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[*] posted on 5-4-2014 at 04:50 PM
The Cheating Line


The Cheating Line


Some of this has appeared here before as bits and pieces of our Baja experience so please forgive the duplication. I was 58 and my wife was 54 when we retired, bought a house in Baja Sur 20 years ago. We both had worked in the insurance business in the west. Not being an Alpha (or even a beta) male I just muddled through the buying and moving process; paid $25k U.S. for a house, crawled through the closing and bank trust process, stumbled through the moving, visas, etc. just by doing what we were told to do by various regulators and advisors.

Can’t remember having any serious problems we couldn’t climb over or any really intractable people we couldn’t deal with. The place we bought was less than a fixer-upper – it had all the charm and character of a haunted outhouse but the price was right and after another $11k of fixing we had a livable place (a new bodega, new plumbing and electrical, a big concrete pila and 200 feet of decorative concrete walls and gates for security).

Before the remodel was finished we were taken advantage of, cheated by some local Mexicans. It stands out in our minds even today because it was the one and only time we had a problem.

As the new wall was going up, a pleasant little Mexican man with an orange van full of smiling kids stopped by to let us know he sold plastic household wares from his house in the village – he gave us a little hand drawn map to his house. A few days later we went there to buy a plastic garbage tub, tambo grande. He wasn’t at home but two of his many kids (not yet school age I suppose) were left to watch the place and they showed us his living room/warehouse full of plastic houseware. I found the tambo I needed and asked the price. The girl, the taller of the pair, said “Ochenta pesos.” I had the exact change and handed it to her and we turned to leave. They disappeared behind a blanket hung like a door into another room while we heard yips and screams and laughter from the kids.

Back at the house I found out what the yips were all about. On the bottom of the bin was a price sticker marked 60 pesos.

So I guess that’s my warning to you about Mexico. You can’t be too careful or you’ll be cheated at every turn. If it happened to us, it could happen to you. Out of defference to Soulpatch I will throw in with him to say buying a home in Mexico is not for everyone. The scary part for me is that after reading his family’s blogs it makes me shake and quiver at the thought of those millions of Mexico’s new immigrants from the U.S. and the rest of the globe who were afraid to buy, afraid of being cheated, who still come, who still live here (with millions more coming) in rentals, while facing all the bad things that happen to good people when they rent or lease on this side of the “Cheating line”, the U.S. Mexican border.
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[*] posted on 5-4-2014 at 05:14 PM


thanks for the warning!



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[*] posted on 5-4-2014 at 05:19 PM


There is a price then there is a Gringo price... In Hawaii, the same thing but it is called a Haolie price!



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[*] posted on 5-4-2014 at 06:00 PM


David, are there two prices at stores, banks, gas stations, markets, two prices for beer and spuds and TVs and cars and etc? You another one who thinks he begins to get cheated just after he crosses the U.S. border from north to south? Et tu, Daveeed!

I suppose you would want a Mexican cementero, handyman, auto mechanic to charge the same to some almost starving Mexican neighbor as he would ask of any foreigner if you really hold that in your heart enough to air it here.

WTF?, over.







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[*] posted on 5-4-2014 at 06:17 PM


I love the way you put the spin on things, thanks Osprey



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[*] posted on 5-4-2014 at 09:45 PM


I also think that most Mexicans, expect, to bargain. I have always found, even if the price is acceptable, you always have to offer less. I think it is built into the culture.



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[*] posted on 5-4-2014 at 09:59 PM


Osprey ,

I like your twisted honesty

Me thinks you and/or Pompano could make up the Sam L. Clemens of bcs.:lol:
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[*] posted on 5-5-2014 at 06:05 AM


Blue, I think you got Mexico confused with Bangladesh. Mexicans in my part of Baja think that gringos who want to haggle are simply cheap barrateros, not those visitors or new neighbors who are trying to fit in.
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[*] posted on 5-5-2014 at 06:21 AM


My Spanish born father spoke Spanish with a distinct Castilian accent. That made him even more of a target. Mexicans hate Spaniards.
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[*] posted on 5-5-2014 at 07:12 AM


Thanks Lencho, I shouldn't be so surprised and disappointed by the fear and loathing sometimes thrown around on this board with the very real rainbow of ways people perceive Baja and its people. With well over 8,000 members now on the forum, I still bristle over how wide the spectrum is; how does one square trip reports by Nomads who make all of us proud by their appreciation of the culture, by the depth of their kindness (and that returned) and friendship with new acquaintance, with endless threads about bear spray and ways to maim or kill imagined robbers and murderers waiting in the shadows?

How can one balance the countless online mags and blogs and newsletters from those happily hunkered down in Baja and Mexico with all the talk of "Don't buy anything, bla bla bla" "Never do this, never to that, always get an attorney, lock your car, lock your house, lock your heart, etc?"
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[*] posted on 5-5-2014 at 07:20 AM


That's the nature of "business". Starting when Adam sold Eve some overpriced vodka so she could make a c-cktail. :(:( And continuing when Eve sold Adam an overpriced apple-tini ;D;D
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[*] posted on 5-5-2014 at 07:35 AM


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Originally posted by Osprey
David, are there two prices at stores, banks, gas stations, markets, two prices for beer and spuds and TVs and cars and etc? You another one who thinks he begins to get cheated just after he crosses the U.S. border from north to south? Et tu, Daveeed!

I suppose you would want a Mexican cementero, handyman, auto mechanic to charge the same to some almost starving Mexican neighbor as he would ask of any foreigner if you really hold that in your heart enough to air it here.

WTF?, over.







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[Edited on 5-5-2014 by Osprey]


You confuse my observation as being some kind of approval for the two price system, it isn't. I am just surprised you seem unaware of its existence, that's all. It happens all over the world, I bet.

In Bahia de los Angeles maybe 12 years ago, I was charged a price for a tire repair... the next customer (a Mexican) inquired the shop owner how much for a tire repair and the owner (in Spanish) quoted him a lower price for the same thing. It is just a fact of life, I didn't feel insulted. Now, if I lived there instead of being a tourist on a vacation, I would have a chat with him perhaps?




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[*] posted on 5-5-2014 at 07:47 AM


David, perfectly understandable. I would charge you more. More than, oh, I don't know, almost anybody. Bet you wouldn't irrigate your cousin's place for the standard rate of a "phone in".
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[*] posted on 5-5-2014 at 07:57 AM


Cousin is not the same as countryman. Funny your comment... after I give so much for free to so many... happily, too.

As for my irrigation services, I have one price and it doesn't change if your home is in Rancho Santa Fe instead of Escondido.




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[*] posted on 5-5-2014 at 07:59 AM


The trick is to drive down in your new pick up full of expensive toys, and then tell everyone you meet how poor you are while you haggle over a dollar.
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[*] posted on 5-5-2014 at 08:49 AM


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The trick is to drive down in your new pick up full of expensive toys, and then tell everyone you meet how poor you are while you haggle over a dollar.





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[*] posted on 5-5-2014 at 08:51 AM


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David, perfectly understandable. I would charge you more. More than, oh, I don't know, almost anybody. Bet you wouldn't irrigate your cousin's place for the standard rate of a "phone in".


LOL!
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[*] posted on 5-5-2014 at 09:00 AM


If it wasn't for cheating gringos the locals wouldn't own all those fancy cars and beachfront homes. :lol:



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[*] posted on 5-5-2014 at 09:51 AM
Caveat Emptor


Saves on the Whine.

Having been introduced to the Mexican way (at Agua Caliente among other places) as a young child traveling to TJ in the '50s, the sharp manner of daily exchange was well-known long ago and I have NEVER been disappointed, unsettled or angry when encountering the Expected.

I've always been surprised at those who were caught surprised.
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[*] posted on 5-5-2014 at 10:07 AM


Once in Loreto 4 of us got two hotel rooms for a week, charged all our fishing trips, meals, booze, everything to the room. When we checked out the bill was 1,780,000 pesos and I paid with a smile = $560 bucks of extended paradise meant cheap thrills, again, in a country I grew to love no matter what the scam, the plan or the jam. Still feel the same.
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