Pescador
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No violence report here
These days one does not have to look very far to get a report (sometimes in very gory and bloody detail) concerning all of the violence occuring in
Mexico but the Mexico we have experienced in the last week or so has been something entirely different. We live in a very small fishing village just
south of Santa Rosalia and following my wife's diagnosis of lung cancer, we have been very busy going to doctor's appointments, scheduling tests,
going to Chemotherapy and Radiation treatments, so when we hit a lull in the treatment sequence and had to wait for 60 days before they could schedule
a needed test, we told the Doctor that we were going to relax and recuperate in our house in Mexico. Not only did we think the warm weather would be
beneficial, bu we figured that a complete change of environment and surroundings might be a real positive change. In addition, the one thing that has
been a positive goal for my wife was she kept saying that she wanted to see her little house in Mexico.
We were totally unprepared for the reception and welcoming we received not only from our Norteamericano friends but from almost everyone in the
entire town. It has been a steady stream of people coming by and telling us how they lit a candle or said a special prayer and they wanted to see how
Marika was doing. It is a good thing that the parking around our house is so large but even the foot traffic has been somewhat overwhelming. I know
that sometimes life in the village is a real struggle and people are focused on what the price for squid is today or whether they will get some work
if so and so decides to build a new house, but in spite of all that the caring and concern is genuine and sincere. I find it hard to believe that
this is the same country and culture where they are killing each other like players in some gone mad video game and yet on a personal and human basis
there is a heartfelt caring for someone who is struggling with a health issue.
I am especially surprised at the widespread knowledge of Marika's condition and thought that even though a few would know because of a closer
personal relation, I am simply amazed at people who I have always managed to smile and wave at, who have come by to give us best wishes.
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woody with a view
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thanks for taking a minute to remind us what really matters.
ALL the best to Marika and you....
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Russ
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I don't think I have read a more touching report. And what great news this time of year. Welcome home!
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toneart
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You are in the right place, and are giving Marika the best chance for recovery. Bless you both. And thank you for posting this positive report! 
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chino
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thoughts and prayers!
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Osprey
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Could be some bias on my part but I think where ever you live, you reap what you sow. I'm sure the recent loving attention paid you and yours by your
neighbors reflects your history of warmth and respect for them. I don't share your amazement, just your pleasure. And I predict more good payback for
your wife.
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losfrailes
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Amen, brother!
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Udo
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Pecador:
Living where you live, the community is close knit, be it gringos or Mexicans.
And you are fortunate in that respect because I do not think you would have that kind of support here in the US, except perhaps from family.
Makes me wish that 2012 was here tomorow.
Our prayers are with you and everyone around you.
Udo
Youth is wasted on the young!
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tripledigitken
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Pescador,
That is a very moving post. You and your wife obviously are held in high regard in your community. It is indeed very good medicine being in your
Baja home with all the good thoughts around the both of you. Have a Merry Christmas.
Ken
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DianaT
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Best of luck to you and Marika. Thank you for sharing your story.
Diane
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Skipjack Joe
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I think you and Marika have made the right decision, Jim. You'll know what you need to know when it's time to know. Meanwhile you've done right by
going somewhere you love and be with people who hopefully will support you in leading a 'normal' life. Doing what you love to do is great for the
healing process. Your stay at St Rosalia will be good for the body and soul.
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BajaGeoff
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Best wishes to Marika!
Glad you both are in a happy, positive place.
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TonyC
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Thank you....for reminding me. The best for you and Marika.
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Kell-Baja
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Thank you for such a heartwarming post. With your and Marikas great attitude she will surely fight this. I will pray for your family and a speedy
recovery.
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Cypress
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Pescador, Good luck with all your trials and tribulations. Wishing you and your family a Merry Christmas.
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Bob and Susan
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god bless
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Sharksbaja
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That's what were talkin' about! Our friends in Mexico. Gracias.
DON\'T SQUINT! Give yer eyes a break!
Try holding down [control] key and toggle the [+ and -] keys
Viva Mulege!
Nomads\' Sunsets
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AcuDoc
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Hi Jim
Glad you guys decided to head south. I know it was hit and miss on that decision with Marikas health.
I know you usually head back in the spring but I'll be in Baja the beginning of May for a couple months playing in our old stomping grounds. I hope
you guys are here is has been some time since we sat around bs'ing
Again all the best to Marika and keep the emails/updates coming
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