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M
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Registered: 8-30-2002
Location: Laguna Niguel, CA.
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Mood: looking for joy...
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what IS THE CHEAPEST WAy TO MOVE A HOUSEHOLD?
I don't have a whole lot, maybe 2 pickups full. Are there truck rental Co.'s that go to MX? Any MX movers that will, PICK UP in the states? 60 miles
from border? What about import fees? Yes, I can do research online, but, SERIOUSLY, I am defending myself full time from the B.S. BHL is throwing at
me. The latest, criminal, court contempt charges that I refussed to sign the listing papers that would sell my home from under me, giving me 24 hrs to
vacate after escrow closes. The realtor, HE HIRED without my consent has 12 buyers who want in this complex. Mine is the ONLY unit available. How in
the hell am I to do that now? I have nowhere to go, no time to look just full time defending. I FEEL like lighting a match. lol...kidding, really.
ALSO, I have 3 pets to consider, all well behaved and fully trained. 1 non barking chijuajua, and 2 cats. They are the ONLY family I have. Seriously.
No siblings, parents, anybody. My long lost Baja family is about it. So, I truly need some helpfull advise.
Thanks again,
M
Looking for new adventures now; Always...
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MMc
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M, you need a lawyer. Half of the income you guys made while together is yours. Go spend it on good lawyer, sounds like you're seeing much of now
anyways.
Put your stuff in storage and check out places you want to live.
If there are 12 buyers today, there will another 12.
A good lawyer will put a stop to all this pretty quick.
Go hire a junkyard dog(lawyer) and turn it lose, that's what he did.
If you don't have the money for the retainer, a good lawyer will get it from the BHL
Don't burn down the house, burn down the BHL.
Fight girl!!!
Sorry, but that's the way it is.
MMc
[Edited on 11-10-2012 by MMc]
"Never teach a pig to sing it frustrates you and annoys the pig" - W.C.Fields
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David K
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I'm with MMc... Come on sister M, don't worry you deserve happiness.
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QUETZALCOATL
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Location: coming from or going to Baja
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When I moved from Ramona to Rosarito I had 4 kids ect...I moved using my truck, seems the easiest and cheapest way. Sadly I am not near you right now
to help but my wife's cousin who is Mexican/American is-he owns a construction company so perhaps one or some of his workers would be willing to help
for $ or a couple beers-if ya want u2u me about it-I'll ask him if it would be ok and u2 could chat to see if it would help.
in otin ihuan in tonalin nican tzonquica-Aztec saying for \"here ends the roads and the days\"
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thebajarunner
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A good attorney will likely make Mr Wondeful pay his fees on your behalf
You really do need a bulldog to snap at his heels for a change
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BajaBlanca
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M - there is a guy who is Australian who might be willing to help you. tomorrow I can look into this for you - he is an importer.
Two truckloads is a lot - perhaps consider selling some bigger items on craigs list, so as to get it down to one truckload and pronto.
Good luck with your move to Baja !
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bajaguy
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Location: Carson City, NV/Ensenada - Baja Country Club
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Move it to a storage unit in/near Otay and bring a little over at a time
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Skipjack Joe
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M,
You need to buy him out and keep the property. Get a loan, pay him off with it, and pay off the loan by renting out the house (with you living in it).
If at all possible don't sell the house now because you will never afford to buy another one. Make smart financial decisions at this time. Don't be
rushed or be reactive.
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Neal Johns
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M, See your U2U.
My motto:
Never let a Dragon pass by without pulling its tail!
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EnsenadaDr
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Location: Baja California
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I thought you said you were being evicted as of this past Wednesday....I am confused
| Quote: | Originally posted by M
I don't have a whole lot, maybe 2 pickups full. Are there truck rental Co.'s that go to MX? Any MX movers that will, PICK UP in the states? 60 miles
from border? What about import fees? Yes, I can do research online, but, SERIOUSLY, I am defending myself full time from the B.S. BHL is throwing at
me. The latest, criminal, court contempt charges that I refussed to sign the listing papers that would sell my home from under me, giving me 24 hrs to
vacate after escrow closes. The realtor, HE HIRED without my consent has 12 buyers who want in this complex. Mine is the ONLY unit available. How in
the hell am I to do that now? I have nowhere to go, no time to look just full time defending. I FEEL like lighting a match. lol...kidding, really.
ALSO, I have 3 pets to consider, all well behaved and fully trained. 1 non barking chijuajua, and 2 cats. They are the ONLY family I have. Seriously.
No siblings, parents, anybody. My long lost Baja family is about it. So, I truly need some helpfull advise.
Thanks again,
M |
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EnsenadaDr
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Registered: 9-12-2011
Location: Baja California
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Mood: Move on. It is just a chapter in the past, but don't close the book- just turn the page
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Good Lawyers want high retainers, but she did say she had her own attorney that was busy till last Monday...everything in the story changes on a daily
basis
| Quote: | Originally posted by MMc
M, you need a lawyer. Half of the income you guys made while together is yours. Go spend it on good lawyer, sounds like you're seeing much of now
anyways.
Put your stuff in storage and check out places you want to live.
If there are 12 buyers today, there will another 12.
A good lawyer will put a stop to all this pretty quick.
Go hire a junkyard dog(lawyer) and turn it lose, that's what he did.
If you don't have the money for the retainer, a good lawyer will get it from the BHL
Don't burn down the house, burn down the BHL.
Fight girl!!!
Sorry, but that's the way it is.
MMc
[Edited on 11-10-2012 by MMc] |
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Bajaahh
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I dont know you so take my advise with a ladrillo of salt but be careful, GET A LAWYER. Having gone through this I can tell you that it 'could' be
considered abandonment if you vacate the property and flee the country. Although I dont know all your circumstances, I HIGHLY advise you to get a
lawyer...and yes, you can get the judge to have him pay your lawyer fee's...
At the very least, you can buy a book at any bookstore which will educate you on the basics, I'm sure there are laws which protect you...
Buena suerte and stay strong fellow nomad!
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Curt63
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Location: San Diego, Ca.
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| Quote: | Originally posted by bajaguy
Move it to a storage unit in/near Otay and bring a little over at a time |
What he said
No worries
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Gaucho
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Registered: 11-7-2008
Location: Laguna Beach/East Cape
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Not sure if you've thought of this or not OR if you've already done it. If you file Chapter 7 BK right now it will halt everything. It's drastic but
it WILL stop the sale of your home.
| Quote: | Originally posted by M
I don't have a whole lot, maybe 2 pickups full. Are there truck rental Co.'s that go to MX? Any MX movers that will, PICK UP in the states? 60 miles
from border? What about import fees? Yes, I can do research online, but, SERIOUSLY, I am defending myself full time from the B.S. BHL is throwing at
me. The latest, criminal, court contempt charges that I refussed to sign the listing papers that would sell my home from under me, giving me 24 hrs to
vacate after escrow closes. The realtor, HE HIRED without my consent has 12 buyers who want in this complex. Mine is the ONLY unit available. How in
the hell am I to do that now? I have nowhere to go, no time to look just full time defending. I FEEL like lighting a match. lol...kidding, really.
ALSO, I have 3 pets to consider, all well behaved and fully trained. 1 non barking chijuajua, and 2 cats. They are the ONLY family I have. Seriously.
No siblings, parents, anybody. My long lost Baja family is about it. So, I truly need some helpfull advise.
Thanks again,
M |
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DENNIS
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Cheapest way to move a Household
http://www.goodwill.org/
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mcfez
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........"The realtor, HE HIRED without my consent"
In California......it is the legal requirement that BOTH parties sign the listing agreement. No realtor in his/her right mind would list the
house......their Ca. RE License would be suspended immediately....and would face a stiff fine by the California Department of Real Estate. Not to say
a civil action there after.
Unless I missed something here........this story has too many flaws to it.
[Edited on 11-12-2012 by mcfez]
Old people are like the old cars, made of some tough stuff. May show a little rust, but good as gold on the inside.
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rhintransit
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help the woman move on...
if everyone would just address the question at hand and stop editorializing and picking barely formed scabs off raw emotional wounds, she'd can try to
focus on what's most important.
[Edited on 11-12-2012 by rhintransit]
reality\'s never been of much use out here...
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Islandbuilder
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Registered: 11-9-2011
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minimize down to treasured items, get a friend to help load it into a rented trailer, and then tow it to MX and help unload. You follow in your car,
your friend takes the trailer back for you. From Laguna to Rosarito should only be a day start to finish.
I would suggest taking a breath and consider not abandoning your property. Get some legal advice and heed it.
Good luck.
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dtbushpilot
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Same here as the other thread, "M" has left the building, there's nothing to see here, move along now.....
[Edited on 11-12-2012 by dtbushpilot]
"Life is tough".....It's even tougher if you're stupid.....
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Bubba
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Why does person start a post and then dissapear?
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