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[*] posted on 2-27-2016 at 08:20 PM
Changes in Penny's Life


To all of Penny’s friends and supporters of her grandpas, some changes are coming soon. Penny will respond to this, but to write it all is just emotionally overwhelming for her right now. She would write to each of you separately, but just cannot do that right now. A few of you will hear from her very soon --- call this the ice-breaker. One cannot imagine how difficult this is for her.

It has been a little over 10 months since she lost her Murray. It has been a very difficult time for her. However, several of you have brought smiles to her when you visit her and her grandpas. And for all of you who have assisted her and her grandpas, she has often been overwhelmed by your kindness. I don’t know if any of you will ever know how much she loves and appreciates you --- and those who have visited, know that she always has a big hug for you.

It has been a real struggle emotionally, physically, and financially for Penny to decide how to proceed with her future. She has family in Oregon including an elderly mother who needs her. And of course, the grandpas are also now her family. While she is one who puts everyone else in first place, she is facing some serious health issues which cannot be ignored. The decision comes only after months of soul-searching. She has even had concern over her supporters and friends understanding. She is concerned that she may be letting some people down. Well, if someone does not understand, well I won’t repeat what I say about that, but you can fill in the blanks. Besides, I know you all will understand. However, it is important to her to explain and reach out to all of you.

Here is her basic plan for now, and of course, things can and do change depending on health and all. She hopes to spend a couple of months at a time in Oregon with family and then a month in Baja with her grandpa family. The home in Baja she rents is on the market, but the landlord has agreed to allow her to stay until it sells. After that time, she will be living in Oregon but hopes to return for a month at a time and stay at the Grandpa’s home. She will still be working to support her grandpa’s; she just won’t be there all the time.

She and I hope so very much that those of you who stop by the grandpa’s home to visit and deliver funds and goods will continue to do so. Many of you need no encouragement as some of you have said it was the highlight of your Baja trip. And for those who have been donating funds on a regular basis, I hope that will also continue and you can work out all details with Penny. So much good has come from those donations and I understand more big things are happening soon! You will personally hear from her very soon.

Again, I write this for my friend as it is important to her to communicate with all of you because many of you have been so supportive and have become friends. And may it all continue.

And from me, please keep Penny and her health in all your prayers and thoughts. She gives so much and is just a very special person. She has made such a difference for so many.

Thanks


[Edited on 2-28-2016 by DianaT]




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[*] posted on 2-27-2016 at 08:25 PM




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[*] posted on 2-27-2016 at 11:19 PM


Thanks for posting this. Good reminder of what they tell you on airplanes: put on your own oxygen mask first, before helping others around you.

Penny is lucky to have you explain these circumstances- please keep encouraging her to take a break from her hard work and manage her own well-being. (I had to do the same with my mom when she nearly died herself, while caring for her mother for nearly 20 years.)

Having watched older adults in my family care for even older adults, well... it is exhausting. I can't imagine doing this work for a whole household!

So.... thank you for being a good friend and keeping us informed.




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[*] posted on 2-28-2016 at 02:38 AM


AHHH. POOO...
Penny, do what needs doing. You have brought the papas to the forefront for many us and we use them as a place to make a difference.If we a going north we will always stop and give the rest of our ice chest. I will continue to help them as I can. I am sorry that I have not met you in person but I know you in your kindness and giving.
Penny, the world is a better with you in it.
Thank you, you are one of the good people of the world. My hopes and prayers are with you.


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[*] posted on 2-28-2016 at 07:43 AM


Tell Penny not to worry - that will only wear on her health. She has a good plan. Things will fall into place. Don't worry.
There's a lot of land around the home - can some of it be used for fruit trees, a large community garden? Might help in the long run.
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[*] posted on 2-28-2016 at 07:48 AM


I'm glad i got to meet Murray. We'll see you again Penny.



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[*] posted on 2-28-2016 at 10:55 AM


I know it has been hard to deal with your elderly mom, Penny. and you must stay healthy!

We surely will all continue to support the grandpa's and if you could always give us an update when you are down there - that would be awesome!






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[*] posted on 2-28-2016 at 12:38 PM


I am glad some got to meet Murray. He was also a really good person!

One of the projects has included a garden. Murray owned so many tools and was an expert with all of them. But one of my favorite pictures of him is him helping to build the garden using a machete because one of the elderly men told him that was the way to do it!

There have been so many positive changes, thanks to Penny and all those who have helped, and I am sure she will keep everyone updated!




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[*] posted on 2-28-2016 at 12:46 PM



I have been following this from the beginning, and must say that Penny and Murray have touched my heart

but the question I have now is what is going to happen with the grandpa's

any plans as of yet?
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[*] posted on 2-28-2016 at 02:43 PM


Quote: Originally posted by desertcpl  

I have been following this from the beginning, and must say that Penny and Murray have touched my heart

but the question I have now is what is going to happen with the grandpa's

any plans as of yet?


Penny is not stopping leading the way, she just won't be able to be there as much, but she will be in constant communication.

Of course we hope that all the help that has come from here and TalkBaja will continue whether she is there or not because it makes a MAJOR difference in the quality of life for the men.

Also, through her efforts, there are now more locals organizations that are helping and visiting church groups etc., Things like a local berry farm that donated great kitchen cabinets and winter clothing, local groups that come with food and cook, local heath care, groups that do haircuts and manicures, and on and on. One church group brought beds.

So while there are never any guarantees, we hope it will all continue now that everyone is aware of the needs.

So please carry on with all help. People from Nomads and Talk Baja have made an unbelievable difference.

Trust me, this has been so difficult for Penny. She loves those men and they love her back!

Thank you for asking that question.




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[*] posted on 2-28-2016 at 06:30 PM


You must All Understand, I will Never leave my Grandpas forever, they are My Family!! I just need to get a handle on my Health, spend some more time with My Mom, as she needs me also and I need her♡♡ I will come back and forth, spending equal time with Both my Families!! Please, Please, Please, allow me this time and know that the Grandpas and I are Forever Grateful for all you have done for us♡☆♡☆♡
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[*] posted on 2-28-2016 at 07:01 PM


Penny,

Right now your health is the most important thing and I know your mama and grandpas all agree on that! You are not capable of deserting anyone or stopping loving and caring for others. But right now, you and your health have to come first! Remember the Lucy sticker you sent me ---- yup, she is back. :):)

I know that all of your friends and supporters MORE than understand this and will continue to be there for you and your Grandpas. You have a real fan club who love and adore you and all for good reason!

And so many know that your grandpas are also very special.



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[*] posted on 3-1-2016 at 08:16 PM


Thank You Diana Trotter for attaching your Heart to mine and Never letting go♡♡ I will miss my Grandpas so Deeply while Im away, when I think or try to write about it my Heart Cries!! They are So Very Special to me, they bring me sooo much Joy, Love, and Strength♡☆♡☆♡ They also make me Laugh Alot, mostly at Myself!! You are Forever my Dearest Friend, Life Advisor, and Biggest Supporter in Everything I do, even when sometimes you dont always agree with me!!Lol!! I Love You my Dear Sister in Life♡♡♡♡♡♡
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