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[*] posted on 12-10-2008 at 08:12 PM
No violence report here


These days one does not have to look very far to get a report (sometimes in very gory and bloody detail) concerning all of the violence occuring in Mexico but the Mexico we have experienced in the last week or so has been something entirely different. We live in a very small fishing village just south of Santa Rosalia and following my wife's diagnosis of lung cancer, we have been very busy going to doctor's appointments, scheduling tests, going to Chemotherapy and Radiation treatments, so when we hit a lull in the treatment sequence and had to wait for 60 days before they could schedule a needed test, we told the Doctor that we were going to relax and recuperate in our house in Mexico. Not only did we think the warm weather would be beneficial, bu we figured that a complete change of environment and surroundings might be a real positive change. In addition, the one thing that has been a positive goal for my wife was she kept saying that she wanted to see her little house in Mexico.
We were totally unprepared for the reception and welcoming we received not only from our Norteamericano friends but from almost everyone in the entire town. It has been a steady stream of people coming by and telling us how they lit a candle or said a special prayer and they wanted to see how Marika was doing. It is a good thing that the parking around our house is so large but even the foot traffic has been somewhat overwhelming. I know that sometimes life in the village is a real struggle and people are focused on what the price for squid is today or whether they will get some work if so and so decides to build a new house, but in spite of all that the caring and concern is genuine and sincere. I find it hard to believe that this is the same country and culture where they are killing each other like players in some gone mad video game and yet on a personal and human basis there is a heartfelt caring for someone who is struggling with a health issue.
I am especially surprised at the widespread knowledge of Marika's condition and thought that even though a few would know because of a closer personal relation, I am simply amazed at people who I have always managed to smile and wave at, who have come by to give us best wishes.




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[*] posted on 12-10-2008 at 08:24 PM


thanks for taking a minute to remind us what really matters.

ALL the best to Marika and you....




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[*] posted on 12-10-2008 at 08:31 PM


I don't think I have read a more touching report. And what great news this time of year. Welcome home!
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[*] posted on 12-10-2008 at 08:39 PM


You are in the right place, and are giving Marika the best chance for recovery. Bless you both. And thank you for posting this positive report! :saint:



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[*] posted on 12-10-2008 at 08:51 PM


thoughts and prayers!
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[*] posted on 12-11-2008 at 07:44 AM


Could be some bias on my part but I think where ever you live, you reap what you sow. I'm sure the recent loving attention paid you and yours by your neighbors reflects your history of warmth and respect for them. I don't share your amazement, just your pleasure. And I predict more good payback for your wife.
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[*] posted on 12-11-2008 at 08:19 AM


Amen, brother!
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[*] posted on 12-11-2008 at 08:48 AM


Pecador:
Living where you live, the community is close knit, be it gringos or Mexicans.
And you are fortunate in that respect because I do not think you would have that kind of support here in the US, except perhaps from family.
Makes me wish that 2012 was here tomorow.
Our prayers are with you and everyone around you.




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[*] posted on 12-11-2008 at 09:20 AM


Pescador,

That is a very moving post. You and your wife obviously are held in high regard in your community. It is indeed very good medicine being in your Baja home with all the good thoughts around the both of you. Have a Merry Christmas.

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[*] posted on 12-11-2008 at 10:01 AM


Best of luck to you and Marika. Thank you for sharing your story.

Diane




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[*] posted on 12-11-2008 at 12:47 PM


I think you and Marika have made the right decision, Jim. You'll know what you need to know when it's time to know. Meanwhile you've done right by going somewhere you love and be with people who hopefully will support you in leading a 'normal' life. Doing what you love to do is great for the healing process. Your stay at St Rosalia will be good for the body and soul.
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[*] posted on 12-11-2008 at 01:55 PM


Best wishes to Marika!

Glad you both are in a happy, positive place.




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[*] posted on 12-11-2008 at 03:11 PM


Thank you....for reminding me. The best for you and Marika.
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[*] posted on 12-12-2008 at 02:17 PM


Thank you for such a heartwarming post. With your and Marikas great attitude she will surely fight this. I will pray for your family and a speedy recovery.
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[*] posted on 12-12-2008 at 02:41 PM


Pescador, Good luck with all your trials and tribulations. Wishing you and your family a Merry Christmas.
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[*] posted on 12-12-2008 at 02:54 PM


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[*] posted on 12-12-2008 at 04:31 PM


That's what were talkin' about! Our friends in Mexico. Gracias.



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[*] posted on 12-12-2008 at 05:32 PM


Hi Jim

Glad you guys decided to head south. I know it was hit and miss on that decision with Marikas health.

I know you usually head back in the spring but I'll be in Baja the beginning of May for a couple months playing in our old stomping grounds. I hope you guys are here is has been some time since we sat around bs'ing

Again all the best to Marika and keep the emails/updates coming
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