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[*] posted on 12-17-2005 at 03:06 PM
JR's neck injury


bajabernie - No, he was never one to complain about aches and pains, etc. Let's see, when he was "about" 20 ..... that would have been about 1973, I'm petty sure he was living (mostly) in Los Gatos, CA. and Casper and possibly Gillete, WY. around that time. We both did a lot of traveling, sometimes together, sometimes not. But most everyplace he'd been, there'd be plenty of opportunities to fall out of swings and to damage himself in ways undreamable to us ordinary folk.

As I mentioned in a previous post, I'm gonna try to put together a short (hah !) biography of mi bro, and I can see that I'm gonna have to do some serious research.

I just got off the phone w/his first girlfriend, to whom i'd told the sad news a few days ago. When they were an "item", 1956 - 1960, he was already climbing the sugar maple in our front yardand seeing how many of the steps down into our cellar he could jump without breaking a leg.

Thanks for your concern and I hope to get together with you someday, as well as with as many of his Baja compadres as I can find. Best regards, Bruce
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[*] posted on 12-17-2005 at 05:33 PM
Jr will be missed


Indeed very sad news, and he will be missed.
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[*] posted on 12-17-2005 at 07:58 PM


having been offline for a couple weeks i was blown away to hear of JR's sudden death. it only serves to remind how precious life is, and how we should live and love each day and each of those who are near to our hearts.

hey JR-

put in a good word for me with the man up there, and save me a spot!!!




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[*] posted on 12-17-2005 at 08:35 PM


JR's neck injury

Bruce, I don't remember any swing incident, but he did fall out of the back of my VW van and did a few summersaults as I was getting on the freeway That would have been around that time. I forgot about Los Gotos and Wyoming. Wasn't he there with Duane for a while?
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[*] posted on 12-19-2005 at 08:20 PM


it sure is quiet around here.:?: I think we are going to miss him for a long time



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[*] posted on 12-23-2005 at 10:26 PM
Gone but not forgotten


Sometimes you just have to go to be missed. From his postings I would think J.R. had a full life. We are shared his love for Baja and he will be missed by us all.



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[*] posted on 12-29-2005 at 08:05 PM
Another memory


floats to the surface in this "Auld Lang Syne" time.

As I recall, JR took great pride in the "hits" to his posts.

Is he the alltime Response King?




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[*] posted on 1-5-2006 at 07:51 PM
Jr sounds more and more


like a Kerouac character, the more I read from this thread.

That's a complement, IMB.
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[*] posted on 1-6-2006 at 01:03 AM


Mr. Hook, I gotta thank you for the insight (Kerouac character). I've been trying to organize sumkinda bio to fill y'all in on JR, pre-baja. I think I'll just post the occasional tale, anecdote, "substance" induced episode, etc. & see how it goes.
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[*] posted on 1-14-2006 at 07:42 AM


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Mr. Hook, I gotta thank you for the insight (Kerouac character). I've been trying to organize sumkinda bio to fill y'all in on JR, pre-baja. I think I'll just post the occasional tale, anecdote, "substance" induced episode, etc. & see how it goes.


I think you can tell by the number of hits on this thread that we are all waiting . maybe you could do it in chapters. one at a time.

I also think it would be good If you attach them to this original thread to keep it going.




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[*] posted on 1-16-2006 at 07:38 AM


seem like he always received more hits than any other person that posted



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[*] posted on 1-16-2006 at 11:23 PM


Time has not been on my side for several months......and I am just now reading this post. An original has past, and the mold was long since broken. The views always stirred a near reflex action in many for the need to respond and suggest how out of touch, line, whack....etc..the comment or implication was. Ah, although we generally don't appreciate it at the time, we often miss those the most that forced us to defend or think differently.


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[*] posted on 1-19-2006 at 02:18 PM
Shades of JR


I see that Target is now marketing sheets and towels of 50% bamboo and 50% cotton...I wonder how JR would have responded to that!

Even though JR was able to tweak my buttons, I was really interested in his bamboo setup and would have wanted to see it sooner or later. I found him to be a pretty constant irritant until one particular post where I "listened" to him as if he were my brother instead of an unknown poster. What I heard was someone who wanted recognition for what he had accomplished without having to make a big deal of it himself. I had the idea that he meant well, even when he wasn't able to phrase it in a way that people could respond to positively. After that post, I had a more generous heart toward him, and he seemed a lot more human to me. I regret that I won't ever have a chance to meet him at his bamboo outpost to see what he is up to. I think he will be in our thoughts for a long time. Zoe
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[*] posted on 1-22-2006 at 11:08 PM
Travels with JR


So, sometime in the winter of, uhh, probably '73 or '74 I was living the good life in N. San Diego County. Some friends had a huge ol' dormitory of a house right across the street from "thousand steps", an easy five minute walk to a reasonably good and consistent surf break where I spent a significant portion of my plentiful free time.

My extremely self-indulgent lifestyle was made possible by my natural (New England upbringing, Scot/English heritage) parsimony and a fairly easy work schedule at an upscale "natural" food restaurant in La Jolla. A Labrador retreiver and a couple of undemanding girlfriends made Bruce a happy camper.

JR, as far as I knew, was living in Wyoming, gainfully employed and comfortable. We didn't communicate on a regular basis in those days, it was one of those times when our paths had diverged and a call on or near a birthday or Christmas was pretty much the extent of our keeping in touch.

But, and I remember this well, one afternoon after a session with the waves I wandered into our kitchen after a post surf shower to find a note from one of my roommates: "Call your brother" with a phone no. and an unidentifiable area code.
"Uh oh", thinks I, "stuck truck", or "legal difficulties resulting from herbal medication" or ... ",Oh hell, Might as well just call, if law enforcement, or worse a lawyer's office is at the other end I can always hang up. Or not".

So I called, he answered (whew!), and, strangely enough he wasn't in any difficulties (bigger whew!!) We chatted awhile and I discovered that he was living in Casper with a couple of friends and working (!!!) for an oil rig maintenance company.

He asked about what I was doing, I think I'd changed jobs since we'd last spoken and I filled him in on the details of my life and loves, he came back with "How'd ya like to come to Casper?" " There's plenty of room in the house'n I can fer sure get ya a job where I work, or some place else. Aaand.."

"Back'er down there, buckwheat," sez I, "I'm doin' fine right where I am." "Got a job I almost like, a car that runs, usually, and the surf's almost always pretty good."

"As I was trying to say" he broke in, "and I've got a ride for you from a friend that lives in Orange County and she'll pick you up."

"Wait a minute" I got in while he caught his breath, "What about Gandalf?"

Gandalf, a somewhat elderly Lab/Weimeraner, liked to travel and, being the child of a broken home, with a very casual, undefined shared custody agreement with one of my ex-girlfriends, had a place to seek refuge, in the unlikely event that I should actually up anchor and take off for cowboy country. JR, of course, knew this, and he knew I was weakening and that it was time to strike.

"By the way," he said, "Did I mention that there's about a foot of snow on the ground here in Casper and up on Mt. Hogadon there's new powder on a couple feet of base, no lift lines, even on weekends, and lift tickets are twelve bucks on weekdays."

"So, uh, when's your friend planning on leaving" Giving up all hope of resisting his campaign. Thinking, way back in the somewhat obscured parts of my brain: "There's more to this than he's letting on."

But no matter, I realized. I really don't have any good reason not to go. And, besides, payday's tomorrow and my rent's paid for another week.

"So, anything I should bring along?"

"Some avocados'd be great! And maybe some fresh fruit"

"Okay, then, let me have your friend's phone no. and we'll sort out the details."

"Great, Bro. Your gonna love it here." He enthused. "Oh, by the way, do you have some gas money? I'm not sure Connie'll have enough for the whole trip.






"Yeah, well, I'm sure that if you're setting me up for something I'm not yet fully aware of, It will, at least, be interesting." I said, already starting to have second thoughts.

"Hey," he countered, "Don't worry!" "Think Snow!"

About three days later, after "crashing" the first night with old friends of mine in Berzerkely, then the second night with friends of Connie's in Tahoe City and driving straight thru from there with only stops for fuel, food and repairing a slightly shredded tire, we arrived in Casper.




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[*] posted on 1-23-2006 at 01:48 AM
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[*] posted on 1-23-2006 at 08:03 AM


keep um coming Qvanbruce



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[*] posted on 1-23-2006 at 01:36 PM


Sharksbaja, Yep, as those of you who read his posts, went back and forth with him on Baja politics & sociology, and actually met the man know, there were many parts to JRbaja.

I think one of his best traits though, was his ability to share his enthusiasm for his myriad plans and projects and to involve many of the local folks and visitors in accomplishing them.

His collection and distribution of clothes and medicines to the victioms of the big hurricane a couple years ago comes to mind, as well as his attempts to increase the economic options for the teenagers and young adults in his adopted "hometown", San Bartolo.

Thanks for your post, I'm working along with his bio. Bruce




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[*] posted on 1-23-2006 at 05:05 PM
Travels w/JR ch. 2


So, arriving in Casper Wyo. after a relatively uneventful three-day trip from N. San Diego County, JR's girlfriend Connie and I found his house, a two story, sorta decrepit place, out in the suburbs.

JR was home, surprised to see us so soon. Previous "road trips" that we'd shared nearly always included various dramas that played havoc with schedules and arrival times. But he was glad to see us, almost suspiciously so.

He, and a couple of his current housemates helped get our luggage, skis and Connies' Saint Bernard into the house and we settled down inside to get warm, have a wee smoke, and catch up on our various adventures. Mine were quickly dealt with, as my life for the previous year or two, with the exception of having the house I was renting a room in burn pretty much to the ground, had been pretty much settled, and dull.

JR's, on the other hand, included traveling around, mostly by thumb, N. California, Nevada, Utah, Idaho & Montana. Getting an occasional job as a carpenter or whatever he could get to survive on, and occasionally supplementing his marginal income by redistributing la yierba verde y majica from places where it was available to places where it wasn't. We thought of it as public service logistics.

One of his stories, having to do with a trip from, I think, Teton Nat'l Park, where he'd worked in the local community driving, of all things, a laundry truck, to Gillette, Wyo., where, someone had told him, there were good jobs available in some mining operation. He and a couple of his buddies, one of whom had a car, pooling their cash, were able to nearly fill the gas tank and off they went.

The trip, for most of the way was apparently uneventful until they got caught in a blizzard somewhere along the way, ran their car off the road, (chains ?, snow tires ?, nah, not necessary) and had to spend several hours in the car keeping warm in the below freezing temperatures, first, until the car used up all the gas, by using the car's heater and then by just keeping bundled up in every piece of clothing they had and occasionally getting out of the car and running around in the snow to keep the blood moving.

They did make it to Gillette, and probably found some work but soon were on their (or at least his) way to Casper.

Soon after making it to Casper, finding some work there, I guess, but having a difficult time paying the rent on their house and keeping food on the table, JR made the call to me in Leucadia, extolling all the wonderful virtues of Casper and hoping that if and when I got there I'd have enough cash to at least pay the rent for another month. I did, but they'd already been given an eviction order and so another residence was found, a nicer house, really, just a block or so from the North Platte River. We all moved, I managed to bluff my way into a welding job at a local factory that produced heavy equipment for strip mining (up 'til then I had approximately zero welding experience, but having inherited just a bit of the same "gift of gab" that served JR so well, and figuring that even if they fired me, they'd have to pay my wages for the time it took them to discover my ineptitude, and that would indeed improve our finances) and ended up staying there, on the swing shift, for two or three months.

Just an aside to any of you who might find yourself in the vicinity of any heavy equipment, especially those giant dump trucks in the strip mining areas of Wyoming and Utah, don't stand too close to them, eh? Might be some "iffy" welds holding some of them together.

While I was learning to weld on the swing shift, JR found work for an outfit that did the tarring and shingling on the roofs of the ever growing number of two and three-story apartment buildings that were going up in Casper. It was still winter, so working on roofs, always windy and always near freezing temperatures, was challenging. Fortunately, though, due probably to an accident or two, when the wind speed got to the point that it was difficult to stay upright on the roofs or the temp got so low that the melted tar would re-solidify on its ascent from the tar pot on the ground to the roof, the foreman would shut things down, sometimes for the rest of the day. On those happy days JR'd rush home, get me out of bed (usually just a couple hours after I'd gotten home from my night job), and off we'd go to Mt. Hogadon.

In terms of vertical drop, or amenities available, Mt. Hogadon is nothing to write home about. It is, however, blessed during the winter months with perfect, and regularly renewed, natural powder. And, as JR had told me in his pitch to get me to Wyoming, on weekdays and even most weekends the lift lines were somewhere between non-existent and negligible. We spent a lot of time up on the mountain.

We both did work quite a bit though, as did the other folks living in our house by the N. Platte. By now the household included a couple more friends with wives, girlfriends, dogs, etc. that JR'd convinced to make the trek to Casper and, with at least two or three of us steadily employed most of the time, we were getting along quite nicely.

The cultural and social realities of Casper at that time were somewhat complicated. Those who could trace there ancestry back to the ranchers and cowboys, not really that
many generations ago, were considered the "real" Casper-ites. Next in the social order would be sheep ranchers, not quite as good a pedigree as those who'd been, or still were, cattle ranchers,then would come the "nouveau riche" of the recent oil and uranium booms, after them would be the professors, staff and students at the nearby University of Wyoming, and, at the bottom of the list would have been those recently arrived roustabouts, riggers, mechanics, etc. and people of indeterminate skills who were looking for most any kind of paying job. The "real" locals considered, and called, all those of the last group "hippies".

The various groups mixed, but not always successfully. One of the places in town that seemed to have the most eclectic mixes of folks was the "WonderBar", offering live music, and of course, dancing to mostly 60's and 70's rock n roll along with a generous helping of Country, or to us hippies, "chitkicker" music.

JR, of course, got along pretty well with most everyone on some level, despite his shoulder-length hair and general "hippie-ness". I do remember, however, more than one occasion when it was necessary to beat a hasty retreat pursued by, usually, some cowboys who'd made some unnecessarily rude remarks regarding our appearance and, being appropriately chastised, most often by JR, escalated the disagreement with fists and boots, to the point that a strategic withdrawal was the best option.

The writer's situation changed when, one evening at work he was offerred a ride to Denver the next day, a Saturday, I believe, to attend a Jefferson Airplane concert at the University of Colorado. Appropriate substances were administered on the way there, the concert was very much enjoyed and, when it was over the writer was unable to find his amigos from work who'd brung him, or their car. Not a huge problem - hitchike into Denver, find some hippies, arrange for some space on the floor, maybe even a couch and off to Casper the next day. It all worked out: the couch was comfy, the new friends interesting and generous and the extra day that I stayed there, inconsiderately not trying to contact JR to let him know I was OK, cost me the welding job, and a well-deserved lecture from my younger brother about responsiblities.

He, of course, turned the lemons to lemonade, though, by getting me a job with the roofing co. he was working for. We both seemed to be able to convince bosses, foremen, etc. that we were worthy of the more responsible jobs and we ended up sharing the "tar-pot" operator responsibilities which, in the middle of a Wyoming winter, is a real plum!

Not too long after acquiring that job though, a narrow escape involving an insufficiently ballasted crane on a three story roof, a foreman that insisted on lifting more weight on the crane than was sensible, and a view of JR from the edge of the roof that I'll never forget of him in full race mode trying to avoid being the point of impact for a pallet full of shingles, the crane and various other bits and pieces. After racing down the three story staircase and finding JR shaken, winded, but generally OK, we had a brief strategy meeting, decided there were better ways to go, and walked off the job.

Winter was over, no more powder up on the mountain, and the thought of working in the dust and heat of a Wyoming summer, and the fact that I didn't feel like looking for another job, anyway, got me on my way back to Leucadia. JR, coming to much the same conclusions as I had about Casper, made some calls and headed back to Yellowstone and a job fencing pastures. I visited him there a few months later and found him living in a cabin a few steps from the Snake River. Smelling like roses, as always.












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[*] posted on 1-23-2006 at 07:34 PM


I also was in that aria at that time working in the coal mines and oil fields.



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[*] posted on 1-23-2006 at 08:22 PM
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Indeed! and did you ever happen to find yourself in WonderBar? Did you ever get into a confrontation with the hippies?

Seriously, It was a most interesting place to spend the Winter and, mostly, I enjoyed my time there, as did JR and all us other hippie/workers.

I even remember a couple of very civilized encounters with the local cops.

One evening, driving to my night job @ Western Oil Tool Co., Stopped by a sheriff for general suspiciousness, the sheriff: "What's that smell, young man? Not some of that dope you kids smoke now, is it?"
"No sir, that's patchouli oil."
sheriff: "Patchouli oil, huh. What does that do for you?"
me: "Oh, nothing. I just like the way it smells."
sheriff: "Isn't that a WATCO hard hat you got there? You on your way to work?"
"Yessir, welder on the swing shift."
sheriff: "Waal, I'm glad to see you damn hippies doin' something besides smokin' dope and causin' trouble, but don't think you're foolin' me with that story about P'chooly damn oil. Get on off to work now, before you're late for your shift."
"Yessir, you have a good night now. Peace."




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