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[*] posted on 5-6-2014 at 06:04 PM
Disrespectful and in poor taste


Dennis, and whomever continues to post nonsense on there - please consider when and what you post on the PATTON thread ..

I would think the family has enough to deal with, without smart-ass remarks .. especially since they were looking to print our information that would be useful to them.




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[*] posted on 5-6-2014 at 06:08 PM


And, Ensenadadr!! I have not commented because of the madness--mostly hers. I agree that we should mellow out!!!! Let's hope for the best. Tio
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[*] posted on 5-6-2014 at 06:37 PM


Why would the family even read the thread if not waiting for an answer to a question? If certain posts don't concern them....well, they don't concern them. Why act as though they're attacks on the family's sacred space when they don't even address the issue at hand....the missing person?

If the family needs to avoid the lame banter born of boredom, they are in control of that option.
Use it.




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[Edited on 5-7-2014 by DENNIS]




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[*] posted on 5-6-2014 at 08:40 PM


OP, about 3 weeks ago I spent 2 hours reading the thread all the way through.

If I was the family I'd want to punch Dennis in the face. His comments throughout were very insulting and uncalled for. Especially factoring in the suffering they were going through.



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[*] posted on 5-6-2014 at 09:26 PM


Ditto, Denny... grow down a peg. You've grown up, now go the opposite direction. You're out of line. PERIOD.

Sowwy, but I've been reading and you need to back the fuque off.

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[*] posted on 5-6-2014 at 10:07 PM


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[*] posted on 5-7-2014 at 07:22 AM


Wow. Now the "Heavies" are bashing each other. Yeah...peace, love and all of that BS.



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[*] posted on 5-7-2014 at 07:43 AM


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Wow. Now the "Heavies" are bashing each other. Yeah...peace, love and all of that BS.



It's just a bunch of ridiculous control freaks trying to get everybody lined up their way with censorship. They just spend too much time lingering around the cemetery.
"The Family," as they have become known here, lets their issue go dormant for periods of time, then reaches out again for assistance, which everybody is glad to give.
In those interims, we, according to some, are required to sit idly by in silence, but some others prefer to chat. It keeps the issue alive and at hand. The family should be thankful for that.
Eventually, the process will be completed.....over, and everyone will be able to grieve and move on. That would be the best result. Endless grieving is morbid and unhealthy.

In closing....all you who consider my occasional post to be disrespectful, can go screw yourselves. I'll continue to approach life, and death, as I see fit, so quit trying to tell me what I'm allowed to say....or not.




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[*] posted on 5-7-2014 at 07:59 AM


Dennis, ya got something to say, just say it, dont beat around the bush like that...:lol::lol::lol:



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[*] posted on 5-7-2014 at 08:03 AM


I'm with you on that, DENNIS. You know the family seems very appreciative in their last post and even with all the bantering they are human beings too and appreciate a little levity and diversion. After all Gary was social and a fun-loving guy as well.
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[*] posted on 5-7-2014 at 08:21 AM


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I'm with you on that, DENNIS.


Stay out of this, Janene. OUT




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[*] posted on 5-7-2014 at 08:32 AM


Dear Dennis, I could care less what all-a-y'all think, or do. So bravo to you for your 'approach to life, and death. .."

I suspect that if you who were the subject of that missing person, rather than Gary Patton, and it were your family who came to Nomad-land looking for input and help, and they were like the Patton family (define that as you wish) your level of understanding of my post would be far different than telling me to go screw myself. This is a subject painfully near and dear to me, so my sensitivity is directly related to that. I cannot imagine in 2014 going thru what the Patton's are ..

Having said that, I will add I think its unfortunate that some threads on discussion boards turn into free-for-all f*uck-you sessions ...

I still consider it disrespectful to post on that thread .. I do think there is nothing wrong with entertaining 'your-self/ves' with discussions of all kinds, related or not - on their own thread ..

Ever been to a cemetery? Do you walk across the mounds knowing there is someone buried below? I don't.

Doesn't make me right and you wrong, anymore than what/where you post on this, or any other discussion .. just as you express yourself I did the same.

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[*] posted on 5-7-2014 at 08:35 AM


CaboMagic- good idea to start a new thread vs making a comment on Gary's thread. Personally I think the parties in question have a right to post their suggestions. If another poster thinks the suggestion is a bad idea a respectful rebuttal is fine. The personal attacks are not helpful to the family and don't advance the discussion. If they want to attack each other how about using the u2u option vs clogging up the thread?
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[*] posted on 5-7-2014 at 08:42 AM


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Why act as though they're attacks on the familie's sacred space when they don't even address the issue at hand....the missing person?



I have to agree with this statement. The family's behavior in all this has been 'puzzling'. I've never commented on it before because they have a right to pursue their goals in their own manner.
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[*] posted on 5-7-2014 at 08:43 AM


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I'm with you on that, DENNIS. You know the family seems very appreciative in their last post and even with all the bantering they are human beings too and appreciate a little levity and diversion. After all Gary was social and a fun-loving guy as well.


and how well id you know Gary?
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[*] posted on 5-7-2014 at 08:49 AM


This is what I have gathered from the family who knew him. There have been statements on this board made that people that knew him said he was a talker and social. Don't we all go to Mexico to enjoy life and have a good time?

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[*] posted on 5-7-2014 at 09:12 AM


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This is what I have gathered from the family who knew him. There have been statements on this board made that people that knew him said he was a talker and social. Don't we all go to Mexico to enjoy life and have a good time?

[Edited on 5-7-2014 by EnsenadaDr]


Oh you made a statement of fact as if you knew him very well.

Some go to escape whatever, some go because that is all they can afford, and some go because they enjoy the culture and people. Some go to specialty schools after being denied entry in the US. Turns out there are lots of reasons people go to Mexico.
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[*] posted on 5-7-2014 at 09:29 AM


I wouldn't know. I never applied to a US Medical school. And with a young daughter to support, I couldn't have afforded to go in the states anyway. I never said I knew Gary well. It would seem to me that Gary didn't go for a specialty school. He was retired. He probably enjoyed the culture and the people. But then again, I am not saying any of this as a statement of fact, just from what has been posted about him.
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[*] posted on 5-7-2014 at 09:33 AM
Doctoring the Discussion


Calls for her chewing the FAT !

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[*] posted on 5-7-2014 at 09:48 AM


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I would but they took all my electronic devices away.

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