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[*] posted on 7-19-2008 at 08:36 PM


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In an effort to not be repetitious, kindly see my remarks on the "...Tell the Truth" below.

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[*] posted on 7-20-2008 at 08:16 AM


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Gnukid, Cabo Ron, let us know, as you go village by village, changing the way things are. Give us a little advance notice of when to expect you in Miraflores, Santiago, Los Barriles, all up and down the peninsula doing the Lord's work, showing the gringos and Mexicans how to be better, live better, get along, progress, change. When I hear you are within spittin distance of this little village I will close the gate. The whole town will be the enclave that's tossed about a lot on this forum. Believe me fellas, we want to change our own way, on our own schedule, stumbling, bumbling but moving forward -- not as a cohesive mass but each in his own way. Pulleeees allow us the opportunity to do it without your misplaced concerns or charity that comes from your heart as a rabid caregiver or as egoistic gurus gone mad in a place you see as evil and inchoate.


I sure wish Osprey would start a school for those of us who are expressively challenged. I think this hits the nail on the head exactly in a descriptive and accurate portrait of the problem. I saw the same thing happen with a lot of the Peace Corp volunteers who had the same type of misguided and misdirected caring. As my dad used to say, "Don't show me how much you know until you show me how much you care."
God forbid that Gnukid show up in my wonderful little village with his crusader cape and laser light sword, and thank heavens we don't have a newspaper for fulano to quote every day in the forum to bring about the necessary social change and development.
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[*] posted on 7-20-2008 at 08:53 AM


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Gnukid, Cabo Ron, let us know, as you go village by village, changing the way things are. Give us a little advance notice of when to expect you in Miraflores, Santiago, Los Barriles, all up and down the peninsula doing the Lord's work, showing the gringos and Mexicans how to be better, live better, get along, progress, change. When I hear you are within spittin distance of this little village I will close the gate. The whole town will be the enclave that's tossed about a lot on this forum. Believe me fellas, we want to change our own way, on our own schedule, stumbling, bumbling but moving forward -- not as a cohesive mass but each in his own way. Pulleeees allow us the opportunity to do it without your misplaced concerns or charity that comes from your heart as a rabid caregiver or as egoistic gurus gone mad in a place you see as evil and inchoate.


I sure wish Osprey would start a school for those of us who are expressively challenged. I think this hits the nail on the head exactly in a descriptive and accurate portrait of the problem. I saw the same thing happen with a lot of the Peace Corp volunteers who had the same type of misguided and misdirected caring. As my dad used to say, "Don't show me how much you know until you show me how much you care."
God forbid that Gnukid show up in my wonderful little village with his crusader cape and laser light sword, and thank heavens we don't have a newspaper for fulano to quote every day in the forum to bring about the necessary social change and development.


It's what human beings do ....

and have always done ...

or we would still be living in caves ....

Humans, like it or not, impact the world around them ....

it is human nature to want to explore,

To build,

And to improve the world around us.

And it will always be so :saint:

I have no more control over this process than you do....

If you enjoy lliving at the edge,

and it is a great way to live ...

Well, you need to keep moving ,

because the edge keeps moving ....

CaboRon

***NOTE: There is strong interest in a bullet train from Las Vegas to Cabo San Lucas ..... They are thinking of nameing it the "Marlin Express" and is part of the master plan for CSL. Harrah's will be opening the first casino/resort :lol:

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[*] posted on 7-20-2008 at 10:06 AM


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Gnukid, Cabo Ron, let us know, as you go village by village, changing the way things are. Give us a little advance notice of when to expect you in Miraflores, Santiago, Los Barriles, all up and down the peninsula doing the Lord's work, showing the gringos and Mexicans how to be better, live better, get along, progress, change. When I hear you are within spittin distance of this little village I will close the gate. The whole town will be the enclave that's tossed about a lot on this forum. Believe me fellas, we want to change our own way, on our own schedule, stumbling, bumbling but moving forward -- not as a cohesive mass but each in his own way. Pulleeees allow us the opportunity to do it without your misplaced concerns or charity that comes from your heart as a rabid caregiver or as egoistic gurus gone mad in a place you see as evil and inchoate.


If you live in the region of Los Barriles, Santiago and Mireflores than you know that it is as serene as is it because of the cohesive actions of the community including obviuosly Chacha, Roberto, Chucky, Ronnie, Martine, Zulema, Lil' Martine etc... and the Police in the region while our friends, are scared to mess with people in any way that is not 100% correct. Never has a minsterial police in that region done something stupid like they do 30 kilometers to the north and south and for that we are all better.

Furthermore, besides increased efforts from within the communities, there are private patrols and now even more private patrols that go up and down the streets as a deterrent. These patrols are paid for by gringos.

Now, if you want to opt out and close your doors to this and not contrbute that is your choice. But believe when we talk about the region as a whole and those gringos who do not contribute to the minestrial police nor private patrols and participate in the cohesive efforts believe it is duly noted.

We believe as whole the biggest threat to the region are gringos who shut their doors.
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[*] posted on 7-20-2008 at 10:31 AM


Most of the gringos in my little village willing give support when they are asked. That's the big difference here. We don't have all-powerful commerciantes here so the whole town faces problems like those together. They have often asked for our input and no one, I mean no one has ever said no. There's a big, big difference between supporters and meddlers pal. Get down off your box.
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[*] posted on 7-20-2008 at 10:44 AM


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Most of the gringos in my little village willing give support when they are asked. That's the big difference here. We don't have all-powerful commerciantes here so the whole town faces problems like those together. They have often asked for our input and no one, I mean no one has ever said no. There's a big, big difference between supporters and meddlers pal. Get down off your box.


Hey Pal, Aren't you the one on the soap box? Do you actually disagree with anything I have said or are you just trying to start a fight? C'mon you are being silly.

Now, you should know by now I do not step up on a soap box, I go right to el monumento de la bandera, ahem, "Por que, para nosotros, las familias, los pangeros, maestros, rancheros, y tam bien ninos, padres, madres y abuelitos y abuelitas, no perdiste tios y tias, y los extranos, touristicos, egual gringos; estamos una communidad! Estamos juntos, y quando esta problemos aqui estan nosotros problemos, quando somos bien todos son bien! Una mejore socidad, mejore gente, juntos para todos! Ya no mas estamos separados!

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[*] posted on 7-20-2008 at 11:00 AM


Lets talk about it after the fight.
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[*] posted on 7-20-2008 at 01:31 PM


Gnukid, I think you must know how generous U.S. people are. Worldwide we hold a reputation for giving. You must know about all the fine people on this board and thousands of others who bring charity to Baja California's people -- from bicycles to shoes, to school supplies for the kids. Firetrucks and toys and money, etc. etc. Look at the Mac ladies in Cabo, Cathie Smith with Kidsmart, the lady in Mulege who has put hundreds of kids through high school. If I asked board members to memorialize all the things they know about done solely in the name of giving the board would be swamped for days. A list of just the things done in my village that I know about over the last 13 years would be staggering. All I'm asking is for you to allow all those good people and many more to come to do what they feel comfortable with, without guilt or pride, hurry or worry, without your urging, advice or direction. Character is doing the right thing when no body's looking. These folks have character to spare and your admonishments somehow bring that into question -- you have a knack for restating the obvious.
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[*] posted on 7-20-2008 at 01:44 PM


Well put Osprey. It is, on a personal level, very personal imo. What and why we give of ourselves to the benefit of others is your own business. Kudos for your desire to help folks. Just don't put strings, conditions or expectations while doing so. The rest will come natural.



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[*] posted on 7-20-2008 at 02:45 PM


WOW!
AND I THOUGHT THAT THIS GROUP WAS ABOUT TRAVELING IN BAJA, ROAD REPORTS, SHARING SECRET BEACH HIDEAWAYS, FISHING REPORTS, WEATHER REPORTS AND ACCOMODATIONS REPORTS

Where doest it say anything about soap boxes?




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[*] posted on 7-20-2008 at 03:24 PM


Its about free speech... There are many specific places here to wax on about the items you want to discuss...:cool:
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[*] posted on 7-20-2008 at 03:30 PM


I personally appreciate this sort of exchange. If one soft focuses there is a point to be made by most and an important issues being explored here. If one can read beneath the vitriol there is useful perspective here and sometimes the dialogue illuminates that. I have learned from this sort of exchange.

I appreciate Gnukids youthful enthusiasm and desire for progress and change as well as Osprey's seasoned perspective. Most of us on this board have a love of Mexico, I sure do, and at the same time I experience powerful ambivilance at times about the differences and how they impact me. I believe we are lucky to have a forum to discuss these issues accross generations and cultures. I do not appreciate however the flaming and ad hominum arguments that add nothing to the dialogue.

Now more specifically to jd's post.

I am an American, a citizen of the USofA. I have powerful feelings of both pride and shame about my country. I am old enough to have seen many changes and some not to the better. As an American, and in many ways a typical one I think, I have hope for a better future. I have a lifelong sense of enthusiasm and regard for science and innovation. This is pretty typical for Americans, most American's are optimistic people. We put a man on the moon. We have eradicated Smallpox, we have wiped out polio, we have developed antibiotics, survived a Great Depression and the list goes on. We now have hope that we can become energy independent. Most believe that innovation will provide a path out of our dependence upon foreign energy. (It may not) We have hope for this to improve our enviorment. There are now Condors again in the skys of California, the wolf has come back from the point of extinction. Hope is generative, hope can provide motivation for change.

The sort of optimism and hope that I have expressed above does not detract from my shame over how we have exploited the enviorment, for decades not taken seriously the energy crisis, at least twice invaded another sovereign nation with out provocation or legal mandate, killed thousands and displaced millions of ordinary human beings, provided the most massive redistribution of wealth to the upper classes in the history of the world, all in my life time. I have a profound hope that the rule of law and our institutions will one day provide remedy for at least some of these issues. Again my typical American optimism.

I would like you to notice how I am both critical and proud of my country of origin. I believe that this is what we are seeing in these posts and the current dialogue about them on this forum. We all have ambivilant feelings about both the US and Mexico, if you do not then you are not paying attention. Their are cultural differences, and they account for a lot of the differences that I read about here, some are not as articulate as others in expressing those real differences. There are also very real social, economic and political changes that are happening in Mexico that we have very real feelings about. One can be critical and want to change our country and still love it. It is not an either love it or leave it affair. We can both love and want to improve ourselves, our relationships and our nations.

As to the issue of giving and "doing good" it seems to me that one can give out patronization or one can give for the pure joy of being able to do so. If one has expectations of outcomes attached to giving then the giving has strings attached and is to be rightly suspect by those who are receiving. We all need to sort out this issue of sharing and giving. Are we really trying to make others in our image? Are we trying to exiate our guilt? Do we need the appreciation of others to feel good about ourselves? All good questions. For me it is the act of giving in and of itself that feels good, when I am at my best. When not at my best I am trying to manipulate others with my giving. Motivation matters.

I appreciate the sincere dialogue that I read here on BajaNomads.

Saludos!

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[*] posted on 7-20-2008 at 03:38 PM


Great post..:cool:
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