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[*] posted on 8-25-2010 at 10:54 AM


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back in the 60's someone built a 2 story in front of my boss' house in Pt loma overlooking the bay. After trying everything else he finally had his house jacked up 20 ft and had a very ugly foundation built under it (also installed an elevator). The guy that blocked his view couldn't stand looking at this ugly mess and moved away.:coolup:


WOW...Sensitive, wasn't he. If you're going to be an A-Hole, ya gotta be tough.
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[*] posted on 8-25-2010 at 11:04 AM


We all had a gentleman's (and gentlewoman's) agreement on building only a single story home fronting the beach in Coyote Bay. Had no disagreements at all for many years..30 or so...then one newbie decided to build a high rise home. Finally sold and left after several bee swarm attacks, coyote howlings late at night, a couple rotting corpses that landed in the yard from the highway above..yup...right in the yard. Damnest thing you ever saw.

The home has since been resold at least once and is now a rental.

Hey, what's that smell? ..Is that a dead raccoon up there on the highway?




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[*] posted on 8-25-2010 at 05:02 PM


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where is Moss beach?


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[*] posted on 8-25-2010 at 05:02 PM
Peac-cks, Goats and Geese


It worked for a family friend of ours. The neighbor sold up and moved away.

The bonus was goose eggs for breakfast, roast goose for Thanksgiving and Christmas dinner and goat milk and cheese for family and friends who were lactose intolerant.

Also, some family members made some good money selling peac-ck feathers in the markets.




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[*] posted on 8-25-2010 at 05:16 PM


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Deep down, I'm pretty confident that there's no way to enforce the lease in this country, but I'll go forward in hopes of doing just that, not merely harassing the a-hole who's putting up the building.


So....this turns into a war between you and Pedro.
There must be another way. That will be certain suicide.


Not really. I understand after the initial rush of rage that the toothpaste cannot be put back in the tube. I won't be crossing swords with my landlord; I'm not as stupid as I look.




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[*] posted on 8-25-2010 at 05:28 PM


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It worked for a family friend of ours. The neighbor sold up and moved away.

The bonus was goose eggs for breakfast, roast goose for Thanksgiving and Christmas dinner and goat milk and cheese for family and friends who were lactose intolerant.

Also, some family members made some good money selling peac-ck feathers in the markets.

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[*] posted on 8-25-2010 at 05:33 PM
Now that's the redneck solution


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a couple rotting corpses that landed in the yard from the highway above..yup...right in the yard. Damnest thing you ever saw.

Hey, what's that smell? ..Is that a dead raccoon up there on the highway?

Just stop and collect the roadkill and then on your pre-dawn departure for "Hunt'n and Gather'n" jez make a deposit...
Hell perhaps a "Narco" with a sense of humor is reading this right now:?:
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[*] posted on 8-25-2010 at 05:53 PM


I'm guessing that you would still have lots of ocean view left. Why let it ruin or dominate your life? You really can't do anything about it that won't cause you a bunch of anguish and discontent in the process. Forget about it, have a beer, get back on "Baja time"........just my dos centavos.....dt



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[*] posted on 8-25-2010 at 07:19 PM


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I'm guessing that you would still have lots of ocean view left. Why let it ruin or dominate your life? You really can't do anything about it that won't cause you a bunch of anguish and discontent in the process. Forget about it, have a beer, get back on "Baja time"........just my dos centavos.....dt


I came to the very same conclusion (substituting Stoli for the beer). It seems to me the landlord is the one with the problem. I can enjoy what's left of the view. Thanks.




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[*] posted on 8-25-2010 at 07:28 PM


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Yea...you never know sometimes mysterious fires break out in homes like that while the gringos are away in the states only to return to ashes.


Yup...funny how those things happen!:lol:
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[*] posted on 8-26-2010 at 07:48 AM


"... several bee swarm attacks, coyote howlings late at night, a couple rotting corpses that landed in the yard from the highway above..yup...right in the yard."

So maybe karma will even things out for you too over time.
Also, if he can do it, why can't you? An inexpensive deck to recapture your view? Bummer though when you have neighbors who infringe on your peace and happiness. Been there. Had a neighbor who would cut my trees when I was out of town - always claimed ignorance.
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[*] posted on 8-26-2010 at 08:59 AM


W, the view isn't that important to me that I would in turn obstruct the view of my neighbors by raising my profile. The more I thought about this, it occurred to me that my anger wasn't so much the loss of a view but more the virtual loss of a neighbor, a guy we thought was was reasonable and pleasant enough. But with this issue, it became clear to all of us affected by his construction (which is shoddy, by the way) that he could give a crap about the people around him. As I've had to say more than a few times in my life, I guess we'll have to live with it.



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[*] posted on 8-26-2010 at 10:00 AM


Sounds like you're well on your way to "peace, love and fish tacos" .....enjoy......dt



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[*] posted on 8-26-2010 at 11:08 AM


Just remember WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND.
It always works. life is to short to worry about the small stuff. He will get his payback. You won't have to re-pay him something will.




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[*] posted on 8-26-2010 at 11:39 AM
All good input here


Personally, I hate these types of issues as I just don't like to fight...especially when they are right next door. I have had neighbors cut my trees so they can get their view. Also had a neighbor get me to sign-off on a property easement so he could build closer to our lot line (what a FOOL I was!!). What gets me most is that these suckers come and go. After they have sh@t on your place, your view, your peacefulness they go and move somewhere else. It's funny how the next round of "new" neighbors just can't figure out why I am not so pleasant anymore when it comes to doing things along my lot line. :?::?:
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[*] posted on 8-26-2010 at 11:46 AM


They say good fences (or walls) make good neighbors! :rolleyes:



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[*] posted on 8-26-2010 at 11:49 AM


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Personally, I hate these types of issues as I just don't like to fight...especially when they are right next door. I have had neighbors cut my trees so they can get their view. Also had a neighbor get me to sign-off on a property easement so he could build closer to our lot line (what a FOOL I was!!). What gets me most is that these suckers come and go. After they have sh@t on your place, your view, your peacefulness they go and move somewhere else. It's funny how the next round of "new" neighbors just can't figure out why I am not so pleasant anymore when it comes to doing things along my lot line. :?::?:


Thanks for that post. That's what I was going through until I decided to play by Mexican rules when in Mexico. You can take the high road- but it is a generally a dead end here. After doing at three-point-turn at that end- I refused to be bullied and changed from fighting back with lawyers to fighting back with fists when attacked. You'd be surprised how much respect you get down here for bi*ch-slapping a dirtbag neighbor on a Sunday afternoon. Worked like a charm for me.




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[*] posted on 8-26-2010 at 12:01 PM
Case in Point - The Great 'Silk Purse' Wall


Payback can be fun!

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[*] posted on 8-26-2010 at 12:24 PM


Fish, you're absolutely correct... down here couple of "gringo's" kicking the sh!t out of each other would be considered entertainment...

This ain't the States ... a punch in the face, is not considered to be assault, rather an "attitude adjustment" ...

Just as long as the adjustment, does not cause any interruptions to normal business .... the fiesta and doesn't scare the kids....




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[*] posted on 8-26-2010 at 01:27 PM
Lease Breach


I understand that things work differently in Mexico. I am not totally sure why Baja Amigo is afraid to pee off the landlord. Since the landlord is clearly in breach of the lease, why not at least withhold rent from him unless/until he rectifies the problem (and tell him you intend to do so)?
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