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[*] posted on 5-2-2012 at 06:57 PM


As someone who used to surf in front of Junior's house from time to time, often seeing him in the lineup, on his balcony on The Strand, and always obliging autograph seekers, I wish his family peace. We humans have a complicated brain and sometimes we feel utter darkness. Rest in peace Seau. Thanks for all you've done for the Oceanside community.



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[*] posted on 5-2-2012 at 07:02 PM


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As someone who used to surf in front of Junior's house from time to time, often seeing him in the lineup, on his balcony on The Strand, and always obliging autograph seekers, I wish his family peace. We humans have a complicated brain and sometimes we feel utter darkness. Rest in peace Seau. Thanks for all you've done for the Oceanside community.




ateo

that was very nice, I also lived in Oceanside
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[*] posted on 5-2-2012 at 07:44 PM


Why do some people have to be so cynical? If it was suicide, it's still none of our business how he died. He just died!!! Remember the good things about him. If you want to get pi&&& about it, do it somewhere else. Geeezzzzzzzz..
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[*] posted on 5-2-2012 at 08:31 PM
From New York Times report


According to the NYT his girlfriend returned from the gym and found his body on the bed.

and then....

At 1:17 p.m., or roughly four hours after Seau’s girlfriend called police, after officials said they performed “lifesaving efforts” on an unconscious Seau in his bedroom, dozens of family members and friends surrounded the coroner’s white van. The back door opened. Seau’s body was placed inside. As the van inched slowly down the street, through a crowd that numbered in the hundreds, Seau’s mother, Luisa, threw her hands in the air and screamed.


So, still want to say it was a private matter with Jr.
Think of the lives and memories he ruined, forever.
Like I said,
a very cowardly way to go!!
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[*] posted on 5-2-2012 at 08:55 PM
Another Life SHOT


Guess he wanted an Open Casket.

Chest Shot can be uncertain and unsuccessful.

But, it did work out.
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[*] posted on 5-2-2012 at 09:08 PM


It was reported that Junior had previsouly asked that his brain be sent to a lab for research when he dies, thus the reason for shooting himself in the chest, to preserve his brain for research.

This is so sad! He never suffered a concusion that I can remember. I think his girlfriend must have something to do with him doing this dasterdly deed. Very sad indeed... I feel so sorry for his children and his family.




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[*] posted on 5-2-2012 at 10:31 PM


Just saw his mother on TV................very sad for so many.

RIP
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[*] posted on 5-2-2012 at 10:44 PM


Interesting the judgement.... who to blame, cowardly way out... whatever.
None of us here know what was in his head.
None of us here know what the fame, fortune, steroids, youth, NFL, etc, did to his head.
He is no more or less of a loss than any other human that takes this tragic step.
Let it go and don't judge.

edit for spelling

[Edited on 5-3-2012 by soulpatch]




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[*] posted on 5-2-2012 at 11:13 PM


The new concussion hype had nothing to do with what he did this morning. The cliff he drove off a year and a half ago is a mile from my house. I knew the day that happened it was no accident. Just hours earlier he had been arrested on domestic violence charges that were later dropped. It seemed obvious to me he accelerated and swerved hard right down that cliff. Carlsbad cops felt otherwise and his actions were brushed under the rug. Seems to me all the signs pointed to a man in need of help. This is just my opinion and I'm not judging anyone. It is a very sad day for San Diego sports, especially north county fans and a HUGE loss for Oceanside. Love him or hate him, he was good for San Diego.

As Soulpatch wrote, we can never know what caused this. I tend to believe it was more a result of the football mentality, fame and fortune than it was helmet to helmet contact.

Peace to all Chargers fans tonight.

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[*] posted on 5-2-2012 at 11:37 PM


WOW !!! Just got home from Ensenada. What a shock. I just had dinner and c-cktails with him last week here in Carlsbad. Had no idea there was anything so serious going on in his life. What the HELL happened ??
What a loss for all of San Diego. He was just a "regular guy" and that's all he wanted to be.

Woody, I'm sorry you didn't know him. You would have thought differently. He was truly a nice man.....

..............REST IN PEACE,... Junior Seau..... You are loved by many...:no:...:(....:no:.


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[*] posted on 5-3-2012 at 12:47 AM
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I can see this is very close to many Nomad readers, some of you have first hand knowlegdge of Junior's life even away from the Game. It always seems as shame that a talented athelete can want to effect his departure from life when still young and outwardly healthy. We know by events that life was getting too much for him. We should let him rest in peace.

Concussions are not rare events in football, and the damage they cause to the brain can be great. As the brain has such an intricate composition and so much of it can be disconnected too many times by sudden shock, it a wonder there aren't more problems. In ice hockey there has been a rash of concussions since the game has grown in speed and violence, and we've lost three players recently, never knowing what problems they had that would cause suicide.

Pro atheletes often won't admit to injuries they've sustained, for many reason. If no one knew that Junior had suffered head truma on the field it doesn't surprise me. The direction in which he pointed the gun could be his own telling admission of what went wrong and what he wanted from an autopsy: confirmation that he'd chosen the wrong calling.
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[*] posted on 5-3-2012 at 07:20 AM


Prayers and tears. The ending of Junior's life seems contrary to how he lived his 43 years. We were HUGE Junior Seau fans. Rest in peace now.
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[*] posted on 5-3-2012 at 07:32 AM


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WOW !!! Just got home from Ensenada. What a shock. I just had dinner and c-cktails with him last week here in Carlsbad. Had no idea there was anything so serious going on in his life. What the HELL happened ??


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[*] posted on 5-3-2012 at 07:36 AM


The media is now showing the mother's cries of anguish every 15 minutes. I find myself getting really upset over the exploitation of what should be handled with greater sensitivity. I'm sure it gets people's attention.

Two thumbs down for ESPN.
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[*] posted on 5-3-2012 at 07:45 AM


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The media is now showing the mother's cries of anguish every 15 minutes. I find myself getting really upset over the exploitation of what should be handled with greater sensitivity. I'm sure it gets people's attention.

Two thumbs down for ESPN.


Not just ESPN. I heard it at least three times within an hour this AM on the radio....KOGO-600.....San Diego.
News vultures....the very worst.
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[*] posted on 5-3-2012 at 07:50 AM


I'm sure the mother can't be happy how this was handled. When you step up to the mike you have no idea how it will be edited and shown in public. You lose control. It's really a shame.
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[*] posted on 5-3-2012 at 07:56 AM


I watched it live, and it was pretty dramatic, no editing needed to make it more so. It got to me, for sure...



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Personal information
Date of birth: January 19, 1969(1969-01-19)
Place of birth: San Diego, California
Date of death: May 2, 2012(2012-05-02) (aged 43)
Place of death: Oceanside, California
Height: 6 ft 3 in (1.91 m) Weight: 248 lb (112 kg)

Career information
High school: Oceanside (CA)
College: Southern California
NFL Draft: 1990 / Round: 1 / Pick: 5
Debuted in 1990 for the San Diego Chargers
Last played in 2009 for the New England Patriots
Career history
San Diego Chargers (1990–2002)
Miami Dolphins (2003–2005)
New England Patriots (2006–2009)

Career highlights and awards
12× Pro Bowl (1991, 1992, 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 1997, 1998, 1999, 2000, 2001, 2002)
10× All-Pro (1991, 1992, 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 1997, 1998, 1999, 2000)
2× AFC Champion (1994, 2007)
UPI AFC Defensive Player of the Year (1992)
NEA NFL Defensive Player of the Year (1992)
AFC Player of the Year (1994)
NFL Alumni Linebacker of the Year (2003)
NFL 1990s All-Decade Team
San Diego Chargers Hall of Fame
San Diego Chargers 50th Anniversary Team

Career NFL statistics as of 2009
Tackles 1,849
Sacks 56.5
Interceptions 18
Forced fumbles 3
Pass deflections 21

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[*] posted on 5-3-2012 at 09:40 AM


I am saddened that a healthy young man felt the need to do this and even sadder for his family.

I also hate to see the attacks on Woody for his feelings. I don't think anyone can begin to understand how suicide affects those left behind --- often with a lot of guilt feelings that they should have been able to stop it, anger, and it often destroys other members of the family. Having had a brother who committed suicide, my first feelings upon hearing this news were similar to Woody's. It is easy to be angry, angry for his family that he chose to commit the ultimate in selfish acts.

My thoughts are with those left behind and their inevitable struggle with coping with this tragedy.

[Edited on 5-3-2012 by DianaT]




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[*] posted on 5-3-2012 at 09:43 AM


I cannot seem to get angry over this, only anguished.

What torture he must of endured in his head to force him to end his life.

To be a grieving fan is one thing, and an immediate family member quite another. My prayers are directed at them and Junior's personal friends.




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