things), that he didn't know
how to stop sending her money. I told him, "Tell her its the economy" and run and don't look back. He thought it over, but he was suckered by her
good (um, GREAT) looks. This is no way to go, but it happens so frequently that its sad to see. It happened twice to me, and no more.
Personally, I won't let a Nomad go through the pain I experienced if I can help it. That's why I'm so adamant about helping Fishbuck. I know the
game, because it was played on me.
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ELINVESTIG8R
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DON'T DO IT
Fishbuck please do not give any woman any money for anything. No Plane ticket, nothing. Not a dime. It is a SCAM SCAM SCAM. It's like that throughout
that region. I was never been scammed but have talked to girls over in Medellin Colombia who have scammed American men for money. I owned a porn site
business over there and I know what I'm talking about. I am know known as Porno Dude in here now and could give a crap. You are in for a world of
trouble dealing with women from over there. Do not do it. Date women here in the USA or Mexico but not over there. Take the advice of Ken, he knows
the deal too.
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Ken Cooke
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Not all women in Colombia lie,cheat&steal
| Quote: | | Originally posted by ELINVESTI8Do not do it. Date women here in the USA or Mexico but not over there. Take the advice of Ken, he knows the
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My advice if you HAVE to have a Colombian woman:
Gotta know Spanish,
Gotta just be there and not rely on meeting someone via Internet (scam-central),
Gotta be open to starting a family, because Colombian women are family-oriented,
Gotta have time to spend there in town getting to know her and her family, because (once again) Colombian women are family-oriented.
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Ken Cooke
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Location: Riverside, CA
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Mood: Pole Line Road postponed due to injury
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Its hard not to get caught in a web of Colombian beauty..
 AY, MORENA!!!
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ELINVESTIG8R
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Ken is right not all Lie Cheat and Steal. But many do. If you are meeting someone from a sex chat site do not go over there. You are letting yourself
in for a world of hurt. Financially emotionally etc. And that is not B.S.
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Ken Cooke
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Location: Riverside, CA
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| Quote: | Originally posted by soulpatch
Doesn't this kind of put the lie to the whole "gotta fly a thousand miles to find a good woman because American women suck" thing?
Women are women.......
| Quote: | Originally posted by Ken Cooke
When I was visiting in February, I met a French-speaking Canadian from Quebec named Benoit (pronounced: Ben-waaa). He was divorced, 53-ish, stiff as
a board, and had a nice-looking Barranquilllera named Monica on his arm. He was sending her about $500/month, and she had no intentions of leaving
her hometown, nor marrying Benoit. He was heartsick, having flown to Barranquilla 4x w/in 1 year to try and scoop her up and drag her into the frigid
north (where he described most women as "Frigid" go figure), and he admitted to me (when she went upstairs to grab some things), that he didn't know
how to stop sending her money. I told him, "Tell her its the economy" and run and don't look back. He thought it over, but he was suckered by her
good (um, GREAT) looks. This is no way to go, but it happens so frequently that its sad to see. It happened twice to me, and no more.
Personally, I won't let a Nomad go through the pain I experienced if I can help it. That's why I'm so adamant about helping Fishbuck. I know the
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Benoits problem was that he had no self-respect, and very little to provide 23 yr. old Monica. I gave him my advice, but it was painful. He was
completely in love with Monica, but the way Leidys and I saw it, he was compensating her for her time.
Tonight on the phone, Leidys reminded me that women are the same the world over - just like men are the same the world over. She says, "Men lie to
get what they want, just like women lie for what they want."
We're glad that we met each other - by chance, and I'm happy to be returning to see her soon.
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Bajafun777
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Location: Rosarito & California
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Mood: Enjoying Life with Wife In Mexico, Easy on The Easy
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Fishbuck, go where the women are like social volunteer clubs or organizations, social service fund raiser groups, volunteer at DIF foster care
shelters as many single women volunteer or work there, church organizations are definately where the females are, and if you are just looking for fast
times and fun fun sex then utilize the chatrooms, latina friend finder websites, cantinas, weddings not like the movies get invited but lots of
oppurtunties there, etc. Don't run in circles trying to force someone to link or pick-up with you unless your paying for it like the guy Ken was
talking about. Confucius say when lotto gambling don't chase the numbers let the numbers chase you----- get out there where the women are and believe
me they will find you. Women know what they are looking for so just get out there and let the women take over. Later--------- bajafun777
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fishbuck
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| Quote: | Originally posted by Bajafun777
Fishbuck, go where the women are like social volunteer clubs or organizations, social service fund raiser groups, volunteer at DIF foster care
shelters as many single women volunteer or work there, church organizations are definately where the females are, and if you are just looking for fast
times and fun fun sex then utilize the chatrooms, latina friend finder websites, cantinas, weddings not like the movies get invited but lots of
oppurtunties there, etc. Don't run in circles trying to force someone to link or pick-up with you unless your paying for it like the guy Ken was
talking about. Confucius say when lotto gambling don't chase the numbers let the numbers chase you----- get out there where the women are and believe
me they will find you. Women know what they are looking for so just get out there and let the women take over. Later--------- bajafun777
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Ya, Bajafun777, no doubt. I certainly haven't found my girl in the last 28 years I've been living hear in SoCal doing it my way.
My thing is that I need to live my life the way I want to. All those places sound fine. But just not my style.
My goal of looking in Baja and mainly Tijuana is that the girls are already where I intend to be. I mean I've already bought the land for a house.
So I'm looking for a beach girl to match my beachboy lifestyle.
I live in Newport Beach and work in Long Beach. And have for the past 20 or so years.
That's why I loved Jovanka my girl from Playas so much. But she was already to much of a citygirl and not enough beachgirl. She figured that out first
and broke up with me. She enjoyed me for a while 1st though. 
But Sofi is all beachbunny. Just exactly what the ole Fishbuck is looking for! 
"A ship in harbor is safe, but that is not what ships are built for." J. A. Shedd.
A clever person solves a problem. A wise person avoids it. – Albert Einstein
"Life's a Beach... and then you Fly!" Fishbuck
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Ken Cooke
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Registered: 2-9-2004
Location: Riverside, CA
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28 years is a long time
Times a wasting...If Sofi doesn't work out, I'll be on standby...and Barranquilla awaits!
Don't worry, Fishbuck...you'll make it happen.
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mtgoat666
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Registered: 9-16-2006
Location: San Diego
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What's wrong with you guys? There are millions of great women here in so cal and you guys are spending a small fortune to date women in some small
town half way across the world.
I find it odd to visit places like latin america or thailand and see so many middle age gringos and europeans hunting for subservient women.
ya know, if you are a normally adjustedf male and look at home for a gringa, you can probably find a sugar momma who earns big bucks -- you do the
house cleaning and provide for her needs and she will bring home the bacon and provide the $$ to fund your life of leisure 
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oldjack
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mtngoat....
maybe you could put together a tour... like the one I suggested Ken do... I am ready to retire and would like some nice lady to finance my leisure
activities... heck she could even participate... how about putting together a prospectus????????????
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Bajajack
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For all you unfortunates who can't seem to find woman on your own try this site, he's based in Torreon and from what I gather usually has a few
country girls to choose from.
http://www.cowboydelamor.com/
\"take what you can, give nothing back!\"
We have room for but one language here, and that is the English language... and we have room for but one sole loyalty and that is a loyalty to the
American people.\'
Theodore Roosevelt 1907
We can have no \"50-50\" allegiance in this country. Either a man is an American and nothing else, or he is not an American at all.
Theodore Roosevelt
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Ken Cooke
Elite Nomad
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Location: Riverside, CA
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| Quote: | Originally posted by mtgoat666
What's wrong with you guys? |
Mtn Goat, did you see the pictures I posted???
Why politicize our situation? I already do my own household chores, cooking, cleaning, house maintenance (for 2 houses!), taking care of the dogs,
etc. I don't need a woman to do this for me.
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mtgoat666
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| Quote: | Originally posted by Ken Cooke
| Quote: | Originally posted by mtgoat666
What's wrong with you guys? |
Mtn Goat, did you see the pictures I posted???
Why politicize our situation? I already do my own household chores, cooking, cleaning, house maintenance (for 2 houses!), taking care of the dogs,
etc. I don't need a woman to do this for me. |
sorry you thought i was "politicising" your skirt chasing (i wasn't).
i did go look at that "latin-wife" website you were linking to, a fascinating read  , but i think i will stick to the gringa that can keep me in the style i am accustomed to 
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Ken Cooke
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Registered: 2-9-2004
Location: Riverside, CA
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| Quote: | Originally posted by mtgoat666
sorry you thought i was "politicising" your skirt chasing (i wasn't).
i did go look at that "latin-wife" website you were linking to, a fascinating read , but i think i will stick to the gringa that can keep me in the style i am accustomed to |
No worries, then. I enjoy speaking Spanish and joking about Coastal culture, and whatever we do, it has to make us happy. I'm glad you have someone
to fulfill you culturally, and I likewise for myself.
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