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Osprey
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Half Clean?
Who is Half Clean?
Cleaned out the bodega. I didn’t imagine my spirit would be lifted by the experience. It’s not just a mechanical exercise – ranks right up there with
getting a new pig valve for your heart, meeting with your lawyer to change your will because your wife had a fight with her sister.
This time there were surprises. Getting real long in the tooth and now I have to start asking myself ‘will I ever use this camping gear again?’ or
‘would these boots fit me now’? Or how about ‘would they ever fit me’?
A small part of the grimy pull, look, dust off, evaluate thing was uplifting. I found a half dozen used up life jackets I decided to throw away
because I figured to keep them would be like keeping 30 year old parachutes. Surprised I can be level-headed about some things at my age.
Right here I’d like to state that all of us have, at some time or other, felt the need to clean out our home storage spaces and that there are no two
people on the planet who do it the same way or with the same methodology or results. My reason for this clarification now reveals itself. I believe
the exercise is unique in exposing basic human character traits like nothing else. The joker in that theory jumps out at me from the Catcher in the
Rye where Holden speaks ill of a classmate who is a secret slob.
With or without the joker, for me it is the knowledge that now that I have things just the way I want them (given the space) my next visitor might
take a mere glance inside and give me one of those famous grimaces you get when something smells real bad. It is entirely possible I could go back in
there right now and do it all over again, throwing more stuff out, derusting some old things only to draw a similar grimace from some other visiting
neatnik. There is a veritable rainbow of tidiness out there defining character or the lack of it for those who have tied their self esteem to just how
neat and shiny things must be (and remain forever in that state) in their homes and garages.
Some questions:
Things get cluttered, things begin to rust and/or collect dust. How long can a real Neat Nick go without doing something about it? Aren’t there times
when Nick is busy with business, emergencies, quick but necessary road trips?
What does Nick think of his new neighbor who has a hundred admirable traits except the neatness thing?
When, if ever, does Nick relax his death grip on the idea of everything lined up and shiny?
How deep does this stuff go? Are some so compulsive they cannot rest until the same “good as you can it” treatment is complete on the
boat/trailer/quad./truck/car?
What does he do, or better who does he become if he breaks a hip, can’t move about to rearrange and renew what others are ignoring?
What does Nick feel about another neighbor who is a card carrying buttwipe, loudmouth who keeps his things neater than Nick’s?
Is it possible the sometimes backbreaking routine or tedium of cleanliness is a labor of love for some? Does Nick whistle with the gleeful
anticipation of trashing his boat on a fishing trip just so he can spend all day putting things right again?
Who is considered the better person, the person more grounded and realistic --- Nick or Pedro who sleeps like a baby, birth to death, while not caring
a whit about the insidious assault of rust on his boat trailer springs and shackles? Some things succumb to ruin whether they are cleaned and
lubricated and sprayed or not. I’m wondering, does Nick, on his deathbed beg his survivors to ‘take care of my stuff, you know…’
I’ll field this last question myself. The answer is yes and the proof can be found in Egypt in the Valley of the Kings. Pharaohs, the head dudes, who
never had to polish or scrap anything, anytime had all their good stuff buried with them. They just weren’t going to take any chances.
Is there Nomadness upon the land? Is Nick out there hiding in plain sight? Nick?
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noproblemo2
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Well, as for the Neat Nick, so be him, as for me, yep I have my "clutter" stuff and I like it around me it's a part of who I am so even if it's old my
stuff could just be someone elses treasures after I am gone, may they have fun going thru it, but for now I just "might" occassionally use it.....
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Bajahowodd
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Somehow, upon reading this, I was reminded of a cable TV series called Hoarders.
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larryC
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What I hate, is when I clean out a bunch of stuff and throw it away, I usually need one or two of those items for some reason the very next week. You
can't win.
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Iflyfish
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I move it, she moves it and I move it back. At times it seems to move itself lending credence to the notion of chupacabras. Doesn’t everyone enjoy a
good movement?
Iflyfish
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Pescador
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You have somehow managed to hit upon a basic human need not too far above or maybe below things like nutrition, acceptance, and some of the other
baser needs that should not be mentioned on a family forum like this one. When Marika knew that her disease was, in fact, terminal, she spent a lot
of time worrying about her things and sense of order. She commented that it was very likely that I would date and have other relationships, but her
one overriding fear was that someone would come in and mess up her stuff. So this served a very useful purpose and I quickly learned that when I
cleaned up the garage it was never good enough and it was only when she did it that things became organized in a relevant and meaningful fashion.
Being the quick study that I am, I quickly learned that in order to keep the peace, I needed to always let her clean the garage (like I really wanted
to do it anyway).
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Osprey
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Pescador, do I understand that you actually let your wife TOUCH things in your storage space? (except the washing machine and soap) Most of us have
very strict rules about who can enter the storage area and who has permission to touch or move anything belonging to the king. Most of us delineate
areas, zones so as to be clear about permits: hazmat, sharp end tackle, delicate reels, rods and parts, special lubricants, tools (man tools not
gardening things), electrical gadgets and components, etc.
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Udo
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You're correct, in your assessment, George.
My wife is always threatening to help me clean either the shed or the garage, but she knows better than to touch anything in there...that's
my kingdom!
| Quote: | Originally posted by Osprey
Pescador, do I understand that you actually let your wife TOUCH things in your storage space? (except the washing machine and soap) Most of us have
very strict rules about who can enter the storage area and who has permission to touch or move anything belonging to the king. Most of us delineate
areas, zones so as to be clear about permits: hazmat, sharp end tackle, delicate reels, rods and parts, special lubricants, tools (man tools not
gardening things), electrical gadgets and components, etc. |
However...I have made one rule about the stuff in there. If I haven't used it in the last two years, or don't remember what it is for, it goes into
the yard sale.
Our annual yard sale (this one is from 2009)
Udo
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Martyman
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Udo
Where's your Keppel Lettermans jacket? $1000 for the record player? muy caro
Martyman
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BajaBlanca
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$100
where do you hold your garage sales !!! I want to go to the 2010 one !! Can I cart all the unsold stuff for our local fundraising garage sale ???? I
'm just saying .......
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vandenberg
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| Quote: | Originally posted by Osprey
Pescador, do I understand that you actually let your wife TOUCH things in your storage space? (except the washing machine and soap) Most of us have
very strict rules about who can enter the storage area and who has permission to touch or move anything belonging to the king. Most of us delineate
areas, zones so as to be clear about permits: hazmat, sharp end tackle, delicate reels, rods and parts, special lubricants, tools (man tools not
gardening things), electrical gadgets and components, etc. |
Jorge,
Have you anything regarding this in writing.
Would you be so kind as to advice my "better half" of this rule. Been trying to convince her, that, if things work smoothly, to leave well enough
alone. But she thrives on moving stuff around and having anything, including my most sacred belongings, in the same place for any longer then 6
months, constitutes a miracle.
And I'm afraid that, short of a divorce, my situation is hopeless.
Now, if I need an item, of which I know to have several, I just go to town and buy it. Faster and a lot less frustrating.
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Udo
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The Keppel jacket is still in the closet, along with that of my son's and daughter's.
| Quote: | Originally posted by Martyman
Udo
Where's your Keppel Lettermans jacket? $1000 for the record player? muy caro
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p.s. I theenk you misread the sign, Marty!
Udo
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Udo
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| Quote: | Originally posted by BajaBlanca
$100
where do you hold your garage sales !!! I want to go to the 2010 one !! Can I cart all the unsold stuff for our local fundraising garage sale ???? I
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a U2U is on it's way, BB.
We'll get together for the leftovers of my 2010, although my 2012 will be the largest, since I don't want to have any leftovers for when we move
South. All I want is my commercial kitchen equipment. Who knows...we may start a taco stand where we hang our shingle.
Udo
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Controlling Chaos
With neatness and order is a valiantly doomed attempt to keep the bogeyman away.
When I started to lose dearly-prized living beings to the great vast void out there, I gave up my anal retentive attitudes towards the things that we
collect over a lifetime.
Hubby can collect anything he wants, pile it anywhere and administrate and/or dispose of those items as he pleases.
Don't get me wrong, I am very easily distracted by bright and shiny things and I appreciate the people who care for and keep safe the beautiful
objects in their life so that they survive in the cultural record.
I just don't envy them.
“Travel is fatal to prejudice, bigotry, and narrow mindedness.”
—Mark Twain
\"La vida es dura, el corazon es puro, y cantamos hasta la madrugada.” (Life is hard, the heart is pure and we sing until dawn.)
—Kirsty MacColl, Mambo de la Luna
\"Alea iacta est.\"
—Julius Caesar
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woody with a view
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can i have dibbs on your fishing gear? you aren't gonna have time for mundane crap like fishing anyways......
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Udo
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I am still buying
all the fishing gear I can get my cheap hands on, Woody.
And I am still waiting for a Lowrance HD fish finder to go on sale. It is currently selling for about $650-$700 U.S. Even on the
internet the deals not to be seen anywhere. It's like Lowrance has some fair-traded deal with their dealers.
Udo
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woody with a view
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HD??? does it give you the weight of the individual fish on the screen?
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Udo
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It's the 1080P version of a fish finder. I saw the whole series of HD fish finders at Bass Pro in Rancho Cucamonga, and the resolution on the screen
is incredible!
One can easily discern baitfish from large ones.
Udo
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| Quote: | Originally posted by udowinkler
one can easily discern baitfish from large ones.
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Skipjack Joe
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I don't really like very neat people very much. The Felix Ungers of the world. They're hell to live with and are basically very unhappy people. Caught
in a vicious cycle of never ending work life just passes them by.
The trouble with neatness is that it's a waste of time. Good comes out of it but it's time that could be spent with new joys and experiences. The
satisfaction of, say, rubbing a car to the point where you can see your own reflection pales compared to the satisfaction of driving it down a country
road on a spring day.
And yes my desk is cluttered. Stuff builds up for weeks, then is dumped clean and starts to build up again. I've never understood those coworkers that
carefully line up all of their papers into equally space sections at the end of each day. But that's basic neatness. The neurotic ones are more
interesting to watch. They have an almost visceral hatred for dirt and disorder. It's akin to religious zealots and fanatics. Rigid personalities,
they have difficulty with change. Germs lurk everywhere and they're on a constant vigilance for their presence.
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